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Faith & Beliefs / Re: My biggest criticism about the Catholic Church is this...

« on: August 26, 2026, 01:40:40 AM »

whew......

it's alright guys... we are safe
she only bash the catholic

hahahahah

 

p=pebhmong

The rest are false teachings (including Shamanism) so what's there to resolve? I criticize Catholicism because it is held to a higher standard and should know better.

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Beauty & Fashion / Re: Brow Tatoo

« on: August 24, 2026, 04:52:16 PM »

^^^

 

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Health & Fitness / Re: At what point, if any should one stop caring about their appearances

« on: August 24, 2026, 04:51:23 PM »

Just be glad that you still have all your hair. Most guys your age have a noticeable receding hairline and deep nasolabial folds.

Quit showing off. 

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Faith & Beliefs / Re: Prayers

« on: August 24, 2026, 04:48:06 PM »

don’t think that’s how it work BNM

 

WHEN WAS THE LAST TIME YOU GO TO CHURCH ?

I'm pretty sure that praying isn't about asking God to grant your personal desires, but to have Him help you to accept His plan for you, and so that you can live according to His will and purpose.

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Faith & Beliefs / Re: My biggest criticism about the Catholic Church is this...

« on: August 24, 2026, 04:44:24 PM »

Since hmgROCK couldn't answer my question about the comparison/contrast between Catholicism and Christianity, can BNM shed some lights on this particular subject. 

I'll try my best. What did you want to know?

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General Relationship / Re: She's either very understanding or she's curious

« on: August 24, 2026, 03:46:45 PM »

Sounds like a lot of drama.

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General Relationship / Re: Transactional versus Mutual

« on: August 24, 2026, 03:46:00 PM »

Transactional is trading. Mutual is exchanging....

Human tool versus human BEING....

Be a human being and don't be a human tool for anyone. You're better off dying lonely....I mean, alone....

If a person decides to be alone then they really should be alone. I can respect that.

What I don't find honest is a person who says that they're available when they're not, and proceeds to pursue a serious relationship with someone who only dates intentionally.

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General Relationship / Re: Is it as black and white as science though??

« on: August 24, 2026, 02:59:33 PM »

It's good Levine was able to identify and define people's different attachment styles.  Like he said, attachment styles can be different across relationships, and can even evolve over time with certain specific relationships.  Your own gravitation towards adopting a certain attachment style is also being conditioned and defined as a whole over time as well, based on the whole of your experiences with all the people who have entered your life.

My general outlook or attachment style definitely went through the stages: secure > anxious > avoidant > and now landing on disorganized.  These days, "disorganized" to me means I will give someone the same energy they give me.  No more no less.  I'm also the cause for others attachment styles as well, in that I tend to "avoid"... because, well, I don't know... I guess I enjoy my garden and my solitude too much these days.

What's meant to be yours will always be yours. There is no argument, betrayal, misunderstandi ng, etc. too big that you two can't make things work again, especially if children are involved. The family is the most important thing in the relationship. I'm just darn lucky that I already got my ride or die person. Nothing beats having someone who is going to be with you until the very end.

I'd hate to be one of those people trying to start over at an old age only to find out there is nothing there.

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Marriage & Family Life / Re: WOW, her spouse stand by her through her worst moment but she's still divorcing

« on: August 05, 2026, 02:02:06 PM »

She just doesn't want to be with that person anymore, plain and simple. The older I get, the more I start to believe the elders when they say that sometimes it's just fate.

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General Relationship / Re: Is it as black and white as science though??

« on: August 05, 2026, 02:00:10 PM »

There's too many variables...so I just keep it simple: it's either there or it's not...hahah

Exactly. Some people simply don't have what it takes to be in a committed marital relationship, and will bounce as soon as things get hard. Some times it doesn't even have to get difficult and they'll still bounce.

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General Discussion / Re: HmongRock said that Republicans do not feel sorry for when Dems face a loss

« on: July 27, 2026, 09:25:08 PM »

Many of you do not belong in America because you refuse to assimilate and you're very anti-American, specifically anti-white.

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General Discussion / Re: The Iran Conflict is reminiscent of a biblical story

« on: July 27, 2026, 09:19:19 PM »

Are you sure about that? Which Americans are you referring to? There are some Americans practice Shamanism long before converting themselves to Christianity.
Same shytes as Americans participating in Satanism (metal heads), witchcraft (Amish people), and spiritualism (Hippies).

They practice all of those things in the comfort of a country that was built on Christian culture.

In America, many people get away with things that they couldn't in other countries. They can even criticize the president and generate vulgar images of him without going to jail. They couldn't do that to a leader in North Korea or Iran.

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Marriage & Family Life / Re: I've asked my clients does it hurt you and does your spouse know, if yes to both

« on: July 27, 2026, 09:14:25 PM »

He chose her to have a life with. Everyone else is just a fling.

Some men compartmentali ze their life. I wouldn't want to be in her shoes or in the shoes of the other women.

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General Relationship / Re: Out of my handful of relationships, I had two long ones that I broke off but not

« on: July 27, 2026, 04:10:38 PM »

I truly believe that what God made for you will always be yours. There is no fight, no betrayal, no mistake, and no flaw too big that YOUR PERSON isn't willing to work out with you. But when God doesn't want them for you then the relationship will fall in the blink of an eye.

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General Relationship / Re: Is the apology sincere or just taking advantage of the situation? I say it's the

« on: July 27, 2026, 03:54:40 PM »

Stay away.

He is just looking for her to boost his ego after all his failed relationships/flings/situationships/etc. because he knows that she sincerely loves him.

I also get a big ICK when a man can move quickly to another woman after having told you just how much he loves you and did all these big gestures for you. He's probably doing the same thing to the next woman.