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Relationship => General Relationship => Topic started by: lilly on March 11, 2020, 12:50:11 AM
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Do you remember what you did on your 1st, 2nd, and 3rd dates with your S/O?
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It wasn't even a date... :D That's how I roll.
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I learned that the first date or the first few dates are all that important to a woman is because it sets the stage for what comes thereafter.
She remembers the first time in everything.
I do remembered all of my first dates but I rather not remember it though. Why? Cuz well when you slow things down and look back to reflect, you know you did all the wrongs in such first date.
If you somehow knows that your first date is also your last date, what would you have done differently? For starters, I would tell them that I love them because them 3 letter words are rare but important these days and on the first date? Like come on. Then ghost her the day after. :2funny:
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Depends on which girl as there were too many but I'll use my last girlfriend date as an example:
First date: Took the 1 and rode our bikes to Half-Moon Bay, grab lunch at the Thai restaurant in the main shopping center right off Main street and 1, took a walk along the beach, conversing, getting to know each other better, shook hands and part ways.
Second date: Took the 1 and rode our bikes to Bodega Bay, grab chowder bowls (she prefers Manhattan, I prefer New England) at a seafood shack there, walking and hopping along the rock barriers where I used to do crabbing, sat at the last rock to just chill, hold hands, cuddles, and talk about life, families, knowledge and experiences, escort her back to Sausalito and kissed her, she invited me to stay so we made passionate love, and I went home the next morning.
Third date: She invited me over to her place so she can make me some herbed lamb chop, hung out at her place enjoying the view of Angel Island, SF, etc., from her home's front window off of
Ridge Way, took a walk along her neighborhood, enjoying the good weather and moonlight reflecting off the sea water, made passionate love, then I left the next morning.
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I grew up in a time where girls don't go on date unless she has a herd of chaperones ahahaaha ;D ;D ;D ;D
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You can still tell us about it..??? ;D
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Well, I attended a new year w/ a guy once and that was pretty romantic ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D During my time, we didn't need wine and candle light dinner to feel romantic ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D
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Well, I attended a new year w/ a guy once and that was pretty romantic ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D During my time, we didn't need wine and candle light dinner to feel romantic ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D
Yall old school kids skipped the normal ritual and went straight to the naughty conclusion eh? :2funny:
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Yall old school kids skipped the normal ritual and went straight to the naughty conclusion eh? :2funny:
;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D but no. Even then, I was pretty stubborn so it takes a special guy to tolerate me and one did so I've been stuck w/ him ever since ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D
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;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D but no. Even then, I was pretty stubborn so it takes a special guy to tolerate me and one did so I've been stuck w/ him ever since ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D
One did because the rest were not given the same chance.
Yep, your life as I see fit :2funny:
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Not a date but more like a gang bang or a bukake in the making..
but back in the 80's and even early 90's, I would go with my older brothers and cousins to visit Hmong girls at their homes (their parents' homes actually)...
Basically, just show up and knock on their door. It's always a good courtesy to ask if their home has any restriction in regards to having guests due to religious reasons even if the home has indicators by the front door..because sometimes they forget to take it down.
Sometimes we walked in and there's already a group of guys there hounding at available girl in that household...
It was a primitive and inefficient system IMO..so I stopped going with them.. ;D ;D ;D
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Not a date but more like a gang bang or a bukake in the making..
but back in the 80's and even early 90's, I would go with my older brothers and cousins to visit Hmong girls at their homes (their parents' homes actually)...
Basically, just show up and knock on their door. It's always a good courtesy to ask if their home has any restriction in regards to having guests due to religious reasons even if the home has indicators by the front door..because sometimes they forget to take it down.
Sometimes we walked in and there's already a group of guys there hounding at available girl in that household...
It was a primitive and inefficient system IMO..so I stopped going with them.. ;D ;D ;D
Those were the days...parents picked me...but girl didn't. A gentleman by Hmong standards will always win the parents...but almost never the girl.
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Nope. Since those days I was so drunk. 8)
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First time I ever took a girl out, I had to go ask her dad for permission. Her dad wasn't strict, but I returned her home shortly after dinner in order to avoid being forced to get married to her. We were already in our 20s.
Second time I wanted to get to know a girl, her mother demanded that I go see her at her house. I asked for their phone number when I met them at the celebration and her mother gave me their address, not their phone number.
With those experiences, I never dated again for eight years or so. At that time, the divorce rate was surging in the Hmong community. Girls didn't listen to their parents anymore. So, I was able to go to an Italian restaurant with a divorced girl.
Unfortunately, that girl was talking only about her ex the whole time we were going through our huge salad bowls and the entrees. So, I never dated her again.
So now you know I have three ex's.
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First time I ever took a girl out, I had to go ask her dad for permission. Her dad wasn't strict, but I returned her home shortly after dinner in order to avoid being forced to get married to her. We were already in our 20s.
Second time I wanted to get to know a girl, her mother demanded that I go see her at her house. I asked for their phone number when I met them at the celebration and her mother gave me their address, not their phone number.
With those experiences, I never dated again for eight years or so. At that time, the divorce rate was surging in the Hmong community. Girls didn't listen to their parents anymore. So, I was able to go to an Italian restaurant with a divorced girl.
Unfortunately, that girl was talking only about her ex the whole time we were going through our huge salad bowls and the entrees. So, I never dated her again.
So now you know I have three ex's.
This guy sounds like my favorite hmong uncle. You need to date for the 3rd and last time to strike out. Don't even pull out either. Scissor leg lock her and shoot it as far as the eye can see.
I only remembered the 1st one. Not too sure what if I was in love or in lust cuz the feeling was so different with the learning curve and all. After this one broke my heart, I became a better man for the 2nd and thereafter. Everything else was a blur. I even forgotten many names. If I don't remember your name, it means I enjoyed my hit and run. :2funny:
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This guy sounds like my favorite hmong uncle. You need to date for the 3rd and last time to strike out. Don't even pull out either. Scissor leg lock her and shoot it as far as the eye can see.
I only remembered the 1st one. Not too sure what if I was in love or in lust cuz the feeling was so different with the learning curve and all. After this one broke my heart, I became a better man for the 2nd and thereafter. Everything else was a blur. I even forgotten many names. If I don't remember your name, it means I enjoyed my hit and run. :2funny:
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I see what you did there. Thank you for editing your own quote but within my own post. :2funny:
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Just correcting some words. I like my sentences and words to be correct, etc.
If we date city girls, we can have more than 3 days without the parents' involvement; if we date some rural girls, parents are usually involved.
My next dates will be with city girls.
I see what you did there. Thank you for editing your own quote but within my own post. :2funny:
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yup...aim, aim, aim and more aim.
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yup...aim, aim, aim and more aim.
Then it's kid, kid, kid, and kid. Lol. J/K
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Then it's kid, kid, kid, and kid. Lol. J/K
kid no aim. real man aim, aim, aim.
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kid no aim. real man aim, aim, aim.
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Hahaha. Oh...kay... Good to know. O0 ;D
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My husband and I we watched 50 first date for our first date 17 yrs ago. ;D
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Yes it was.. SEX....SEX.... SEX and more SEX
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I remember the first time we met, the conversations we had after and then our first date was unforgettable. I think those things count as 1,2,3 dates.😸
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I only remembered the first cuz the first is similar to most of my other first dates with different women.
Call them up in the middle of the night to see if they wanna talk in real life. Drove to their house and we talk on their dark front porch. In the still of the night, it got romantic. We may hold each other while talking then the first kiss may happen and then my hand would go under her shirt to measure how big it is and how firm it is. Plus you wanna see how comfortable she is with you cuz it is a telling to how far she is willing to go the distance with you. O0
If you put it on repeat and done enough of it, it is all that I remembered really. Like eating a steak, the first bite with A1 sauce is the best.
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Yall old school kids skipped the normal ritual and went straight to the naughty conclusion eh? :2funny:
Took the words right out of my mouth ;D ;D. That's why Hmong guys in those days only go talk to girls at night or when she is away from her family ;). They were too smart for their time ;D ;D ;D