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General Relationship / Re: If you give someone unconditional love and they don't want it...

« on: Today at 11:07:22 AM »

In the Disney version they get each other but in the real little mermaid story by Hans Christian Anderson, she dies at the end.

The prince had a clear shot and didn't take it.

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General Relationship / Re: A man who wants stability always know what he's looking for...

« on: Today at 11:05:17 AM »

A hunting friend of mine says that you should only take the shot if it's a clear shot.

Some hunters have the clear shot but take too long. Now all they can do is tell their buddies how they saw the perfect 12-pointer. It will just be a story they keep telling everyone. 

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General Relationship / Re: A man who wants stability always know what he's looking for...

« on: Today at 11:04:18 AM »

If it's a clear shot and you don't take the shot then it's over.

You'll never see that 12-pointer again.

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General Relationship / Re: sorry, i don’t do SINGLE HMONG DIVORCE MOTHER WITH MULT KIDS…

« on: Today at 11:03:00 AM »

I'm not speaking from experience. I listen too much to those Nancy Yang stories. Plus, there are a lot of PH male libs doing this. Remember when you were trying to set them up and I told you that they weren't exactly single?

That's what I meant. They're already shacking up with a single mother and that's why there were no takers to your recommendation .

 

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General Relationship / Re: sorry, i don’t do SINGLE HMONG DIVORCE MOTHER WITH MULT KIDS…

« on: April 25, 2024, 02:53:12 PM »

hmgROCK,

Maybe you can find a low vibration woman who will abort the baby in order to be with you. You won't be dealing with a single mother who has multiple kids. Problem solved. theking would definitely cosign to that idea.

But hey, I think you're failing to see the bright side of being with a single mom. A lot of PH men seem to only go for that type for these reasons:

1. If her kids are young, then that means she is getting child support and may even qualify for government assistance. That's a great thing because she doesn't have to work and can devote all her attention to you. You two can live in Section 8 housing, which means you won't have to get a job at all.

1. If her kids are grown, you can hunt and fish with her sons. They probably have nice toys like fishing boats, RV campers, atv, etc.

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General Relationship / Re: Hey some of you, I know that this is what you've been looking for...

« on: April 25, 2024, 11:04:59 AM »

I don't know when I developed trypophobia but the blackhead extraction videos offset that. I don't like anything that oozes out. I prefer videos of oxidized sebum plugs, which are gross but addicting to watch.

lol

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General Relationship / Re: You'll have your dream guy when you look for these things:

« on: April 25, 2024, 10:57:39 AM »

I don't know if a lot of people are trapped. It's a matter of finding the ones who aren't.

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General Relationship / Re: If you give someone unconditional love and they don't want it...

« on: April 25, 2024, 10:54:31 AM »

I'm saying that real love involves making a sacrifice. However, if you keep telling that person about the sacrifice(s) you made for them then it's not real love. You are just manipulating them to feel guilty so that they'll stay with you. Even if they stay, they don't love you back and you'll feel their resentment.

Ariel gave up her voice and her happy life for Prince Eric without telling him. He didn't choose her so she died. He gonna find out soon that he got the sea witch instead!

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General Relationship / Re: Being in your feminine energy does NOT mean being agreeable...

« on: April 25, 2024, 10:46:47 AM »

Yes. We don't want a man who chased everybody nor do we want a man who settled for a woman out of convenience.

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General Relationship / Re: Neo-Feminists killed chivalry and ruined courtship

« on: April 25, 2024, 10:40:17 AM »

I noticed that men are happier and love you properly when they feel accomplished.

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General Relationship / Re: A man who wants stability always know what he's looking for...

« on: April 25, 2024, 10:37:45 AM »

From the perspective of the hunter, 10 minutes is way too long to decide if you want to shoot that buck or not.

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General Relationship / Re: Are you with the one who really loves you? If NO, why not?

« on: April 25, 2024, 10:36:07 AM »

Okay. I can do walking. I always try to get at least 10,000 a day.

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General Relationship / Re: sorry, i don’t do SINGLE HMONG DIVORCE MOTHER WITH MULT KIDS…

« on: April 25, 2024, 09:03:09 AM »

 

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General Relationship / Re: If you give someone unconditional love and they don't want it...

« on: April 24, 2024, 11:15:43 PM »

Ever had that Little Mermaid moment?

You were taking steps to make huge sacrifices only to have that other person go with another option. That's exactly what Prince Eric did to Ariel and he stopped remembering her. He didn't know that she gave up her voice and her happy life to take a chance with him. In the Hans Christian version, she traded her life and died in the end because he didn't choose her.

I don't like to let others know about the sacrifices that I'm making. If you really love them then you don't bring it up, otherwise now it's just manipulation to guilt-trip them. I don't want them to feel pressure or that they owe me, and then feel resentful because they'll say that they never asked me. You make the sacrifice because you want to for that other person. You have to feel that they're worth it. If it doesn't work out then only you know what you gave up. Ariel never told the prince about her sacrifice and the deal she made with the sea witch.

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General Relationship / Re: Never bring a man into your domain...

« on: April 24, 2024, 10:50:24 PM »

Go with the one you trust, not the one you love. The one you can trust is the one that loves you. He doesn't need to be wealthy, just have to always try his best to. Provide.

I think, I'm not a expert. I'm just here to listen, console and maybe protect.

 

When I say it's up to the man to give, I mean he gives whatever he can. This isn't about a man needing to have a mansion and $$$.

And I heavily agree. A woman should be with the man who makes her feel emotionally safe. That is the man who loves her the most.