I notice a lot of the young guns are copying me when there's tensions at work...jsut stay calm, keep smiling/laughing...when someone comes at you in a passive aggressive or hostile manner, just say "okay"...say it fast and walk away.....LOL Just be the bigger person..let them win a petty argument..it's not worth it..just say "okay, got it, I got you" say it hella fast, leaving them wanting to chase after you but you're long gone by then...You let them win the battle, but you win the war...LOL