Everything was going great, so why did they ghost?

[Believe_N_Me]

If they ghost you, it's probably because they made up with their ex.

They used you to boost their ego while they were on a long break with their ex. In other words, they were cheating and it's likely that this is how they cope in that toxic relationship. Someday you'll be very thankful that you didn't end up with them. All they have is a toxic relationship where they both sleep with other people whenever they fight and breakup.

You deserve someone who is loyal, faithful, committed, and wants to build with you. And above all, someone who will fight to protect what the two of you built together. Not someone who breaks up so they can go sleep with someone else and then return when things cool down.

[JonniJacko]

set the tone early. make it loud and clear you're not afraid to walk away--if they fuke up just once, they are done...haha

[Believe_N_Me]

set the tone early. make it loud and clear you're not afraid to walk away--if they fuke up just once, they are done...haha

It's important to pay close attention to someone's relationship history. If someone talks badly about an ex whom they've been with for a very long time then it's a big red flag. If their ex was that bad then why didn't they just end the relationship instead of letting it go on for years? 100% that they're still with the ex and is using you to cope with the ex whom they don't want to deal with at home, but won't leave. You're caught in the middle of their breakup phase, but as soon as they make up or things cool down, they'll ghost you or tell you that they're just too busy.

[JonniJacko]

It's important to pay close attention to someone's relationship history. If someone talks badly about an ex whom they've been with for a very long time then it's a big red flag. If their ex was that bad then why didn't they just end the relationship instead of letting it go on for years? 100% that they're still with the ex and is using you to cope with the ex whom they don't want to deal with at home, but won't leave. You're caught in the middle of their breakup phase, but as soon as they make up or things cool down, they'll ghost you or tell you that they're just too busy.

Look for a stream that flows freely, naturally and peacefully.... esp. at night time. LOL....beware of the stream that is peaceful at daytime, but almost  violent and fast moving  at night...esp. on a full moon...lol

[Believe_N_Me]

huh?

lol

[JonniJacko]

I was trying to be articulate..LO L

Look for peacefulness and  consistency. yup. that's all.