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The Single & Dating Scenes / Men likes to cuddle?

« on: November 25, 2019, 01:13:47 PM »

I met this guy who is super sweet and very attractive. He's also very  affectionate, patient and caring. We've gone on one date. Even before that first date, he always talks about cuddling...he asked me out again and talked about cudding, you know that he can't wait to cuddle with me on our date.... my judgement is a little confused... is this a secret language, meaning he only wants to have sex??? He uses this word pretty often in our text messages, makes me wonder what is he trying to say... I know I shouldnt look too much into it but I never meet someone who wants to cuddle so much and the last thing I want is to be played by some mf lmao

Ok: I said yes to the date
He texted me: "I'm excited to see you and cuddle with you finally"

LOL ok when I read his text message it sounds to me like: "I'm excited to see you and duck you finally"

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Marriage & Family Life / Is my husband tracking me?

« on: September 05, 2019, 10:21:42 PM »

I have this nagging suspicion that my husband is tracking me in my phone. He works second shift is paranoid delusional at times and even though we are separating soon... I feel he's monitoring me on my phone, keeping tabs on me etc.

For example, last night as soon as I exited off the freeway that mother f-ER texted me. "Where you at?" I freaked out and pulled off to the side of the freeway. Then he texted again "answer me" and so forth. I stared at the screen and by the fifth text message I freaked out and shut the phone off. When I saw him he was raging pissed knowing that the phone was shut off bc he was trying to call me like crazy, he interrogated me and asked where I have gone/parked. He also told me "to never shut phone off or block his calls." He never do that. He also makes comments about certain s apps I have and hints of perhaps I might be spying him, which I obviously don't care to do.

This is causing great anxiety. I'm not really familiar with these kinds of technologies do you guys think it's possible he's tracking me by my phone and is it possible to do it?

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Poetic Souls / A Rebel's Haiku

« on: September 13, 2018, 04:23:05 PM »

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Television / The Handmaid's Tale

« on: July 15, 2018, 03:30:47 PM »

Who else like this TV show? I'm halfway through the first season and really enjoying it.

https://youtu.be/PJTonrzXTJs

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College Life / College Debts

« on: July 15, 2018, 03:14:07 PM »

One of my professor owes 200k in college debt. When she asked me if I will continue my education, I confidently told her "No!" She was mortified by my answer.  She lectured me a little and made it seemed like my education was important and that every penny spent on it was worth it. All I see is a huge debt hovering over my head. Besides that, I don’t understand why I am taking classes that has nothing to do with what I’m majoring in...! Should I take college more seriously? Should I not worry too much about having debts to pay later in life?

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Books & Magazines / A Life Changing Book?

« on: July 15, 2018, 01:41:12 PM »

If you can give one book to a group of high school students to read in the hope that it will change their life, what will the book be? And why?

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Food Forum / Favorite Cooking/Food Channel on YouTube?

« on: July 15, 2018, 01:34:23 PM »

What are some of your favorite cooking/or food channels on YouTube? Please share them.

My favorites channels are:
Pailin's Kitchen. I've made many of her dishes and they all turned out delicious.
Helen's Recipes. I enjoy alot of her cookings
Irrena P. Recipes. I love hmong food

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Online Journal / The Secret Life of a Hmong-American Woman

« on: July 03, 2018, 05:59:19 PM »

As soon as I get myself to that point where I know I will succeed, I screw myself over; I fluck myself up.