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Relationship => Marriage & Family Life => Topic started by: Risingstars on February 09, 2019, 10:59:20 PM

Title: Marriage
Post by: Risingstars on February 09, 2019, 10:59:20 PM
If your spouse starts to lose chemistry with you when falling in love, what does this mean? Like 10 nights you can only make love to her once. No more then 30 minutes or she stops.
Title: Re: Marriage
Post by: theking on February 11, 2019, 02:37:16 AM
Depends as there could be several variables such as health, energy level, not in mood/not turned on, etc....
Title: Re: Marriage
Post by: Peachy Fish on February 14, 2019, 02:12:25 PM
If your spouse starts to lose chemistry with you when falling in love, what does this mean? Like 10 nights you can only make love to her once. No more then 30 minutes or she stops.

She/he may just be stressed about something. Ask if something is bothering them. Also, 30 minutes is a long time. Lol. Just saying.
Title: Re: Marriage
Post by: duckwingduck on February 16, 2019, 12:40:52 PM
I don't think you can keep the excitement every day.  You need to stop having sex for a month for the excitement to come back.  If you eat ice cream everyday, it becomes a boring food.  But if you have it once in a while on a hot day, and you are in heaven :)
Title: Re: Marriage
Post by: YAX on February 20, 2019, 08:46:23 AM
If your spouse starts to lose chemistry with you when falling in love, what does this mean? Like 10 nights you can only make love to her once. No more then 30 minutes or she stops.
You sure she isn't gettin it elsewhere?
Title: Re: Marriage
Post by: Dok_Champa on February 20, 2019, 05:12:59 PM
If your spouse starts to lose chemistry with you when falling in love, what does this mean? Like 10 nights you can only make love to her once. No more then 30 minutes or she stops.
I'm confuse here..how can she lose chemistry with you when falling in love?  Do you mean to say falling out of love?  Anyway, let me assume she's falling out of love.. Hmmm, time for the two of you to have communications .
Title: Re: Marriage
Post by: VillainousHero on March 14, 2019, 10:36:37 PM
Sadly the reality of most relationships is that most people don't have chemistry together.  They just stick together cuz they think everyone else has chemistry and don't want to be the one's who aren't.

Wake up people!

Very few people know what it takes to make a relationship or actually to continuously build upon a relationship.  Most people think, marriage and that was the peak of that relationship.  Well it's all slopes downhill from there.

Relationship is about growth....grow th needs to start from seeds.  Most of all, both sides need to agree upon the seeds and growth.  Else nothing buds, nothing blossoms, nothing fruits, nothing...

Hence lazy people, always thinks the grass is greener on other side.  Cuz they to lazy to water and fertilize their own lawn.
Title: Re: Marriage
Post by: DuMa on March 14, 2019, 11:00:25 PM
10% ratio is good.  Some people are in the 1% and 30 mins is way too long.  I want to be done In 10 seconds and for rest of the time, seeing her make me a sandwich. 

Don't you ever complain cuz another thirsty mofos may love what you are currently getting.
Title: Re: Marriage
Post by: Mr_Mechanic on March 15, 2019, 07:02:37 AM
find ways to spice it up......but you both have to agree to it.
Title: Re: Marriage
Post by: Believe_N_Me on May 30, 2019, 11:55:24 PM
Just because she isn't that much into you anymore doesn't necessarily mean that she is cheating. Maybe you two are just out of sync with each other. People can grow apart.
Title: Re: Marriage
Post by: Risingstars on June 12, 2019, 08:29:04 AM
Lol yeah why is this thread pinned?
Title: Re: Marriage
Post by: theking on June 12, 2019, 01:39:32 PM
You sure she isn't gettin it elsewhere?

Perfect question example from an insecure person...
Title: Re: Marriage
Post by: Risingstars on June 12, 2019, 01:56:35 PM
Perfect question example from an insecure person...
Well I would of caught on to something if she was getting it from somewhere...no t sure but when a girl leaves her pants on during the night that's when you would know but I only heard this from my cousins though.
Title: Re: Marriage
Post by: YAX on June 17, 2019, 03:52:00 PM
Well I would of caught on to something if she was getting it from somewhere...no t sure but when a girl leaves her pants on during the night that's when you would know but I only heard this from my cousins though.
I've heard that from May Vang stories too.  ;D