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The Single & Dating Scenes / Re: Focus on her initial interest
« on: August 16, 2022, 01:06:45 AM »
Her interests are your resources which is money.

If she’s asking for money upfront before meeting it’s most likely a scam. Real babies doesn’t do that. People that do that has no intention of meeting up with you. And if you’re legit sugar daddy you would have no problem with allowance. Only regular guys have this problem because they’re trying to get it for free.

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The Single & Dating Scenes / Re: Focus on her initial interest
« on: August 15, 2022, 10:02:05 PM »
Then I am a fool.  :'(

I have already told him that I love him, and not just once but everyday.

In the past, I was never the type to openly share how I really felt to the one that I adore. I don't want to make that mistake again. I am willing to take the risk and be seen as a fool, rather than regret not telling him just how much I love him.

Love has no room for mind games.

If you love someone then just love them purely, honestly, and sincerely.

Don't worry too much about who is doing or not doing.

Agree. That’s why I like to be upfront about my intentions. This isn’t regular dating where people don’t know what they want and you kind of have to  go along for weeks or even months just to find out the two of you aren’t on the same page. It’s a waste of time and resources and the sex isn’t even guarantee. Sugar dating cuts through the games and both are honest. Now I’m not saying every people are honest. Just like normal dating there are bad ones out there too.  But you’ll know when you see a good one.

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The Single & Dating Scenes / Re: Focus on her initial interest
« on: August 15, 2022, 09:46:26 PM »
Duplicate post

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The Single & Dating Scenes / Re: Focus on her initial interest
« on: August 15, 2022, 09:45:43 PM »
I believe in efforts. I don't think everything comes naturally.

It’s difficult to give an answer lol. But I’ll try to be honest with you as much as I can. I don’t chase in the sugar bowl. I’m providing support and she needs to be active and put in some effort into our dates like reaching out first “hey let’s meet this week” or “I had such a good time. Let’s meet again next week”. Things like that will make me feel appreciated. Is she silent between meets? Does she initiate text? If she doesn’t put in the effort then it’s not going to work.

Anyway, I like to be upfront. Things like that needs to be discussed before we even come to terms.



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The Single & Dating Scenes / Re: Focus on her initial interest
« on: August 15, 2022, 05:58:37 PM »
Why must it be all the man's responsibility? Why don't the women take responsibiliti es, too? They are mutually benefiting from the relationship. They have to excite us! They have to attract us! Etc.

Well like I already said… You’re either preselected by women or not and if you have to go out your way to find one and you have to put in a lot of time and energy for her to deal with you then chances are she’s not attracted and you’ve already lost. Women chase high value male. But guys who think a they have game, will blame it on their game. They will always secretly thinking that it has to be them doing something wrong which is leading them to get rejected.

Game don’t make men high value lol.

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The Single & Dating Scenes / Re: Focus on her initial interest
« on: August 15, 2022, 03:15:40 PM »
Once you are mature enough you will understand that relationships are mutual beneficial. You got to have more than just game. Women want a guy that can give them excitement and experience. A broke unattractive dude with game can’t do that. He haves no options and he have a boring life and focus on getting women for free watching how to seduce a woman videos lol.

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The Single & Dating Scenes / Re: Focus on her initial interest
« on: August 15, 2022, 03:06:19 PM »
And most of your successful dates are from sugar dating apps.  When you have a profile on there, like duh, they will hit you up because you created jobs opportunity for them.  Hit you up or not getting payed.  Nothing special about your success when it comes to women and dating. 

Please don't run around here and say that you are special just because payed hoez are hitting you up.   :2funny:

A lot of men get caught up on game thinking women are going to sleep with them. The fact is unless these men bring value, these women are not opening their legs to these dudes. She only sleeping with men she getting something in return, and  game is not enough of an exchange for them give their bodies to these non-select dudes.

Game is manipulation. You’re basically trying to get something that you can’t afford for free. You’re trying to get a woman  when you have zero value and options, trying to get a woman that’s not attracted to you nor fascinated with your life. You can deny it but this is the truth, I used to work in a store where customers try to manipulate there way to get a item they can’t afford.

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The Single & Dating Scenes / Re: Got Game or No Planning
« on: August 13, 2022, 11:44:07 AM »
Calling random girls is creepy esp when they don’t know him. Then he’s trying to use shaming language to guilt trip her into liking him. He’s doing it wrong.

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The Single & Dating Scenes / Re: What kind of people pay for services???
« on: August 09, 2022, 12:17:41 AM »
Sugar dating is a loophole to Prostitution.

This wall street journal article talks more about it.

"The mere act of advertising for a sugar daddy or sugar baby is  not illegal, Ronald Weitzer, a George Washington professor who studies the sex industry, told HuffPo. "The only illegal aspect would be if the individual receives some kind of direct payment or material compensation for sex.""
https://www.wsj.com/articles/BL-LB-40541


Exactly!  A sugar relationship is not prostitution. A sugar relationship is a relationship. It’s not wrong to financially support someone you date. It’s wrong however, to meet women in hotels and pay them for sex - that’s prostitution.

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The Single & Dating Scenes / Re: Focus on her initial interest
« on: August 07, 2022, 03:35:06 AM »
Is this what y'all talking about?  ;D

https://www.instagram.com/tv/CdAF34hJ2Ua/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

Not really because she gave him a choosing signal and made it quite evident she was interested in him.

If she didn’t give him choosing signals and he approached her it will always lead to a rejection lol

Approaching a woman first is already setting yourself up for disappointment, no choosing signal= no approach.


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The Single & Dating Scenes / Re: Focus on her initial interest
« on: August 06, 2022, 08:41:36 PM »
Many women have been won by chasing though. They want to see an honest interest among their various interests. Then if those other interests fall off, look who's convenient? Answer: the chaser.

The man who chases is a simp and she’s obviously not interested in him lmao.

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You go ahead and marry your sugar babies and I'll go look for that one hooker when I was 16 years old and I'll marry her too.  I cringed... :2funny:

I didn’t marry any of my regular gfs either  :2funny:

If I’m dating a regular chick I’m going to expect sex and intimacy too. I have enough experience and I know what I want. If she’s not giving me sex I will look for somewhere else. If I’m seeing a regular girl and she says she want to abstain from sex or if she’s making me wait even after we already been to 3 dates then I will no longer date her. I date like meka rules not Hmong or Asian rules.

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Most younger women aren’t attracted to older men, but some are, even in regular dating. It’s just much more common in sugar dating.

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The Single & Dating Scenes / Re: What kind of people pay for services???
« on: August 06, 2022, 07:17:18 AM »
Duplicate post. I was trying to modify the post but I keep clicking the quote tab.

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The Single & Dating Scenes / Re: What kind of people pay for services???
« on: August 06, 2022, 07:16:48 AM »
To be honest, most guys don’t get match online if they look like that. Normies and below do not get anything from women. Women only go for good looking Chads. Only the top 10-20% will get consistent dates. The rest are invisible to women. So yes we are ugly. Even average women wants a top tier man.   :2funny:

Men come to sugar land because they want to date hotter women who aren’t attainable through apps and in real life.

Do you think a normie can get a Staci in real life?

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