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General Discussion / I can see why theking thinks Hmong daughters should...becuz his mom...

« Last post by Believe_N_Me on Today at 11:54:32 PM »

...suffered an abusive marriage and relied on all her children. Therefore, she also let the daughters wear the pants in the family.

So yeah, she probably hoped to live with her daughters, too. This is why theking abandoned his mom because he felt that his sisters should take responsibility taking care of his mom while he went off to live his blissful life with his new Chinese family.

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General Discussion / Re: You're actually a bad nyab if you don't detach from your own parents

« Last post by theking on Today at 11:54:23 PM »

Not as "bad" as the HYPOCRITE lunatic kicking her own elderly mother to the curb just because she's too old to babysit her litter for her..

Despite all the sacrifice her elderly mom has made to raise her, she still has no shame abusing and then kicking her own mother to the curb like garbage..

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General Discussion / Re: The minute you marry a non-Hmong, your parents lost all kev cia siab to you

« Last post by Believe_N_Me on Today at 11:51:39 PM »

^^^

- said no good Hmong mother of the bride ever, except for the controlling ones.

 

Wow, now we know that theking is the daughter-in-law to his wife's Chinese family. theking went to ua lawv nyab because he abandoned his mom.

 

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General Discussion / Re: All I know is that these single mothers who came from Laos feel very sad when...

« Last post by theking on Today at 11:49:49 PM »

"Nice try" but you "failed"...

after have no shame kicking your own elderly mother out to the curb just because she couldn't babysit your litter for you..

Despite all the sacrifice your elderly mom has made over years, she still endures the abuse and getting kicked to the curb like trash. 

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General Discussion / You're actually a bad nyab if you don't detach from your own parents

« Last post by Believe_N_Me on Today at 11:48:50 PM »

Traditional Hmong do not appreciate or like daughter-in-laws who won't detach from their own birth parents.

The paternal mother-in-law DO NOT want her grand babies to have too much time at maternal grandma's house. She views the kids as her son's children.

So in essence, yes, many traditional Hmong do prefer married daughters to kick their birth parents to the curb for lack of a better word. lol

theking is just deflecting because he is an ungrateful son.

 

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General Discussion / Re: People write things all the time on PH, but theking did this in real life...

« Last post by theking on Today at 11:46:37 PM »

Not as "despicable" as the HYPOCRITE lunatic that kicked her own elderly mother to the curb just because she's too old to babysit her litter for her..

Despite all the sacrifice her mom has made raising her, she's still has no shame abusing and then kicking her own elderly mother to the curb like garbage...

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General Discussion / Re: All I know is that these single mothers who came from Laos feel very sad when...

« Last post by Believe_N_Me on Today at 11:44:52 PM »

Nope. Good Hmong mom's don't expect to live with their daughters and son-in-laws. Only those that are   niam tais cob ntxhais. In fact, during the wedding, they tell the daughters to go love the mother-in-law and that she is now the mother.

Some niam tais won't even watch the daughter's kids because they're afraid it will interfere with babysitting the son and daughter-in-law's kids. I believe someone posted something about it awhile back.

Nice try though. You failed. You're an ungrateful son. Period.

 

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General Discussion / Re: The minute you marry a non-Hmong, your parents lost all kev cia siab to you

« Last post by theking on Today at 11:43:58 PM »

What really cause "part of them to die" is having ungrateful kids...

Like the HYPOCRITE lunatic that kicked her own elderly mother to the curb just because her mom is too old to babysit her litter for her..

Despite all the sacrifice her elderly mom has made over the years to raise her, she still has zero shame abusing and then kicking her to the curb like garbage.

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General Discussion / Re: Even though hmgROCK is a bum who lives with his mom, his mom is happy about it

« Last post by theking on Today at 11:41:16 PM »

Yep hmgRock.

You had a good day today. 

what kinda of crack are you on???

 

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General Discussion / The minute you marry a non-Hmong, your parents lost all kev cia siab to you

« Last post by Believe_N_Me on Today at 11:39:43 PM »

Who cares how well off you are. Your parents might be glad that you're doing well for yourself but a part of them died on the inside. They know that there are parts of you that are off limits to them.

So quit bragging about how much you love your parents, and how you're so this and that...in their deepest of heart, they will always prefer that you marry a Hmong.

Your non-Hmong spouse will never compare to your siblings' Hmong spouses. Even if your parents don't get along with them. The Hmong spouses and their clan would have to be complete demons for your parents to really want nothing to do with them.

As Hmong people, we all know this is FACT, especially as it pertains to OG Hmong parents who grew up in the old country.