hmgROCK,
Maybe you can find a low vibration woman who will abort the baby in order to be with you. You won't be dealing with a single mother who has multiple kids. Problem solved. theking would definitely cosign to that idea.
But hey, I think you're failing to see the bright side of being with a single mom. A lot of PH men seem to only go for that type for these reasons:
1. If her kids are young, then that means she is getting child support and may even qualify for government assistance. That's a great thing because she doesn't have to work and can devote all her attention to you. You two can live in Section 8 housing, which means you won't have to get a job at all.
1. If her kids are grown, you can hunt and fish with her sons. They probably have nice toys like fishing boats, RV campers, atv, etc.