Single and pregnant

[lifemystery]

Women tells other women to stay single that there is no good men but keeps getting pregnant. Waiting for captin save a hoe to rescue a dead beat single mother. Having baby showers with no father? 🤣

[Believe_N_Me]

The older a woman gets, her dating pool shrinks and whatever is available in that pool belongs at the bottom.

But anyhoo, it's not good for these women to have children out of wedlock. It's very destructive to the child's mentality. The other thing is that kids do take on a lot of their biological father's traits so having babies with bums will most likely yield bums. I saw a video of a black woman crying because her two sons (from different daddies) were turning out to be just like their dads. It didn't matter how much she nurtured them, tried to teach them differently, etc.

[JonniJacko]

I've worked around a lot of young men and I'm somewhat shocked at the amount of wisdom and brokenness they expressed to me. It's not uncommon to hear they say they wish they weren't born. Grew up with no father figure, have countless half siblings etc ..Often finding myself playing that "cool Uncle" that gives them valuable perceptions. They never really had a chance to enjoy their innocence knowing they were brought into the world out of selfish reasons and not out of true love between a man and woman. The good news is that they do appreciate me playing Uncle Cool and giving them a vision to have purpose for living. Haha save humanity...lol

[TsovTom]

Women tells other women to stay single that there is no good men but keeps getting pregnant. Waiting for captin save a hoe to rescue a dead beat single mother. Having baby showers with no father? 🤣

women and their ideas of making income without working...it's not about lack of good men, but about milking the system.
when you're too lazy to get up and go to work, you lay on your back to get paid!

[Believe_N_Me]

If you're not seriously interested in single moms then just stay away.

I'm a firm believer that men who take advantage of single moms will get bad karma. When you date or approach a single mom, you must be serious about actually wanting a real commitment. And for goodness sakes, don't sleep with her before marriage - even if she initiates. Those who initiate do so from a broken place. Besides, there are plenty of single girls or even hookers who will give you sex if you're horny.

The reason why you'll get really bad karma and never have a good relationship when you mess with single moms is because their heartbroken tears are real. God hears them.

When you discard a single mom after having slept with her, she feels really bad about herself. More bad than a single girl would. Some of you might be saying, "but I was serious about her and it was she who mistreated me."

Maybe so, but you still had a sexual relationship with her before marriage, right? So it doesn't matter if she is the one who sabotaged the connection. You always had the upper hand.

So beware, men! All the men I know who played with the emotions of divorcees/widowers/single moms always got it really bad in the end.

Kuv yeej tsis pom lawv ua tau neej zoo li as.

[Believe_N_Me]

women and their ideas of making income without working...it's not about lack of good men, but about milking the system.
when you're too lazy to get up and go to work, you lay on your back to get paid!

I don't know of Hmong women doing this. I just see older divorcees moving in boyfriends who don't really have stability. Especially those who got the house from the divorce OR those who used their ex-husband's 401K to buy a plot of land to do marijuana. If they don't move in a hobosexual boyfriend then they go overseas for a nraug mos ab.

At this point, it makes more sense for them to just keep their husband if he is willing to stick around. Why trade one bum for another? At least the ex-husband is the real baby daddy. The new bum is just looking for a place to sleep, and home cooked food. And talks to other women whenever you two are fighting, then has the audacity to say that he's justified because technically he is single.

[JonniJacko]

If you're not seriously interested in single moms then just stay away.

I'm a firm believer that men who take advantage of single moms will get bad karma. When you date or approach a single mom, you must be serious about actually wanting a real commitment. And for goodness sakes, don't sleep with her before marriage - even if she initiates. Those who initiate do so from a broken place. Besides, there are plenty of single girls or even hookers who will give you sex if you're horny.

The reason why you'll get really bad karma and never have a good relationship when you mess with single moms is because their heartbroken tears are real. God hears them.

When you discard a single mom after having slept with her, she feels really bad about herself. More bad than a single girl would. Some of you might be saying, "but I was serious about her and it was she who mistreated me."

Maybe so, but you still had a sexual relationship with her before marriage, right? So it doesn't matter if she is the one who sabotaged the connection. You always had the upper hand.

This is why if you're thinking about marrying a single mom, it is better for you to go ask for her hand in marriage. This is actually the cheaper route according to Hmong customs. The parents will say that you are giving respect to their daughter. If she elopes with you then they will charge you the single girl price because they consider it disrespectful. You are asking a single mom to run away with you like she is the one desperate for you and who knows if you'll really love her.

So beware, men! All the men I know who played with the emotions of divorcees/widowers/single moms always got it really bad in the end.

Kuv yeej tsis pom lawv ua tau neej zoo li as.

Yeah, soul eating is a real thing IMO. I've seen it. For example, some of the most beloved celebrities who's been in multiple marriages and pretty much had no respect for their body, MEN included. Boy do they look like they got their soul suck out of them. haha It's the same with people we know who lived that kind of lifestyle. I believe once someone crosses the line, there is no going back.

I believe God is neither Good or Evil, but a universal cause and effect. It's not bias, it has no favorites, no special treatments. Like the physical realm, if we touch fire, we get burned...LOL in the Higher realm, if you do bad, bad will come back. The Law of return= Karma is either good or bad, and people choose if they want good or bad karma..haha yup.