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Dear Dr. PebHmong / Re: Never thought i would be a yawg nrauj...

« on: February 01, 2016, 11:31:08 AM »

Can't imagine what you are going through.
She cheated, she's pregnant, and she's not keeping the child.

When you say work it out.  What do you mean?  Did you guys go to counseling? talk it out?

I know it's not easy at all. After I caught her, she threaten to divorce me and didn't care what she was doing. I couldn't take it and left back home to my parents. We argued over text back and forth during those times. After I agreed to the divorce she backed down and then wanted to work it out. I said fine and came back home then. Since then, I also found that I don't think I will ever look at my wife the same way after knowing that she cheated on me.  My friends and family tell me to divorce her, and I feel foolish not to, but now that I know that she has been constantly lying to me, I had enough and wanted to leave her. I'm worried about being a divorcee and how I will meet anyone else. 

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Dear Dr. PebHmong / Never thought i would be a yawg nrauj...

« on: February 01, 2016, 10:29:04 AM »

Guys/Gals,

I never thought I would be in a situation like this, but recently found out my wife cheated on me. It's been a couple of weeks, and I came back home to try to worked it out a few times.  Now, life throws another curveball at me and I recently found out she is pregnant.  The thing is she lied about the dates she slept with the guy when I came back to try to work it out, and  now she is pregnant with a baby that could not be mine. I am debating on divorcing her, and she isn't planning to keep the kid.  I never thought I would be a yawg nrauj, and I have been out of the dating game for so long, I don't know how I will meet anyone else if I leave. Btw, I'm only 31 years old and my wife and I have been married 6 yrs.  Let me know your thoughts.

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High School Years / Re: What high school did you attend?

« on: January 08, 2008, 02:04:05 PM »

D.C. Everest. Class of 2003.  Look me up if you want