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Title: Describe your last date...
Post by: nooneever on January 16, 2017, 12:05:52 PM
with someone you just met, or have been talking to for a while but this was the first time you guys actually did something together.

Don't google recommendation s; I'm looking for real personal stories on here.

Srsly, I haven't been dating for a while and would like some ideas.
Title: Re: Describe your last date...
Post by: theking on January 16, 2017, 05:14:54 PM
with someone you just met, or have been talking to for a while but this was the first time you guys actually did something together.

Don't google recommendation s; I'm looking for real personal stories on here.

Srsly, I haven't been dating for a while and would like some ideas.

Man it's been over 10 years but let me recall...


Saw her ad on Craig's...emailed her, got her digits, called to set up when and where, met up at the Great Mall in Milpitas, grabbed lunch at the food court, went to Halfmoon Bay, had dinner there, and split from there...Had a good time as she so we went to Bodega Bay on our second date...
Title: Re: Describe your last date...
Post by: Niello on January 30, 2017, 02:27:52 PM
Anonymouse that's scary :knuppel2:
Title: Re: Describe your last date...
Post by: Dom on January 31, 2017, 02:06:22 PM
Screwed each other
Title: Re: Describe your last date...
Post by: Phab Ej Dao Vue on March 07, 2017, 01:17:01 PM
My last date.

Sweet and wrinkly like a raisin but not really. I hear they're healthy for you so I had one.
























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Title: Re: Describe your last date...
Post by: lexicon on March 07, 2017, 01:43:52 PM
Lunch is less "formal" than dinner. And slightly less intimidating and obligatory, in case one party gets cold feet.

So plan accordingly. Brownie points for originality.



Title: Re: Describe your last date...
Post by: Gucci K on March 07, 2017, 02:11:15 PM
how did my last date go? 

it was very exciting...

she had text me out of the blue...a simple "hi" (of which, I had been waiting with high expectations).  i knew it had to be love at first contact.  since then, we had been texting/messaging on a regular and even on numerous occasions, into the early mornings.  seems like there was nothing we can talk about...our personalities meshed well together, we were able to joke with one another, be opened about our thoughts and with a genuine feeling, we actually cared for one another.

...so as I stated...it was very exciting building up to it....then when I finally asked her out on a date, I got denied!   :D :2funny: :knuppel2:
Title: Re: Describe your last date...
Post by: lexicon on March 07, 2017, 02:19:13 PM
Ouch. Sounded like you might have been the emotional surrogate, unwittingly.
Title: Re: Describe your last date...
Post by: Gucci K on March 07, 2017, 02:28:59 PM
 ;D ;D
are you telling me, she was using me?  playing with ma'feelings?  >:( :knuppel2:

gawd dammin it!  I'm so glad, I've only invested 24hours!    :2funny:
Title: Re: Describe your last date...
Post by: lexicon on March 07, 2017, 02:42:24 PM
Well, most likely considering you spent considerable time "texting/messaging on a regular and even on numerous occasions, into the early mornings."

Title: Re: Describe your last date...
Post by: Gucci K on March 07, 2017, 02:47:14 PM
dude, every minute counts!    :2funny:
Title: Re: Describe your last date...
Post by: Magic Mike on March 09, 2017, 09:42:51 PM
Taking notes.  :D havent been on a date for awhile.
Title: Re: Describe your last date...
Post by: Magic Mike on March 10, 2017, 08:35:41 PM
You should because the more info you have, the better. Remember, all woman are not alike. We have our own personal preferences and so forth. If you don't know, ask her duhhh.  :2funny:

I don't feel like going on any dates or meeting/talking to anyone at the moment. Maybe I'm heartbroken? I've been alone and maybe heartache syndrome is kicking in.  ;D Dear lord, help me!

Lonliness leads to cat woman.
Title: Re: Describe your last date...
Post by: Magic Mike on March 14, 2017, 12:19:15 PM
Sorry I'm allergic to cats. I'll die.  ;D I have a pocket bully puppy and oh god, so much work. I left her to my ex because I have no place or time for her. She's getting buff. I prefer no pets.

Are you still lonely? Did you just recently broke up?

Just bored. I dont even know why i come to a boring place like this. LOL
Title: Re: Describe your last date...
Post by: Mrs.Vang on March 01, 2018, 06:27:34 PM
At my age, it's a scary world out there.
Title: Re: Describe your last date...
Post by: Mrs.Vang on March 01, 2018, 09:21:03 PM
Do you have a story or two? I'll like to hear..


Everyone has a story or two.  May I hear yours?
Title: Re: Describe your last date...
Post by: Reporter on March 01, 2018, 10:47:35 PM
Story 1: I met her.

Story 2: She met me.

Story 3: We met.

Do you have a story or two? I'll like to hear..


Everyone has a story or two.  May I hear yours?

Title: Re: Describe your last date...
Post by: Reporter on March 02, 2018, 12:25:03 AM
True colors come out...

everything went well, the whole night...as I drove her back home, we were conversing very well....All the sudden a car tailgates me flashes their high beam. I don't know what happen but I lost my cool and next thing i know I was swerving and honking and shouting profanity.....
yup, there's goes it....no second date....when we got to her house, she opens the door, and frantically walks off....not a single word...I knew it was the last time I'll hear from her....on the flip side, if she had found it a turn on, and said, hey you were just standing your ground....she would had been a real keeper... >:D
Title: Re: Describe your last date...
Post by: captian on March 02, 2018, 12:56:52 PM
with someone you just met, or have been talking to for a while but this was the first time you guys actually did something together.

Don't google recommendation s; I'm looking for real personal stories on here.

Srsly, I haven't been dating for a while and would like some ideas.
my last date i told her i didn't want anything serious so she should expect anything. we went out for lunch and ended spending the day together and night together. she was pretty good in the sheets, if you know what i mean. lol. she texted me a few days later but i didn't respond back.
Title: Re: Describe your last date...
Post by: thePoster on March 03, 2018, 12:15:18 AM
Screaming and cursing in a car with another girl..

I don't think that's a good at all.

It can be scary to a girl.

she was probably scared thinking you're not right in the head.


Anyways!  My last date was that one girl.

We're just friends but I guess it's a date.

So I asked her if she wanted to go try out a restaurant because we're meat eaters and I heard of a place with good steak so I thought I'd ask her if she wanna come along, I know she was alone that weekend and probably bored too.

So I pick her up.  We're googling map our way down, we make it.  That's when she started talking about how she wants to touch an elephant becuase they're all gone.  I'm thinking to myself "that doesnt make sense, how can you touch an elephant if you said they are all gone, extinct?"  So I had to explain to her elephant's aren't extinct and they might be endangered but they are not extinct and that if she really wants too, she can go to Thailand becuase that's where I rode one or she can go to a zoo and she can at least see one.  Then we found parking and I park by the curb, it's a poor parking job but oh wells.

We walk like probably a good half mile to the spot because of parking.  We saw a shoe shop and she wanted to check it out and so we did.  Didn't see the sneakers she was looking for.  Then we searched for the steak place and we finally found it.  We got in, sat down.  It smelled like a bakery shop!!  We ate our dinner, it was actually pretty good.  We just talked about, I'm not sure what we talked about, my memories bad! 

Oh yeah, we started talking about we need to get in shape and she said I'm starting to look good.  And I told her, she needa start running so she can keep her skinnie waist.

Then we was done and she wanted to eat this cupcake with an oreo on top.  She been eyeing and talking about it all night!  And so when we left she bought it. 

And so we left and walked back...

And we got lost trying to find my car... but luckily I pulled out google map and being a man who can read a map, I directed our way back..

But dang!  It looked scary going back, it was already dark and there wasn't alot of traffic or people on the streets, it looked very run down and ghetto-ey.  I was scared..but we was talking so I guess it made it so we didn't look like scared, I'm not sure if she was scared or not but we both talked and commented on how it just looked different from when we first got there and parked the car.  She said she got mace so she aint scared... So I guess we would've been good. 

Then we got in the car and I dropped her off at her place and that was that!

But if you're looking for date ideas...I guess dinner's or lunches etc are cool... but sometimes, you don't wanna eat... you probably wanna do something where you can enjoy something together, yeah eating is something you can enjoy together and talk about stuff... but, I would prefer..well I liked this girl, and I was looking up things to do, and there was like local cooking class, art classes, etc etc, you should look into that.  I think things like would be better for dates. 
Title: Re: Describe your last date...
Post by: theking on March 05, 2018, 12:37:00 AM
We went out for lunch then to a tea tasting afterwards. He kept staring at me. I kept staring at something else.. and then I ghost him a week later... haha. I know I'm terrible. But... jokes aside, he's a very nice catch just not my catch. What can you do?

You said it!!!
Title: Re: Describe your last date...
Post by: Phab Ej Dao Vue on March 10, 2018, 04:38:11 AM
Thank you to the person who +1 my retarded post. hehe
Title: Re: Describe your last date...
Post by: DuMa on March 10, 2018, 11:33:38 AM
NXT date at the end of this month.  We both taking PTO n heading to the OC southern California.  We play by ear, don't have a plan to what to do yet.  Don't even Early book rooms either to save a penny.  Hotwire Expedia all I need when I need. 

When guys take women on road trips, he has horns growing out of his head.  That devilish thinking ya know.  The anticipation of opening up that gift for the first time you know? 

With experiences, I'm not nervous at all.  Been down this road so many times before.  By the following week, we go out with another victim.  It's the endless cycle of an old maid bachelor n bachelorette.  Never gets old unless you call it quits yourself. 

If I was a freak, I'll take you guys posted journey and I would try to repeat it with different dates. 

Have a date this Sunday.  She wanna eat Mongolian BBQ.  I no care what we eat.  I just need a companion to cure my Sunday loneliness problem.  No football so I'm free for women duties on any given Sunday.  Holla at yo boi.  Ha
Title: Re: Describe your last date...
Post by: ImpatientAsTheWind on March 18, 2018, 02:45:32 PM
I'll describe my most memorable date... We had mutual acquaintances and a friend gave him my phone number. He asked if I'd like to spend the afternoon with him.  He came to pick me up and surprised me with a picnic at the park.  It was the nicest and most romantic thing anyone had ever done for me.  He even brought my favorite dessert (a guy who did his research).  That's probably why I still remember it.  *sigh* I wonder where he is now and if he ever thinks of me time from time to time.  I think I broke his heart though because even though he was a sweet guy, there was no chemistry on my end, so we never got past that first date.  I would totally rewind time now though... Oh what my 20 silly year old self didn't know about my 30 year old self... that's the kind of man I need in my life right now.
Title: Re: Describe your last date...
Post by: thePoster on March 18, 2018, 02:56:16 PM
Heck yeah,

If there's no chemistry... there's nothing that can be done..

It doesn't matter how hot.. how beautiful, how handsome..  if there's no chemistry then might as well move on.  Good for a one night stand and just to  have someone around while you find another but same here..

If me and her don't have any chemistry, no matter how much I want to like her... I just can't seem get into her.

Me and a guy had just this talk today!  It was about a girl and he was like "I was trying to talk to her and it was so hard, it was like pulling teeth, she doesn't have any opnion about anything etc etc etc".

I just laughed, I asked to meet her, and he said next time we have a group going out he'll invite her.  I just wanna talk to her and see how she's like.