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Relationship => General Relationship => Topic started by: Cookies on October 09, 2018, 01:20:07 AM

Title: What does this means?
Post by: Cookies on October 09, 2018, 01:20:07 AM
Yug quas puj zoo nkauj kawg tim sis ua cas yug ho pum lwm tug tus quas puj zoo nkauj dlua xwb.  When your spouse made this statement in public, what does he means?  To me, he’s a cheater.  He do people’s wives.
Title: Re: What does this means?
Post by: thePoster on October 09, 2018, 04:45:07 AM
I cant read hmong.
Title: Re: What does this means?
Post by: floaty on October 12, 2018, 12:46:15 AM
stupid people always think the grass is greener on the other side. Definetly a cheater/womanizer.
Title: Re: What does this means?
Post by: Gucci K on October 12, 2018, 12:59:02 PM
Yug quas puj zoo nkauj kawg tim sis ua cas yug ho pum lwm tug tus quas puj zoo nkauj dlua xwb.  When your spouse made this statement in public, what does he means?  To me, he’s a cheater.  He do people’s wives.
i wouldn't take things out of context (as if he was cheating)...some men talks around the bush, instead of speaking directly to shame or disrespect you...it simply means, to improve, take better care and/or make yourself to look more presentable.  tu yus tus kheej kom xws li luag.
Title: Re: What does this means?
Post by: Reporter on October 12, 2018, 08:56:27 PM
Translation: One's woman is extremely beautiful but how come one sees someone else's women more beautiful only.

Something like that.


I cant read hmong.

Yug quas puj zoo nkauj kawg tim sis ua cas yug ho pum lwm tug tus quas puj zoo nkauj dlua xwb.  When your spouse made this statement in public, what does he means?  To me, he’s a cheater.  He duck people’s wives.
Title: Re: What does this means?
Post by: Cookies on October 12, 2018, 09:16:00 PM
i wouldn't take things out of context (as if he was cheating)...some men talks around the bush, instead of speaking directly to shame or disrespect you...it simply means, to improve, take better care and/or make yourself to look more presentable.  tu yus tus kheej kom xws li luag.
When people mistaken me to be his daughter numerous times?  Come on ZDN tseem yuav tu cev npaum cas ntxiv na? LOL
Title: Re: What does this means?
Post by: Cookies on October 12, 2018, 09:20:21 PM
stupid people always think the grass is greener on the other side. Definetly a cheater/womanizer.

😢😢😢😢😢 bingo!
Title: Re: What does this means?
Post by: Dok_Champa on October 15, 2018, 02:23:04 PM
Yug quas puj zoo nkauj kawg tim sis ua cas yug ho pum lwm tug tus quas puj zoo nkauj dlua xwb.  When your spouse made this statement in public, what does he means?  To me, he’s a cheater.  He do people’s wives.
Communication is important so why don't the spouse ask the other what he meant instead of assuming this or that.
Title: Re: What does this means?
Post by: Gucci K on October 16, 2018, 07:47:19 AM
When people mistaken me to be his daughter numerous times?  Come on ZDN tseem yuav tu cev npaum cas ntxiv na? LOL
tus yu tus kheej kom haib haib li poj laib! he ain't gonna want to look at another girl and even if he does, you got ten guys looking at you! ha!
Title: Re: What does this means?
Post by: Reporter on October 16, 2018, 12:58:47 PM
That's more on the youthful look side like thev laus, not so much on the tu ib ce kom xev xim lawg side like ZDN wants desires.


When people mistaken me to be his daughter numerous times?  Come on ZDN tseem yuav tu cev npaum cas ntxiv na? LOL
Title: Re: What does this means?
Post by: Believe_N_Me on October 18, 2018, 10:00:23 PM
I don't think you can expect your husband to be blind just because he is married to you. It's natural for him to notice other attractive women. His reaction and behavior is the only thing that matters.
Title: Re: What does this means?
Post by: Reporter on October 29, 2018, 01:02:45 PM
You're welcome.

We live with English everyday. It's normal to not know enough Hmong.

Thanks Reporter for the translation, can't read Hmong either. Been practicing on YOUTUBE though. 

I don't see anything wrong with my man looking at another beautiful woman. I don't feel threaten by other women, even I look at other beautiful women. At the end of the day, it's me he's in love with.
Title: Re: What does this means?
Post by: DuMa on October 29, 2018, 01:23:53 PM
Of course there are more beautiful things in this world but a good man will not entertain it.  His consciousness will not allow him to.  He has made his vows under the eyes if God, his families and friends and earthly rule by not committed adultery.  It hurts other people's heart and it is wrong. 

Title: Re: What does this means?
Post by: Cookies on November 02, 2018, 11:28:38 PM
Of course there are more beautiful things in this world but a good man will not entertain it.  His consciousness will not allow him to.  He has made his vows under the eyes if God, his families and friends and earthly rule by not committed adultery.  It hurts other people's heart and it is wrong. 


Duma u need help.
Title: Re: What does this means?
Post by: DuMa on November 03, 2018, 09:27:22 AM
Duma u need help.

Well let me help you to help myself. 

 

I just learned something from my co worker.  I saw her husband came to work, took her keys and go filled up her car with a full tank of gas just because.  I'm like dang it, who does this kind of stuff? 

You see in life, we need to learn the good stuff from other people cuz stuff like this is something our parents or education can not teaches us.  Believe me, when I'm married, I'm going to replicate what I saw.  I can not do it to any girlfriends cuz I know for a fact that she would want to marry me and then get disappointed.  Marry me first then I'll spoil her is the rewards I'm willing to give as my marital promises to her. 

You can never surprise your partner enough.