Those who can't appreciate a good thing, don't get blessed again

[Believe_N_Me]

When people leave a good partner or sabotage a good relationship, it's very unlikely that they'll find that same quality in anyone else.
What tends to happen is they end up settling because they can't take any more risks. Therefore, they settle with the first person who is decent enough. It's not the one that their heart desires, but it's the one that they can learn to live with.

That's the key takeaway I get from listening to people's love and relationship stories.

[JonniJacko]

When people leave a good partner or sabotage a good relationship, it's very unlikely that they'll find that same quality in anyone else.
What tends to happen is they end up settling because they can't take any more risks. Therefore, they settle with the first person who is decent enough. It's not the one that their heart desires, but it's the one that they can learn to live with.

That's the key takeaway I get from listening to people's love and relationship stories.

Yes, I'm sure a lot of us been there. Maybe on both ends. The one they regret, and then the one that got away...It all comes down to fate and destiny...haha LOL The universe knows you better than you know yourself..haha yup. I believe it...haha

[Cali Guy]

Get it right the first time, it’s easy to read and predict people. If a person still gets it wrong the second time, still got more to go.

[Believe_N_Me]

 

The more they keep getting it wrong, the more likely they will settle in the end. The person who best suits their circumstance is the one they commit to. Like that guy in Nancy's story, "Married 7 times, Divorced 6 times". The 6th girlfriend was actually a good catch and very decent, but she was turned off by his relationship history and called off the wedding at the last minute. That divorced guy basically needed a place to live. If his wee-wee wasn't disfigured and he still had as-loos in him, I have no doubt that he'd live with the widow for stability but talk to other women.

[Believe_N_Me]

Btw, this happens with plenty of women who thought they could do better than their husband.

There are plenty of unhappy married women who divorced their husband because they didn't like his bad habits. Only to find out that the available men who take interest in them have worse habits or aren't serious about building a life with them. These men will move in with them and keep their company, but they don't plan to actually invest in the relationship in a way that meets her expectations. These women get strung along for years, hoping he'll change or marry her, and so they accept his breadcrumbs because they don't have better options. They figure that as long as they can get him to perform some house chores then that is better than nothing. By the time they know it, they are too old and the dude has moved on to marry a younger woman who can have his babies. She was just a placeholder all along.

These stories are real and can be heard on Nancy Yang, Jenny Vang, Mab Vang or read on Facebook Hmong Anonymous. 

[Believe_N_Me]

Yes, I'm sure a lot of us been there. Maybe on both ends. The one they regret, and then the one that got away...It all comes down to fate and destiny...haha LOL The universe knows you better than you know yourself..haha yup. I believe it...haha

Rejection is protection.