The viscious cycle that had or is destroying dating and relationships.

[JonniJacko]

had a mission to investigate the modern dating/relationship scene...and here's what I found:

Young man did everything right. nice, kind, caring. But he gets dump, he's confuse, he doesn't understand. he works his way up, build his life, gets his dream job, make good money..He's now a chad or tyrone....the problem is, this time, he's out for revenge....He's only going to use and abuse women....The problem now is the women. They thought chad and tyrone were the perfect Knight in shining armor. He knows what to say, how to say it, and read her mind like a open book... But she finds out, she's not the only one he's seeing/talking/sleeping with...lols Now she's out for revenge and using the unsuspecting Joes and Sams to take her frustrations out on...or her standards become extremely unpractical and the Joes and Sams either become monks, lols or go overseas to where they can excercise their masculintity freely and with confidence, or they basically turn into Chads and Tyrones themselves.... .thus, the cycle continues...an d a whole generation ends up lonely, old and miserable....l ols j/k...

to stop this cycle....peopl e just need to be more aware of it...and maybe have the sense to not contribute to the cycle...Joes and Sams need to step it up a notch or two...Chads and Tyrones need to think about their own daughters some day, The ladies need to remember they're not going to be young and pretty forever....and both men and women need to think point A to point B and even beyond...Too much "this is about me" mentality...Th ose who get it, will move on to live happy, fullfilling love lives...so yup....

that's it folks...it's not complicated at all...people are complicated... love and life doesn't have to at all....yup.

[Believe_N_Me]

Gonna have to give it straight to the men on this one.

Bad relationships are always the man's fault. Why?

Because you are the one doing the choosing and a real commitment only happens when you decide so.

Look at it this way, men get married to build a life. Women get married to have a life.

You are the CEO/Founder of your company. If you keep hiring bad employees then that is on you. Learn how to spot a good employee who will help your company grow and flourish. If you do get a good employee then learn how to retain her so that she will stay.

[JonniJacko]

Gonna have to give it straight to the men on this one.

Bad relationships are always the man's fault. Why?

Because you are the one doing the choosing and a real commitment only happens when you decide so.

Look at it this way, men get married to build a life. Women get married to have a life.

You are the CEO/Founder of your company. If you keep hiring bad employees then that is on you. Learn how to spot a good employee who will help your company grow and flourish. If you do get a good employee then learn how to retain her so that she will stay.

This is only true for men who is at least a 8 out of 10, who is well off, experienced and have options..lols

[Believe_N_Me]

Men should always be striving to be that 8 out of 10 if not a 10 out of 10.

God wired men with the desire to do good for himself so that he can do good for others. When a man lacks this desire it's only because he is far removed from God.

This is why a woman should never be with a man who doesn't love himself. And I don't mean selfish love that exists in a narcissist or severely dismissive avoidant. I mean the kind of love where he respects himself enough not to become unproductive. The kind of self-love that keeps him resilient in order to overcome odds rather than shut down. The kind of self-love that makes him a problem-solver and not a problem-finder.

Attractive men are fighters. That means that when the chips are down or the going gets tough, he stays focused and sharp so that he can come out on top.

[JonniJacko]

Why didn't you tell me this 20 years ago. Lol yeah, but what if he's missing a limb or half his face is missing. Lol jk.