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General Relationship / Hypergamy
« on: November 20, 2024, 11:22:43 PM »
It's real...I tell you why...One time my aunt said to me " Son, You need to find a wife"...and my mother interrupted " Even if he find a wife, they're not going to love him, he's got nothing to show".... 
At the time, I didn't think much of it...didn't know what or why my Old lady would say such, but just thought that's how she shows humility for having such a good looking son...LMAO kind of like the old Hmong saying.....eve n if your daughter is very pretty, you say she is very ugly and smell like crap...so the evil spirits don't take her away.....
But now I think of it, my old lady was dead serious....She never once told me or pressure me to find a wife...She always said if she had it her way, she stayed single....and so they say, mother's no best....she knows single for me is best...LOL
At the time, I didn't think much of it...didn't know what or why my Old lady would say such, but just thought that's how she shows humility for having such a good looking son...LMAO kind of like the old Hmong saying.....eve n if your daughter is very pretty, you say she is very ugly and smell like crap...so the evil spirits don't take her away.....
But now I think of it, my old lady was dead serious....She never once told me or pressure me to find a wife...She always said if she had it her way, she stayed single....and so they say, mother's no best....she knows single for me is best...LOL
