... kekeke ...
Let me clarify some (kev cai etiquettes/norms) for all the
ha'primitive ha'clueless ha'ignorant ha'idiotic HA'Mung regarding "Ua Hauv Qhua" ... KEKEKE ...
Raws lid Hmoob txoj kev cai "Ua Hauv Qhua" mas yuav tsum ua raws kab raw kev muaj hauv paus muaj ntsis (in other words accordingly and procedurally/familially per custom/culture). Ces txhais tau tias yog muaj ib tug neeg los tus txheeb ze noj tsis qab nyob tsis zoo ces yus cia lid yuav npaj mus "Ua Hauv Qhua". Qhov nod mas yus yuav kev lawm -- tsis paub kev cai (and is a
HA'Mung). Txawm yus "Mus Hlub" xwb los yog luag tsis hu (call/inform/request) yus ces yus yeej tsis muaj cai mus "Ua Hauv Qhua". (That is proper etiquette, and the accepted norm, though clearly they will not turn you away if you happen to show up. And this is mainly WHY you see "people bickering" which I do not care to discuss/go into.) Yog yus yuav mus tiag-tiag ces tsuas yog mus saib tshua thiab pab tshav ntuj xwb yog luag tsis ntos txog yus. (Now, this is a knowledgeable person -- a
non-HA'Mung.) Dhau qhov nod lawm yog yus yog phaj xeeb leej xeeb ntxwv lawm ces yus yeej tsis muaj cai (opportunity or right) "Ua Hauv Qhua". Yus tsuas mus saib nco tshua thiab pab tshav ntuj xwb. Yog yus tsis paub es cia lid mus "Ua Hauv Qhua" ces cov neeg paub tab ces yeej thwm tiag yus "tsis paub kev cai" (and is/are most likely and infact
HA'Mung ... kekeke ...
)
Thus, as a general
"Rule of Thump" (which is consistent with Hmong custom/culture and the norm), for ALL the
ha'primitive ha'clueless ha'ignorant ha'idiotic HA'Mung regarding "Ua Hauv Qhua" ... if Tsev Xyom Cuab does not call, inform, or request you SPECIFICALLY to "Ua Hauv Qhua" then you are a
ha'idiot to do it
HA'Mungly /unkowningly ... KEKEKE ...
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Oar chow dow-dow ... kekeke ...
