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Title: What would you do on a first date compared to a second or third date?
Post by: Giggles_Shyly on May 11, 2016, 03:41:03 PM
First impressions are important, don't you think? You don't go on a first date in rages and a tattered broken down pair of shoes, do you? How about body odor, you shower/bathe?

Now if you are trying to send the wrong impression, then I understand LOL but usually people dress nicer and well mannered than usual.

How many first dates have you had and is it different each time?
Title: Re: What would you do on a first date compared to a second or third date?
Post by: theking on May 11, 2016, 03:55:26 PM
First impressions are important, don't you think? You don't go on a first date in rages and a tattered broken down pair of shoes, do you? How about body odor, you shower/bathe?

Now if you are trying to send the wrong impression, then I understand LOL but usually people dress nicer and well mannered than usual.

How many first dates have you had and is it different each time?

That depends on my "date" so yes it is "different each time" with a new date or repeat date...,
Title: Re: What would you do on a first date compared to a second or third date?
Post by: Superan on May 11, 2016, 04:20:51 PM
First impressions are important, don't you think? You don't go on a first date in rages and a tattered broken down pair of shoes, do you? How about body odor, you shower/bathe?

Now if you are trying to send the wrong impression, then I understand LOL but usually people dress nicer and well mannered than usual.

How many first dates have you had and is it different each time?

Congrats!  O0 First dates are important and everyone of them should be different. Don't forget to post up the story of it as it will be interesting to hear your thoughts on the first impression with you know who.  >:D
Title: Re: What would you do on a first date compared to a second or third date?
Post by: FetishDream on May 11, 2016, 04:33:29 PM
First date is to impress but to me, I do it all the wrong way.  I will try to repress you but at the same time, show you a good time with my wits. 

Then after the cooling off period, it should be her that calls me up for a 2nd date.  Yeah I  know, that is why I never go pass the first date.   :2funny:

on second thought.  My first date with a married woman, I will show her what her husband is lacking.  Like a male gigalo, make her fall in love with me.  ha
Title: Re: What would you do on a first date compared to a second or third date?
Post by: FetishDream on May 11, 2016, 05:20:06 PM
This is a trick question?!

I'll do one of two things...1) take her to a fancy korean bbq restaurant like sakana's in plymouth.  Im taking her far because along the way back we're gonna have a conversation about hereafter or 2) im taking her to a club where im the best looking man among all the uglies...like AC/Pupraya.  Im not too worried about having a good time because its automatic due to the heavy drinking (shots after shots).  There's no end to the 1st date because when we wake in the morning, we're heading to some pho place to cure our hangover...the n back to the hotel to sleep it off, until evening and the date continues.

First impression is how she gonna go with the flow.

Is u feeling it?

If me and this guy go on our 1st date, I'll fawk him in the azz

2nd date, I'll fawk him in the azz again

3rd date, I'll visit him in the hospital with a dildo up his azz

Is you feeling it?   :2funny:
Title: Re: What would you do on a first date compared to a second or third date?
Post by: VillainousHero on May 12, 2016, 02:34:40 AM
I don't date, don't know how... :D

I just hang out, go out, stay in, gone fishing, or sleep in ...
Title: Re: What would you do on a first date compared to a second or third date?
Post by: Giggles_Shyly on May 12, 2016, 07:43:29 AM
LOL guys! So guys don't try to look their best on the first dates is what I get from most of the comments, why is that?

She not worth getting to know?
Title: Re: What would you do on a first date compared to a second or third date?
Post by: Giggles_Shyly on May 12, 2016, 08:46:34 AM
Hey I wear matching boxers and T's, does that count?
Title: Re: What would you do on a first date compared to a second or third date?
Post by: Giggles_Shyly on May 12, 2016, 09:01:06 AM
LOL! So when a someone starts wearing boxers and T's only, they given up on dating? Ha! That is new to me. ;D
Title: Re: What would you do on a first date compared to a second or third date?
Post by: Giggles_Shyly on May 12, 2016, 09:24:45 AM
 :2funny: YOU ARE HILARIOUS! Manners and attributes shine pass the clothes, but don't wear PJ's to the date :P sends the wrong message, meaning "to gosh darn lazy".
Title: Re: What would you do on a first date compared to a second or third date?
Post by: Superan on May 12, 2016, 09:27:56 AM
well...as you know, boxers and T's are the only clothing's left before they're naked!   :D ;D

but...back to your question.  1st impression isn't so much what one wears but how they are and/or how they react to the date.  Are they spontaneous and going with the follow.  if they're such debbie downer, too conservative and unwilling to participate/have fun...we may just skip the date go for what we're hereafter and get it over with.   O0


Dude, when the woman's internal clock is ticking like giggles. She is 2 steps ahead of you. She is already thinking, I wonder what kind of desert does he like afterwards.
Title: Re: What would you do on a first date compared to a second or third date?
Post by: theking on May 12, 2016, 09:28:36 AM
LOL guys! So guys don't try to look their best on the first dates is what I get from most of the comments, why is that?

She not worth getting to know?

Again, depends on who she is...or which date she is...
Title: Re: What would you do on a first date compared to a second or third date?
Post by: Giggles_Shyly on May 12, 2016, 09:32:20 AM

Dude, when the woman's internal clock is ticking like giggles. She is 2 steps ahead of you. She is already thinking, I wonder what kind of desert does he like afterwards.

L.O.L! I am slow when it comes to dating. I like taking my time O0
Title: Re: What would you do on a first date compared to a second or third date?
Post by: Giggles_Shyly on May 12, 2016, 09:49:48 AM
If I have to work too hard to get at someone, I don't need that person O0. We are all adults, no need to play stupid games.
Title: Re: What would you do on a first date compared to a second or third date?
Post by: yuknowthat on May 12, 2016, 10:06:22 AM
Every date will be different, but would I try to impressed someone by taking a bath? dressing up? Grooming myself? Matching my clothes/shoes? Spraying myself with loads of cologne? Nope... I'm setting myself for failure and false hopes for expectations in myself and them

Because all those things should of been everyday anyways. Always look your best and fresh when you walk out that door. Doesn't matter where you are going.
Title: Re: What would you do on a first date compared to a second or third date?
Post by: Superan on May 12, 2016, 10:08:18 AM
If I have to work too hard to get at someone, I don't need that person O0. We are all adults, no need to play stupid games.

What if he is lazy at it but your are crazy for him
Title: Re: What would you do on a first date compared to a second or third date?
Post by: Giggles_Shyly on May 12, 2016, 10:50:21 AM
Every date will be different, but would I try to impressed someone by taking a bath? dressing up? Grooming myself? Matching my clothes/shoes? Spraying myself with loads of cologne? Nope... I'm setting myself for failure and false hopes for expectations in myself and them

Because all those things should of been everyday anyways. Always look your best and fresh when you walk out that door. Doesn't matter where you are going.

LOL you do it on purpose, tsk tsk :knuppel2:

What if he is lazy at it but your are crazy for him

If he is too lazy, forget him :P

good to know, we're hereafter the same thing!  :-*

Hahaha! Licking fingers is allowed, especially if you are consuming wings ;D
Title: Re: What would you do on a first date compared to a second or third date?
Post by: Giggles_Shyly on May 12, 2016, 11:02:09 AM
I like the little wing tip the most because it has the most flavor ;D
Title: Re: What would you do on a first date compared to a second or third date?
Post by: Giggles_Shyly on May 12, 2016, 11:21:32 AM
Haha! Food is just like dating, everyone has their preferences LOL
Title: Re: What would you do on a first date compared to a second or third date?
Post by: yuknowthat on May 12, 2016, 12:31:35 PM
LOL you do it on purpose, tsk tsk :knuppel2:

If he is too lazy, forget him :P

Hahaha! Licking fingers is allowed, especially if you are consuming wings ;D
  :-X I wouldn't say it on purpose .. it just happened a coincidence :P ;D
Title: Re: What would you do on a first date compared to a second or third date?
Post by: Giggles_Shyly on May 12, 2016, 12:45:06 PM
food tastes best with good company even if it's just rice and water.

Hey, rice with water is the oldest method of Hmong food :P good with anything, even salt.

  :-X I wouldn't say it on purpose .. it just happened a coincidence :P ;D

I wonder why you just didn't show up in PJs LOL
Title: Re: What would you do on a first date compared to a second or third date?
Post by: yuknowthat on May 12, 2016, 01:11:41 PM
I would..... not a problem..  ;) hehe

Title: Re: What would you do on a first date compared to a second or third date?
Post by: Giggles_Shyly on May 12, 2016, 01:13:09 PM
LMAO! Hmmm, confident kawg! O0
Title: Re: What would you do on a first date compared to a second or third date?
Post by: yuknowthat on May 12, 2016, 01:25:02 PM
I thought it was the heart and personality that counts?  ;D
Title: Re: What would you do on a first date compared to a second or third date?
Post by: Giggles_Shyly on May 12, 2016, 01:28:30 PM
Qhov koj comes after na LOL. Thaum sib ntsib tawj zaug, yuav tau ua kom khws me me hos :P
Title: Re: What would you do on a first date compared to a second or third date?
Post by: yuknowthat on May 12, 2016, 01:46:59 PM
Tsis need li, what you see is what you get.. as of now. Qhov zoo zoo mas los after..
Title: Re: What would you do on a first date compared to a second or third date?
Post by: Giggles_Shyly on May 12, 2016, 01:58:03 PM
Yog koj hais li koj ces, lus phem ua ntej hos lus zoo lawv qab lod? :D

Kinda backwards lawm ne LOL
Title: Re: What would you do on a first date compared to a second or third date?
Post by: yuknowthat on May 12, 2016, 02:07:22 PM
Always save the best for last.  ;) to last.... vim tu twg los yeej xav tau thaum zoo zoo  thiab cuab thaj khw khw xwb. Thaum tsis khw lawv ces leejtwg los xav nrhiav kev nkaum xwb.  Good things comes to those who patiently waits.  ;D ;D ;)

Those who judges right from the beginning and by its cover. Lwm hnub khuv xim! ;D "yaiv! Thaum ib ais pog/thaub ntawv twb tsis zoo li ntawv sav? Ua cas nws haib ua luaj nes?"
Title: Re: What would you do on a first date compared to a second or third date?
Post by: Giggles_Shyly on May 12, 2016, 02:24:05 PM
Always save the best for last.  ;) to last.... vim tu twg los yeej xav tau thaum zoo zoo  thiab cuab thaj khw khw xwb. Thaum tsis khw lawv ces leejtwg los xav nrhiav kev nkaum xwb.  Good things comes to those who patiently waits.  ;D ;D ;)

Those who judges right from the beginning and by its cover. Lwm hnub khuv xim! ;D "yaiv! Thaum ib ais pog/thaub ntawv twb tsis zoo li ntawv sav? Ua cas nws haib ua luaj nes?"

If a guy don't put out in a month, tsis khes nws lawm LOL jk.... I am sounding like a guy everyday lol

Kuv xav tias ntseg ua kom nws vwm rau yus es nws thiaj li nco yus txog hnub tsis muaj nws lawm no? Tsis yog lod? Vim kuv txiv mas nws pheej pias nws cov qub dab neeg rau peb tsev neeg hnov tag li :P

Seb zaj twg zoo dua, hlub hlub es tsis sib tau lod yog, hlub hlub sib tau kiag tabsi hos sib tso lawm.

at first sight, she better have matching undies and bra, covered by tight mini skirt and blouse with some cleavage showing...KHWS TSHAJ PLAWS! 

Pom xwb tsis khws li os, tau kov mas thiaj li qhuas meb ;D :D
Title: Re: What would you do on a first date compared to a second or third date?
Post by: yuknowthat on May 12, 2016, 02:30:31 PM
If a guy don't put out in a month, tsis khes nws lawm LOL jk.... I am sounding like a guy everyday lol

Kuv xav tias ntseg ua kom nws vwm rau yus es nws thiaj li nco yus txog hnub tsis muaj nws lawm no? Tsis yog lod? Vim kuv txiv mas nws pheej pias nws cov qub dab neeg rau peb tsev neeg hnov tag li :P

Seb zaj twg zoo dua, hlub hlub es tsis sib tau lod yog, hlub hlub sib tau kiag tabsi hos sib tso lawm.

Pom xwb tsis khws li os, tau kov mas thiaj li qhuas meb ;D :D
ua kom zaj twg los nws khuv xim yus xwb ntag. Ua cas es yuav nrhiav tsis tau ib twg zoo li lossis zoo tshaj nws lawm nes. Zoo ib yam li example kuv nws Ntse tau tu trophy los kiag rau ntawm river bank lossis edge of boat. Plam kiag! Mob siab li mob siab, khuv xim los khuv xim. Txog tsev los tseem ua npau suav khuv xim.. lol
Title: Re: What would you do on a first date compared to a second or third date?
Post by: Giggles_Shyly on May 12, 2016, 02:34:11 PM
LMAO!!!! Li no lod? ;D

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Title: Re: What would you do on a first date compared to a second or third date?
Post by: yuknowthat on May 12, 2016, 02:38:00 PM
Huh? Tsis pom nes.m ;D
Title: Re: What would you do on a first date compared to a second or third date?
Post by: Giggles_Shyly on May 12, 2016, 02:42:13 PM
Hoyo, lol nuv nuv, rub rub, mob tes tag, txog npaj kawg, tseem rim lawm thiab :2funny:
Title: Re: What would you do on a first date compared to a second or third date?
Post by: yuknowthat on May 12, 2016, 03:11:55 PM
Mob siab tshaj!!! Li! The time and patience waiting for the big thing! Becomes a disaster at the end.
Title: Re: What would you do on a first date compared to a second or third date?
Post by: Giggles_Shyly on May 12, 2016, 03:18:04 PM
Li es cov tau hlub thiaj li tsis kam tso lawv cov me hlub tseg maj. Sij hawm siv ntev tau. Nuv nuv tus hluas nkauj/hluas nraug..... ib muag xwb lawv plam kiag. Mob siab tuag :D :2funny:
Title: Re: What would you do on a first date compared to a second or third date?
Post by: yuknowthat on May 12, 2016, 04:04:52 PM
Kam liam os, tsis yog yus hmoo sawm tau nes thiaj li plam mas. Yog yus hmoo. Txawm khiav los yeej khiav tsis dim, txawm tsis ua dabtsi los yeej tau kiag ntawm tes.
Title: Re: What would you do on a first date compared to a second or third date?
Post by: Giggles_Shyly on May 13, 2016, 09:11:14 AM
Kam liam os, tsis yog yus hmoo sawm tau nes thiaj li plam mas. Yog yus hmoo. Txawm khiav los yeej khiav tsis dim, txawm tsis ua dabtsi los yeej tau kiag ntawm tes.

What if it is and because you didn't try hard enough, the best thing tasting fish got away :P

sometimes you would have to jump into the water to prove you're for real but only to find they're a catfish.   :idiot2: :2funny: :2funny: (fools!)

the smarter man uses more than one fishing pole!  ib tug plam lawm los, tseem tsuav ib tug. O0  ;D

Oh ces yog koj hais li, koj siab loj thiab coob heev? ;D
Title: Re: What would you do on a first date compared to a second or third date?
Post by: Giggles_Shyly on May 13, 2016, 10:13:55 AM
Koj tsis paub lod, noj ntau ces mob plab O0

Yuav tau noj kom txhob tshaib plab xwb na, txhob ua siab hlob siab loj :knuppel2:
Title: Re: What would you do on a first date compared to a second or third date?
Post by: Giggles_Shyly on May 13, 2016, 12:52:44 PM
Noj ntau ntau plab paub tawg thiab os, ceev faj nawb lol

Lod yog li cov laus hais: txog ntawm ncauj tsis txhob hauv plab ???
Title: Re: What would you do on a first date compared to a second or third date?
Post by: Giggles_Shyly on May 13, 2016, 01:31:44 PM
Ces noj me me xwb mas, how they say, "savor the moment" O0
Title: Re: What would you do on a first date compared to a second or third date?
Post by: Giggles_Shyly on May 13, 2016, 01:41:42 PM
 :2funny: :2funny:

Koj mas yom, soda favnim luss!
Title: Re: What would you do on a first date compared to a second or third date?
Post by: Giggles_Shyly on May 13, 2016, 02:19:04 PM
yeap, don't foget to licking fingers  too!   :-*

Only when eating wings, otherwise no! :D
Title: Re: What would you do on a first date compared to a second or third date?
Post by: yuknowthat on May 13, 2016, 10:49:10 PM
What if it is and because you didn't try hard enough, the best thing tasting fish got away :P

Oh ces yog koj hais li, koj siab loj thiab coob heev? ;D
xav ua tiag yeej tsis dim kiag tiamsi xav phem xav zoo, xav ntau xav tsawg, xav ntev xav luv xwb vim tias
1) nqaij muaj ntau pem tab laj noj tsis tag
2)hiab kiag lub vas lossis lub moos ntau ntses kiag xwb!


Hehe..  >:D
Title: Re: What would you do on a first date compared to a second or third date?
Post by: Giggles_Shyly on May 16, 2016, 07:55:45 AM
xav ua tiag yeej tsis dim kiag tiamsi xav phem xav zoo, xav ntau xav tsawg, xav ntev xav luv xwb vim tias
1) nqaij muaj ntau pem tab laj noj tsis tag
2)hiab kiag lub vas lossis lub moos ntau ntses kiag xwb!
Hehe..  >:D

Haha! Nqaij yeej muaj ntau maj, tabsi seb koj puas xav noj :knuppel2: ob npaug ;D vim cov poj niam coob siab me me.

Qhov ceem ceeb mas coob tus poj niam lawv phaj mov lawv tsis tsuas kam cia lwm tus poj niam los noj nrog lawv na. Yus kiag xwb los, yog lwm tus neeg los noj lawv, yus ces rau tus neeg ntawv noj. O0
Title: Re: What would you do on a first date compared to a second or third date?
Post by: yuknowthat on May 16, 2016, 02:38:00 PM
Oi! Siab me ua dabtsi.. ua siab loj hos.. yuav tau "noj sib hlub, hau sib ceg" like the elders said.. ;D ;) thiaj li kaj siab naa.
Title: Re: What would you do on a first date compared to a second or third date?
Post by: Giggles_Shyly on May 16, 2016, 02:57:43 PM
Siab me  me hos... yog hais txog yus tus me nplooj siab lawm na, LOL.

Tus kheej tsis khib lod lub siab khib khib yuav tuag. Tus kheej hais rau lub siab tia, nyob tus tus meb, lod lub siab khiav dhia rau txhia qhov chaw. Yog lub siab quaj tau ntseg nws quaj cig zej cig zo thaug xaiv rau txhua tus neeg. ;D
Title: Re: What would you do on a first date compared to a second or third date?
Post by: yuknowthat on May 16, 2016, 03:42:44 PM
Oh yo! Daim niag mi nplooj siab xwb, twb tsis yog yus mi nplooj plawv niam nkauj txhav qaib, nraug txhav noog to begin with es yuav khib siab dabtsi nas. Lub niag siab ntawv ces niag siab dub xav tau ntau xwb. Lub plawv mas thiaj yog numba 1!  :2funny: lub niag siab taug xauv ntawv ces yeej ntau ntau ncauj li
Title: Re: What would you do on a first date compared to a second or third date?
Post by: Giggles_Shyly on May 16, 2016, 04:00:33 PM
lol nplooj siab yeej muaj nqi thiab mas!
Title: Re: What would you do on a first date compared to a second or third date?
Post by: yuknowthat on May 16, 2016, 04:09:44 PM
Nplooj siab muaj nqi npaum cas nas.. thov qhia seb..yom?
Title: Re: What would you do on a first date compared to a second or third date?
Post by: Giggles_Shyly on May 17, 2016, 09:09:41 AM
Nplooj siab muaj nqi npaum cas nas.. thov qhia seb..yom?

Muaj nqi maj, vim nws muaj potential yuav tau lod ua txiv numba 1 ne, cas tsis paub li lau ;D

poj niam yuav tsum ua siab loj!  thab txawm yus tus txiv mus nws 1st date nrog hluas nkauj/poj nrauj lawm los, ua siab ntev...nws yeej yuav rov qab los cuag yus xwb.  yog nws mus 2nd thiab 3rd date lawm, koj mam muab xyuas!   :knuppel2: :idiot2: :2funny:

Yog koj hais li ces be prepare to ua txiv yau or txiv nrab okay O0 vim txiv hlob titles yog cov es siab me me xwb.
Title: Re: What would you do on a first date compared to a second or third date?
Post by: Giggles_Shyly on May 17, 2016, 09:24:40 AM
HAHAHA! Vuag lam na, kuv yuav yog tus niam ib xwb os. Kuv tsis nyiam pub lwm tus poj niam los noj kuv phaj mov ;D
Title: Re: What would you do on a first date compared to a second or third date?
Post by: Giggles_Shyly on May 17, 2016, 10:07:58 AM
ROFL! Tsis kam pob. Coob tes tsuab mov noj yuav qias phaj mov. Cas tsis paub li, tsk tsk.
Title: Re: What would you do on a first date compared to a second or third date?
Post by: Giggles_Shyly on May 17, 2016, 10:32:39 AM
Tai Lau, koj yuav tau yuav ib tug poj niam siab loj nawb yog koj yuav ua thaj kov os.  :D
Title: Re: What would you do on a first date compared to a second or third date?
Post by: Giggles_Shyly on May 17, 2016, 11:32:03 AM
LOL tabsi kuv siab me zog lawm na!
Title: Re: What would you do on a first date compared to a second or third date?
Post by: Giggles_Shyly on May 17, 2016, 11:35:05 AM
Kuv tsis xav train ua siab loj na! lol, yim train tseg yim khiav kom deb xwb os kuv na.
Title: Re: What would you do on a first date compared to a second or third date?
Post by: Reporter on May 19, 2016, 05:10:57 PM
Who was it that you met that didn't impress you this time? :2funny: :2funny:

First impressions are important, don't you think? You don't go on a first date in rages and a tattered broken down pair of shoes, do you? How about body odor, you shower/bathe?

Now if you are trying to send the wrong impression, then I understand LOL but usually people dress nicer and well mannered than usual.

How many first dates have you had and is it different each time?
Title: Re: What would you do on a first date compared to a second or third date?
Post by: Giggles_Shyly on May 20, 2016, 11:47:38 AM
Who was it that you met that didn't impress you this time? :2funny: :2funny:

Hahaha, no one in particular ;D I like all people: slow, fast, or feeble minded.

Everyone has a option, correct? It's the choice that matters and opens doors ;D
Title: Re: What would you do on a first date compared to a second or third date?
Post by: yuknowthat on May 22, 2016, 12:45:59 AM
HAHAHA! Vuag lam na, kuv yuav yog tus niam ib xwb os. Kuv tsis nyiam pub lwm tus poj niam los noj kuv phaj mov ;D
ho yo.. yus tsuas xav hais tias yog yus paj mov vim yus tsis paub zoo xwb. Yog paub qhov tseeb  tiag. Yus qiv luag tais rau luag qub zaub, phaj rau rau luag qub mov xwb.  So twb tsis yog yus phaj mov to begin with. Muab xav los kuj tu siab me me thiab. Lol  :2funny:
Title: Re: What would you do on a first date compared to a second or third date?
Post by: Giggles_Shyly on May 23, 2016, 08:40:59 AM
ho yo.. yus tsuas xav hais tias yog yus paj mov vim yus tsis paub zoo xwb. Yog paub qhov tseeb  tiag. Yus qiv luag tais rau luag qub zaub, phaj rau rau luag qub mov xwb.  So twb tsis yog yus phaj mov to begin with. Muab xav los kuj tu siab me me thiab. Lol  :2funny:

Hahaha, tsis ua cas vim twb yog yus phaj mov lawm nna. O0
Title: Re: What would you do on a first date compared to a second or third date?
Post by: tRouBLe on May 23, 2016, 06:11:50 PM
First impressions are important, don't you think? You don't go on a first date in rages and a tattered broken down pair of shoes, do you? How about body odor, you shower/bathe?

Now if you are trying to send the wrong impression, then I understand LOL but usually people dress nicer and well mannered than usual.

How many first dates have you had and is it different each time?

I dress and act like I normally do.  Also, I don't date very much (in other words, rare  ;D) and it does vary since the other person can be or is different.
Title: Re: What would you do on a first date compared to a second or third date?
Post by: Giggles_Shyly on May 24, 2016, 01:31:33 PM
You wouldn't wear PJ's there would you? ;D
Title: Re: What would you do on a first date compared to a second or third date?
Post by: tRouBLe on May 24, 2016, 05:04:05 PM
Are you talking to me?!  Are you talking to me?!  I know you're not talking to me?!  Hehehe.  :D

No, I/we would definitely not.....but you probably knew that already.  :P
Title: Re: What would you do on a first date compared to a second or third date?
Post by: Giggles_Shyly on May 25, 2016, 07:57:30 AM
LOL!!! Yes, because I have seen it where some people where PJs on dates :P
Title: Re: What would you do on a first date compared to a second or third date?
Post by: yuknowthat on May 25, 2016, 10:29:23 AM
Hahaha, tsis ua cas vim twb yog yus phaj mov lawm nna. O0
yeej paub Tias yog yus phaj mov, yus yeej tsis kam pub rau lwm tus noj tiamsi, yus paj mov pheej tsw tsw qab pheej xav pub rau lwm tus noj thiab nes. Yuav ua cas mas yog txog qhov zoo li ntawv lawm nes? ;D
Title: Re: What would you do on a first date compared to a second or third date?
Post by: Giggles_Shyly on May 25, 2016, 10:33:53 AM
yeej paub Tias yog yus phaj mov, yus yeej tsis kam pub rau lwm tus noj tiamsi, yus paj mov pheej tsw tsw qab pheej xav pub rau lwm tus noj thiab nes. Yuav ua cas mas yog txog qhov zoo li ntawv lawm nes? ;D

Oib! Yus phaj mov lawm, nws tsw qab npaum cas thiab thov li cas lod, yus yeej tsis kam li hos :P Lawv los hnia ze xwb yus twb yuav luag yuav luag zais kom lawv txhob pom na LOL
Title: Re: What would you do on a first date compared to a second or third date?
Post by: tRouBLe on May 25, 2016, 12:24:16 PM
LOL!!! Yes, because I have seen it where some people where PJs on dates :P

You mean first dates?  I can see people wearing pjs if they've known each other for a while and they're going out on a date BUT I've never heard of people going on first dates like that.   ;D
Title: Re: What would you do on a first date compared to a second or third date?
Post by: Giggles_Shyly on May 25, 2016, 12:38:27 PM
Yes first dates, I have seen it :P

Actually, PJs are for the home not for going out and about.  :D
Title: Re: What would you do on a first date compared to a second or third date?
Post by: tRouBLe on May 25, 2016, 01:22:42 PM
Ummmm.....is this "seen" a "did?"  Hehehe.   :D

I admit, I've worn pjs out of the house before....but then again, some of my pjs aren't real pjs.   ;D
Title: Re: What would you do on a first date compared to a second or third date?
Post by: Giggles_Shyly on May 25, 2016, 02:15:30 PM
Seen LOL, shoot me if you ever see me in PJs in public :police:
Title: Re: What would you do on a first date compared to a second or third date?
Post by: tRouBLe on May 25, 2016, 06:52:49 PM
Doesn't it depend on the pjs?   ;D   :P
Title: Re: What would you do on a first date compared to a second or third date?
Post by: Giggles_Shyly on May 26, 2016, 07:25:13 AM
IDK pjs are pjs, perhaps if it's flannels, then it's hard to tell? :D
Title: Re: What would you do on a first date compared to a second or third date?
Post by: Phab Ej Dao Vue on June 02, 2016, 11:36:11 AM

How many first dates have you had and is it different each time?

First dates for me are usually light and fun. I don't get into the details of my personal life and polarizing topics like religion, politics, and marriage are always avoided. It's a feeler for me to see if I like her personality enough to wanna see her again. Usually a fun activity during the day and then cap it off with lunch or dinner. I want to see if she's playful and a willing participant during said activity.

Any dates after that, anything goes. It means I like you enough to spend more time with you so start showing me who you really are. And we prob sharing the same bed by then.
Title: Re: What would you do on a first date compared to a second or third date?
Post by: tRouBLe on June 03, 2016, 09:34:07 AM
IDK pjs are pjs, perhaps if it's flannels, then it's hard to tell? :D

I was thinking of sweats.    ;D   :P
Title: Re: What would you do on a first date compared to a second or third date?
Post by: minorcharacter on August 19, 2016, 02:26:37 AM
Idk, probably make her drink my blood from my hand so that she knows she can never leave me.  Nobody gets to leave me. Nobody.
Title: Re: What would you do on a first date compared to a second or third date?
Post by: Giggles_Shyly on August 19, 2016, 08:47:40 AM
Hahaha! How scary is that...
Title: Re: What would you do on a first date compared to a second or third date?
Post by: DuMa on April 28, 2019, 01:18:28 PM
First date is to impress but to me, I do it all the wrong way.  I will try to repress you but at the same time, show you a good time with my wits. 

Then after the cooling off period, it should be her that calls me up for a 2nd date.  Yeah I  know, that is why I never go pass the first date.   :2funny:

on second thought.  My first date with a married woman, I will show her what her husband is lacking.  Like a male gigalo, make her fall in love with me.  ha

Almost 3 years later, have i learned anything?

Not really.  I still held onto my old cores but revolutionisin g it to my advantage. 

As I get older, I tend to do things the less stressful ways.  First date used to be a self conscious thing to thy self and I'm like, why the hell i gotta stress myself out like this for?  My last date, I've gone beyond the acting yourself role.  I mean we men only gets nervous cuz your vagina makes us nervous.  Now if I were to talk to a guy, no stress cuz he doesn't have what I need.  So vagina is the culprit that kills men.  I then thinks about all the vagina that I had and I be like, it's just another vagina and I have enough experiences with it so why be nervous and stress myself out?

Therefore, I treated all first dates like I'm hanging with the boys. 

Those women that likes the non aggressive approach will like me but that might put me in the friend zone but a ha, the more I hang out with you as a friend, the more you will fall in love with me and believe me, women that are secretly in love with their friends are good women.  I like you first but I'm not going to let you know.  My job is for you to like me and professes your love for me and then I'll cry and say that I liked you the first time I met you and so we have a love going in two ways street for a great Vietnamese drama movie. 

Title: Re: What would you do on a first date compared to a second or third date?
Post by: lilly on April 28, 2019, 03:05:28 PM
Almost 3 years later, have i learned anything?

Not really.  I still held onto my old cores but revolutionisin g it to my advantage. 

As I get older, I tend to do things the less stressful ways.  First date used to be a self conscious thing to thy self and I'm like, why the hell i gotta stress myself out like this for?  My last date, I've gone beyond the acting yourself role.  I mean we men only gets nervous cuz your vagina makes us nervous.  Now if I were to talk to a guy, no stress cuz he doesn't have what I need.  So vagina is the culprit that kills men.  I then thinks about all the vagina that I had and I be like, it's just another vagina and I have enough experiences with it so why be nervous and stress myself out?

Therefore, I treated all first dates like I'm hanging with the boys. 

Those women that likes the non aggressive approach will like me but that might put me in the friend zone but a ha, the more I hang out with you as a friend, the more you will fall in love with me and believe me, women that are secretly in love with their friends are good women.  I like you first but I'm not going to let you know.  My job is for you to like me and professes your love for me and then I'll cry and say that I liked you the first time I met you and so we have a love going in two ways street for a great Vietnamese drama movie.

If you like someone, just tell them.  Saves time and hassle, don't cha know?   ;D
Title: Re: What would you do on a first date compared to a second or third date?
Post by: lilly on April 28, 2019, 03:09:38 PM
By the way, Giggles!  How you been?

For me, I'm with you.  1st date, dress to impress.  That shows that at least you cared enough to put in a little effort.  I mean, you don't have to rent a tux!  Just take a shower, be clean, dress in something nice other than PJ's.  Lol!
Title: Re: What would you do on a first date compared to a second or third date?
Post by: lilly on April 28, 2019, 03:21:56 PM
What I'd do on a 1st date: dinner or lunch, with coffee or tea or water.  ;)
2nd date: dinner with a glass of wine.    :)
3rd date: dinner with a shot of liquor.     :D

Things to do on 1st date: dinner/lunch only.
2nd date: dinner/lunch and a walk.
3rd date: dinner/lunch and a walk and a kiss.  If he made it this far, I suppose he's earned a kiss.   ;D
Title: Re: What would you do on a first date compared to a second or third date?
Post by: DuMa on April 28, 2019, 04:34:03 PM
If you like someone, just tell them.  Saves time and hassle, don't cha know?   ;D

You know what playing hard to get is?  The moment a female knows a guy liking her, she will up her game and starts demanding for the world. 



Title: Re: What would you do on a first date compared to a second or third date?
Post by: DuMa on April 28, 2019, 04:41:27 PM
What I'd do on a 1st date: dinner or lunch, with coffee or tea or water.  ;)
2nd date: dinner with a glass of wine.    :)
3rd date: dinner with a shot of liquor.     :D

Things to do on 1st date: dinner/lunch only.
2nd date: dinner/lunch and a walk.
3rd date: dinner/lunch and a walk and a kiss.  If he made it this far, I suppose he's earned a kiss.   ;D

You know that people these days do not consider breakfast as a meal so your assessment of lunch and dinner will win a big chunk of the population.

Let me give you a tip to catch a man and this man needs to be a virgin or a guy who doesn't date a lot. 

If you kiss this person on the first date, he will consider you his world and will make effort for a second one.  Why?  Cuz most chumps are glued to your affection at first bat. The experiences are new and real to him.  You will be all he thinks about.  If you sleep with him on the first date, he will want you as a gf so he can sleep with you again.  This psychological phenomenon only works with virgins.  Sex to a chump is a contract to get into a relationship, one that most women would like to be at but the trick to catch a chump is a hard one.  You give yourself to an experienced guy and you might not see him again. 

Title: Re: What would you do on a first date compared to a second or third date?
Post by: lilly on April 28, 2019, 04:59:30 PM
You know what playing hard to get is?  The moment a female knows a guy liking her, she will up her game and starts demanding for the world.

 :2funny:  That's why a guy's got to be smart enough.  What's he thinking liking chicks who are gold diggers and superficial barbies anyway?  Let me give you a hint, go after girls who demand nothing but your heart.  Unless, you consider your heart the world.  ;D
Title: Re: What would you do on a first date compared to a second or third date?
Post by: lilly on April 28, 2019, 05:07:44 PM
You know that people these days do not consider breakfast as a meal so your assessment of lunch and dinner will win a big chunk of the population.

Let me give you a tip to catch a man and this man needs to be a virgin or a guy who doesn't date a lot. 

If you kiss this person on the first date, he will consider you his world and will make effort for a second one.  Why?  Cuz most chumps are glued to your affection at first bat. The experiences are new and real to him.  You will be all he thinks about.  If you sleep with him on the first date, he will want you as a gf so he can sleep with you again.  This psychological phenomenon only works with virgins.  Sex to a chump is a contract to get into a relationship, one that most women would like to be at but the trick to catch a chump is a hard one.  You give yourself to an experienced guy and you might not see him again.

Don't know many girls that are trying to catch virgins or chumps unless they are virgins themselves.   ;D

But an experienced guy with a heart of gold?  What's the starting bid?   :D  :P
Title: Re: What would you do on a first date compared to a second or third date?
Post by: DuMa on April 28, 2019, 05:09:56 PM
:2funny:  That's why a guy's got to be smart enough.  What's he thinking liking chicks who are gold diggers and superficial barbies anyway?  Let me give you a hint, go after girls who demand nothing but your heart.  Unless, you consider your heart the world.  ;D

Some guys like nice things to compliment him n his nice ride but guys that are like this are risk takers cuz them women do comes with drama and psychological issues. 

I'm not playing the blaming game here.  If he works hard for what he got then so be it for him.  I rather go for what I see out there as a normal loving stable family.  You got to get in where you fit in and you got to be real with yourself. 

Plenty of beautiful women out there but all have a story.  I'm the type of guy who doesn't like to listen to their stories so you can say that pretty things are not for me.  Plus, if you date an ugly chick that have her own stories, it is easier to leave her and forget as to being stuck with a pretty thing cuz she too pretty for you to leave and if you leave her and she's with the next guy, he would go crazy this why builds more drama.

At my age, I don't chase after pretty women.  I treat them like normal and I rather love my normal girl which falls back to my theory of cutting out stress cuz stress can kill. 
Title: Re: What would you do on a first date compared to a second or third date?
Post by: DuMa on April 28, 2019, 05:15:20 PM
Don't know many girls that are trying to catch virgins or chumps unless they are virgins themselves.   ;D

But an experienced guy with a heart of gold?  What's the starting bid?   :D  :P

Every person has their numbers so they say.  A person's age to settling down varies thus why most women prefer a guy who is more on the maturity side. 

You got to catch a matured guy who knows how to keep a relationship a float.  Otherwise, it'll be another story of that one guy who is now a has been.  Gotta qualify a person early.  If he's like that, he will be like that in the future.  Stop hoping for him to change cuz time is what you will be missing if you are waiting for a rock to aged into a diamond. 
Title: Re: What would you do on a first date compared to a second or third date?
Post by: lilly on April 28, 2019, 05:34:34 PM
Some guys like nice things to compliment him n his nice ride but guys that are like this are risk takers cuz them women do comes with drama and psychological issues. 

I'm not playing the blaming game here.  If he works hard for what he got then so be it for him.  I rather go for what I see out there as a normal loving stable family.  You got to get in where you fit in and you got to be real with yourself. 

Plenty of beautiful women out there but all have a story.  I'm the type of guy who doesn't like to listen to their stories so you can say that pretty things are not for me.  Plus, if you date an ugly chick that have her own stories, it is easier to leave her and forget as to being stuck with a pretty thing cuz she too pretty for you to leave and if you leave her and she's with the next guy, he would go crazy this why builds more drama.

At my age, I don't chase after pretty women.  I treat them like normal and I rather love my normal girl which falls back to my theory of cutting out stress cuz stress can kill.

Very wise, Duma!  We ain't young anymore.  Can't put up with as much drama and stress as in our younger days anymore.  Got only a certain amount of reserves and stress quotas per each day now.  Lol.  Everyone has a pivotal point in their life where they say enough of this bs, time to just sit back, relax, and chill.  Where they just want a no-drama lady or man to stare into the sunset with.
Title: Re: What would you do on a first date compared to a second or third date?
Post by: lilly on April 28, 2019, 05:41:49 PM
Every person has their numbers so they say.  A person's age to settling down varies thus why most women prefer a guy who is more on the maturity side. 

You got to catch a matured guy who knows how to keep a relationship a float.  Otherwise, it'll be another story of that one guy who is now a has been.  Gotta qualify a person early.  If he's like that, he will be like that in the future.  Stop hoping for him to change cuz time is what you will be missing if you are waiting for a rock to aged into a diamond.

This is very deep, Duma.  Yeah, better know how to qualify someone from early on.  If you don't know, you're in for some stressful times ahead.  Time is something we can get back.  Don't want to be wasting it on a guy that will always be a rock.  Because diamonds are a girl's best friend.
Title: Re: What would you do on a first date compared to a second or third date?
Post by: DuMa on April 28, 2019, 05:54:24 PM
So like I'm on a Facebook Hmong group and I see other people's profile page right?  The one's that are photogenic tends to have a picture of their young child or children but get this, not one picture of the baby daddy. 

One can only deduces a few things.  Hit n run or relationship bust n she kept custody. 

This is Hmong profile by the way and then we have Hmong guys be saying that yall hmng women be having baggages.  I'm not in disagreement to this cuz I had it happened to me before.  They played the field as single and hid their kids from me.  I'm like, how they know I don't like other people's kids? Felt used n lied to so I left and trip is over so I went back to Cali to where I'm married to the land. 
Title: Re: What would you do on a first date compared to a second or third date?
Post by: lilly on April 28, 2019, 06:09:51 PM
So like I'm on a Facebook Hmong group and I see other people's profile page right?  The one's that are photogenic tends to have a picture of their young child or children but get this, not one picture of the baby daddy. 

One can only deduces a few things.  Hit n run or relationship bust n she kept custody. 

This is Hmong profile by the way and then we have Hmong guys be saying that tall hmng women be having baggages.  I'm not in disagreement to this cuz I had it happened to me before.  They played the field as single and hid their kids from me.  I'm like, how they know I don't like other people's kids? Felt used n lied to so I left and trip is over so I went back to Cali to where I'm married to the land.

Most ppl depict their life on Facebook to be so awesome and glamorous but we all know if it's too good to be true, it usually isn't true.

As for the single pretty ladies with kids, not sure what their stories are.  But your assessment sounds about right though.  People make a lot of big life mistakes (like having kids when they're not ready) when they're only looking for a quick thrill.

Single moms shouldn't hide their kids.  That's sad if they do.  Poor kids.  People that place themselves higher than their kids aren't my kind of people.
Title: Re: What would you do on a first date compared to a second or third date?
Post by: DuMa on April 28, 2019, 06:32:59 PM
And before we go,

Hey guys, to entertain this thread topic, me and Lily just had our first date, online.   :D
Title: Re: What would you do on a first date compared to a second or third date?
Post by: Reporter on June 08, 2019, 11:08:14 AM
Did you dress well?

And before we go,

Hey guys, to entertain this thread topic, me and Lily just had our first date, online.   :D
Title: Re: What would you do on a first date compared to a second or third date?
Post by: Reporter on June 08, 2019, 11:18:53 AM
I've never planned to impress any girl on a first date.

But I have always been clean in clothes and body, just so I feel pleasant. Yes, just so I feel pleasant. Then I expect that she would feel so, too.

I'm like that anyway. I don't go anywhere sweating or with un-laundried, smelly clothes of any kind. Even shorts and socks have to be clean before I wear them again.

A woman is a lot of responsibiliti es. I don't try to lure her into my life on a first meeting. I have to know her more first. If that first meeting turns her off, that's fine. I'm more than what she sees on that first lunch or dinner.


First impressions are important, don't you think? You don't go on a first date in rages and a tattered broken down pair of shoes, do you? How about body odor, you shower/bathe?

Now if you are trying to send the wrong impression, then I understand LOL but usually people dress nicer and well mannered than usual.

How many first dates have you had and is it different each time?
Title: Re: What would you do on a first date compared to a second or third date?
Post by: DuMa on June 08, 2019, 11:32:13 AM
Always approach a first date like your last so that means I'm heading for first base and call it a win. 

If a second date, it means the first base was good and clean.
Title: Re: What would you do on a first date compared to a second or third date?
Post by: Reporter on June 08, 2019, 11:38:53 AM
I had a first lunch date with a girl some years ago.

She had several layers of make-up on. Hair clips of different colors all over.

That's too artificial.

I like someone who's more natural.

Title: Re: What would you do on a first date compared to a second or third date?
Post by: Reporter on June 08, 2019, 12:20:43 PM
Of course. We all have options.

I've been thinking: there are so many people in the world. If I get turned down by one or if I don't like one, I will still have other options to check out.

Hahaha, no one in particular ;D I like all people: slow, fast, or feeble minded.

Everyone has a option, correct? It's the choice that matters and opens doors ;D
Title: Re: What would you do on a first date compared to a second or third date?
Post by: Reporter on June 08, 2019, 12:22:18 PM
I tell my friends not to send PJs to the Hmong in Vietnam. They will wear them in public.

Seen LOL, shoot me if you ever see me in PJs in public :police:
Title: Re: What would you do on a first date compared to a second or third date?
Post by: Reporter on June 08, 2019, 12:24:07 PM
Do not forget that you also can't leave her. Doesn't sound good if you later find another hotter person you want to drink blood finger with.

Idk, probably make her drink my blood from my hand so that she knows she can never leave me.  Nobody gets to leave me. Nobody.
Title: Re: What would you do on a first date compared to a second or third date?
Post by: DuMa on July 12, 2019, 03:49:18 PM
First date, always go decent and minimum.  With each dates thereafter, increase the volume just a little bit.

Cuz when you go all out on the first, it will be hard to top thereafter.  Then again, you wouldn't want a superficial biatch anyway. 

Title: Re: What would you do on a first date compared to a second or third date?
Post by: Gracified23 on August 10, 2019, 08:55:26 AM
My first date is always close to my place unless I screen hard.

I always insist having the first date close to my place (any ice cream or drinks shop.) Most of the time they will be happy with the location and along with whatever venues I suggest. I like to keep first date simple nothing expensive until the 3rd or 4th date. Those would be outdoor activities such as zip lining them head straight to the museum. I like to explore different places and go on an adventure with women.

But I usually tell them we can hangout, eat some ice cream, talk about some conspiracies, then fall in love later. What’s your schedule like tomorrow or on the weekends. I need to be somewhere by 6pm ( false time constraint) so I can’t walk her to the door and kiss her like in the movies.

That is how I closed all my dates. I just keep it fun and playful and almost every women were interested.
Title: Re: What would you do on a first date compared to a second or third date?
Post by: Joycompany on March 02, 2020, 09:55:57 PM
*scratch head...  ??? :( :-\