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Title: Where do single hmong men/women hang out at?
Post by: autumnbreeze on August 24, 2018, 07:00:20 PM
Where are the single people 30+ at? How does one find a single hmong guy/girl this day and age? It's so hard now a day. Even new years are not helping bc most ppl there are either kids or OGs only. 😔
Title: Re: Where do single hmong men/women hang out at?
Post by: thePoster on August 26, 2018, 03:20:07 PM
Probably busyworking
Title: Re: Where do single hmong men/women hang out at?
Post by: theking on August 27, 2018, 01:11:57 AM
Depends ..... on where, what type of method, etc...
Title: Re: Where do single hmong men/women hang out at?
Post by: Gucci K on August 27, 2018, 07:30:54 AM
Where are the single people 30+ at? How does one find a single hmong guy/girl this day and age? It's so hard now a day. Even new years are not helping bc most ppl there are either kids or OGs only. 😔
if you're in the twin cities...go to monkong or pupraya, on the weekends!  i'm never there but if you go, i'll be there!
Title: Re: Where do single hmong men/women hang out at?
Post by: blia on August 30, 2018, 11:56:07 AM
On the internet? It is like finding a needle in the haystack, you have to get to know friends of their friends in order to find them.
Title: Re: Where do single hmong men/women hang out at?
Post by: tRouBLe on August 30, 2018, 02:26:50 PM
Online and through family/friends/acquaintances.....but be cautious online, since there are catfishes out there.   ;D
Title: Re: Where do single hmong men/women hang out at?
Post by: nraug_hmoob on September 02, 2018, 08:05:37 AM
Online and through family/friends/acquaintances.....but be cautious online, since there are catfishes out there.   ;D

Where online? I am in the same boat lol.
Title: Re: Where do single hmong men/women hang out at?
Post by: ProudLao on September 04, 2018, 08:10:12 AM
You're looking at it,  nraug_hmoob meet autumnbreeze  ;D
Title: Re: Where do single hmong men/women hang out at?
Post by: duckwingduck on September 05, 2018, 10:29:07 PM
I'm single.  :)
Title: Re: Where do single hmong men/women hang out at?
Post by: nraug_hmoob on September 05, 2018, 11:14:22 PM
You're looking at it,  nraug_hmoob meet autumnbreeze  ;D

O0 So, I wander..even if you are 30+, lives in a place like California or Minnesota where there is a big Hmong community and still can't find someone, something must be wrong with you... Lol.
Title: Re: Where do single hmong men/women hang out at?
Post by: ProudLao on September 06, 2018, 07:12:54 AM
The right one will surely come along, looking too hard could be a mistake.
Title: Re: Where do single hmong men/women hang out at?
Post by: tRouBLe on September 06, 2018, 07:17:57 PM
O0 So, I wander..even if you are 30+, lives in a place like California or Minnesota where there is a big Hmong community and still can't find someone, something must be wrong with you... Lol.

Is it wrong to be a workaholic?  Or to want to be single?  Or to have very VERY high standards?   :D  ;D
Title: Re: Where do single hmong men/women hang out at?
Post by: Rebel on September 13, 2018, 03:45:09 PM
Where are the single people 30+ at? How does one find a single hmong guy/girl this day and age? It's so hard now a day. Even new years are not helping bc most ppl there are either kids or OGs only. 😔

Try the bookstores or library. I doubt Hmong guys go there but its worth a try... lol
Title: Re: Where do single hmong men/women hang out at?
Post by: nraug_hmoob on September 30, 2018, 05:27:47 PM
Is it wrong to be a workaholic?  Or to want to be single?  Or to have very VERY high standards?   :D  ;D

Lmao. At what point do you call it quit tho. Most Hmong girls I know as they get into their 30s, will give up and start dating outside the community.  Glad I'm a guy, I can always married someone younger.  HINT: Taking applications ::)
Title: Re: Where do single hmong men/women hang out at?
Post by: tRouBLe on October 02, 2018, 08:22:09 AM
Lmao. At what point do you call it quit tho. Most Hmong girls I know as they get into their 30s, will give up and start dating outside the community.  Glad I'm a guy, I can always married someone younger.  HINT: Taking applications ::)

Love can occur anytime and anywhere.  Even if you’ve made up your mind about no longer finding a partner.....it can still happen, whether in the Hmong community or outside.  O0  Nowadays, both men and women can marry younger/older if they’re open to it (within reason, of course).  ;D
Title: Re: Where do single hmong men/women hang out at?
Post by: nightrider on October 16, 2018, 06:54:01 PM
Yeh, in the same boat as all of you whom are single. I'd given up trying to meet people. Week days after work, just try to relax at home then weekend comes, I try to sleep thru it like a drunk. The more you think about your singles miserable existence the deeper you get into depression.

Now; I personally think that we single people need to look at the bright side. We're in our 30's something, even if you don't make much money, you have money regardless. At this point, we really don't have much prospect here, and am tired of this dating game(I know I'm) we may need to just compromise and head overseas. This isn't just for us men alone, women should do the same too.
Title: Re: Where do single hmong men/women hang out at?
Post by: Believe_N_Me on October 18, 2018, 10:01:52 PM
Where are the single people 30+ at? How does one find a single hmong guy/girl this day and age? It's so hard now a day. Even new years are not helping bc most ppl there are either kids or OGs only. 😔

If you are 30+ you are an OG.  :crybaby2:
Title: Re: Where do single hmong men/women hang out at?
Post by: Reporter on October 20, 2018, 06:28:54 AM
I don't like dating, either. Always spending money for lunches.

Yeh, in the same boat as all of you whom are single. I'd given up trying to meet people. Week days after work, just try to relax at home then weekend comes, I try to sleep thru it like a drunk. The more you think about your singles miserable existence the deeper you get into depression.

Now; I personally think that we single people need to look at the bright side. We're in our 30's something, even if you don't make much money, you have money regardless. At this point, we really don't have much prospect here, and am tired of this dating game(I know I'm) we may need to just compromise and head overseas. This isn't just for us men alone, women should do the same too.
Title: Re: Where do single hmong men/women hang out at?
Post by: lilly on December 05, 2018, 07:34:34 PM
At work.  At home.  At gatherings.  At the grocery store.

This one time, a produce guy went above and beyond by getting me a veggie bag when I could have gotten it, he even opened the bag for me, and got me a tissue after I grabbed a veggie and put it in the bag and my hand was wet.  I thought he was really making an effort and I was really touched by his gestures.  He was either either a really kind man or that was his way of picking up women. 
Title: Re: Where do single hmong men/women hang out at?
Post by: nraug_hmoob on December 08, 2018, 10:42:14 AM
If you are 30+ you are an OG.  :crybaby2:

So you're saying it's time I go to Laos to find a wife?  :D Lolol
Title: Re: Where do single hmong men/women hang out at?
Post by: YAX on December 09, 2018, 12:06:06 AM
Where are the single people 30+ at? How does one find a single hmong guy/girl this day and age? It's so hard now a day. Even new years are not helping bc most ppl there are either kids or OGs only. 😔
so glad I don't have to deal with all that.
Title: Re: Where do single hmong men/women hang out at?
Post by: nightrider on December 19, 2018, 06:24:43 PM
So you're saying it's time I go to Laos to find a wife?  :D Lolol

 :2funny:

What can I say. Just do the math, the stats are not on your side. Just try talking to some girls at the new year. With that number, you're definitely an old geezer. I'm planning to go overseas after the new years. I guess it's better to be known as sugar daddy than og. Besides, more choices...
Title: Re: Where do single hmong men/women hang out at?
Post by: Peachy Fish on December 19, 2018, 07:11:29 PM
Not in this boat, but I have a single sister, I think. I say I think because she is really secretive about who she dates. Never know until it's over, and we're close.  ;D

Anyway, I see there are plenty of people at the church events, church, soccer/volleyball tournaments, school, and library.

Where online? I am in the same boat lol.

PebHmobg, hello!
Title: Re: Where do single hmong men/women hang out at?
Post by: Peachy Fish on December 19, 2018, 07:20:14 PM
Not in this boat, but I have a single sister, I think. I say I think because she is really secretive about who she dates. Never know until it's over, and we're close.  ;D

Anyway, I see there are plenty of people at the church events, church, soccer/volleyball tournaments, school, and library.

PebHmong, hello!
Title: Re: Where do single hmong men/women hang out at?
Post by: VillainousHero on January 09, 2019, 12:59:40 PM
I hang out here PH...or there another online site.

When I was 30 it was fun...now fifteen yrs laters...just memories.

It's winter time so off to the iced lake I go hang out...laterz cuz that's my only invitation.
Title: Re: Where do single hmong men/women hang out at?
Post by: DuMa on January 09, 2019, 01:07:09 PM
They hang out on Facebook.....j ust looking though

https://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=1199180150239210&id=100004417096573
Title: Re: Where do single hmong men/women hang out at?
Post by: Pana23 on January 09, 2019, 06:05:26 PM
Catch y’all at church. 
Title: Re: Where do single hmong men/women hang out at?
Post by: VillainousHero on January 09, 2019, 09:05:47 PM
Just got back from the lake...there were no chicks...but plenty of fishes in the water.  ;D
Title: Re: Where do single hmong men/women hang out at?
Post by: VillainousHero on January 11, 2019, 11:59:23 PM
I saw a few chickens at the lake...they were stealing fish left on the ice.

Title: Re: Where do single hmong men/women hang out at?
Post by: YAX on January 15, 2019, 08:22:17 AM
At work.  At home.  At gatherings.  At the grocery store.

This one time, a produce guy went above and beyond by getting me a veggie bag when I could have gotten it, he even opened the bag for me, and got me a tissue after I grabbed a veggie and put it in the bag and my hand was wet.  I thought he was really making an effort and I was really touched by his gestures.  He was either either a really kind man or that was his way of picking up women.
That's simple. Just watch and see if he does that to the men.  If he does, then he's just a really kind man, otherwise..
Title: Re: Where do single hmong men/women hang out at?
Post by: YAX on January 15, 2019, 08:24:02 AM
I saw a few chickens at the lake...they were stealing fish left on the ice.
  That's funny.  Last night, I dreamt I was by a lake and was thinking, "Hmm.. Is this the famous Phalen lake, that MN folks hang out at? Where's all the MN folks?", but of course, in my dream, it wasn't winter either.
Title: Re: Where do single hmong men/women hang out at?
Post by: YAX on January 15, 2019, 08:25:08 AM
O0 So, I wander..even if you are 30+, lives in a place like California or Minnesota where there is a big Hmong community and still can't find someone, something must be wrong with you... Lol.
Nothing's wrong. You're just ugly, that's all.  ;D
Title: Re: Where do single hmong men/women hang out at?
Post by: YAX on January 15, 2019, 08:27:07 AM
Is it wrong to be a workaholic?  Or to want to be single?  Or to have very VERY high standards?   :D  ;D
It's like a pyrmid.  As you head up in age, the choices gets smaller.
Title: Re: Where do single hmong men/women hang out at?
Post by: YAX on January 15, 2019, 08:30:41 AM
Love can occur anytime and anywhere.  Even if you’ve made up your mind about no longer finding a partner.....it can still happen, whether in the Hmong community or outside.  O0  Nowadays, both men and women can marry younger/older if they’re open to it (within reason, of course).  ;D
It's gotta be a lot of work, trying to keep in shape so when the right one comes along, he'll be interested though.
Title: Re: Where do single hmong men/women hang out at?
Post by: VillainousHero on January 15, 2019, 11:16:16 AM
  That's funny.  Last night, I dreamt I was by a lake and was thinking, "Hmm.. Is this the famous Phalen lake, that MN folks hang out at? Where's all the MN folks?", but of course, in my dream, it wasn't winter either.
Phalen lake has ducks hanging out there.  ;D  Even in winter time, they swim around in a certain spot and keeps the ice from forming on it.  People keep hand feeding the ducks so they don't fly south.
Title: Re: Where do single hmong men/women hang out at?
Post by: Wi_sweetguy on January 24, 2019, 11:59:17 AM
It's winter here, and best place to hang out is at home... ;D ;D and probably the gym.. O0
Title: Re: Where do single hmong men/women hang out at?
Post by: Griffith on February 21, 2019, 04:16:32 AM
Single is the best, y'all can do watever y'all want. Without getting into trouble with ur S/O. Clubbing, hanging out banging those side chicks. I wonder if StarGay is still open or did the city shut them down?. Gosh I haven't been there in over a couple of years ago.
Title: Re: Where do single hmong men/women hang out at?
Post by: tRouBLe on March 01, 2019, 01:54:27 PM
It's like a pyrmid.  As you head up in age, the choices gets smaller.

Unless you expand your horizons.   ;D

It's gotta be a lot of work, trying to keep in shape so when the right one comes along, he'll be interested though.

Keeping physically fit shouldn’t be for the other person, it should be done for yourself.  I don’t consider this a lot of work, especially if it makes you healthy and feel good about yourself.  :P
Title: Re: Where do single hmong men/women hang out at?
Post by: theking on March 01, 2019, 03:56:52 PM
Unless you expand your horizons.   ;D

Great point but narrow minded folks can't fathom such a concept unfortunately. .. ;D
Title: Re: Where do single hmong men/women hang out at?
Post by: lilly on April 30, 2019, 11:02:33 AM
Try the bookstores or library. I doubt Hmong guys go there but its worth a try... lol

Hahaha!  I once thought about trying the library to meet a guy because a guy who's into books is... mmm... yummy!   ;D  But no Hmong guy goes to the library.  Or....... do they?  Hmmm.
Title: Re: Where do single hmong men/women hang out at?
Post by: lilly on April 30, 2019, 11:06:19 AM
With that said, if anyone wants a chat with me... all you gotta do is go to Barnes & Noble... I'm that girl with the nerdy glasses with her face in a book... with a cup of coffee next to her.   ;D
Title: Re: Where do single hmong men/women hang out at?
Post by: YAX on April 30, 2019, 11:44:37 AM
Hahaha!  I once thought about trying the library to meet a guy because a guy who's into books is... mmm... yummy!   ;D  But no Hmong guy goes to the library.  Or....... do they?  Hmmm.
I used to take my daughter to the library but that was back before she went to school and I was home watching her.  ;D 
Title: Re: Where do single hmong men/women hang out at?
Post by: DuMa on April 30, 2019, 11:47:25 AM
With that said, if anyone wants a chat with me... all you gotta do is go to Barnes & Noble... I'm that girl with the nerdy glasses with her face in a book... with a cup of coffee next to her.   ;D

Unless drunk cuz a bookstore or a library are the worst places to pick up a chat.  It is quiet, dead quiet so how are we going to chat?  It is so quiet that anyone can hear your screaming of sexual harrassment thus is an automatic big time no no place to pick up women.  However, catch you outside will be a different story. 
Title: Re: Where do single hmong men/women hang out at?
Post by: YAX on April 30, 2019, 11:49:11 AM
Unless drunk cuz a bookstore or a library are the worst places to pick up a chat.  It is quiet, dead quiet so how are we going to chat?  It is so quiet that anyone can hear your screaming of sexual harrassment thus is an automatic big time no no place to pick up women.  However, catch you outside will be a different story.
or you could go in there, sit next in front of her and get your iphone out for a chat session.  ;D
Title: Re: Where do single hmong men/women hang out at?
Post by: Gucci K on April 30, 2019, 01:59:15 PM
With that said, if anyone wants a chat with me... all you gotta do is go to Barnes & Noble... I'm that girl with the nerdy glasses with her face in a book... with a cup of coffee next to her.   ;D
would you get up and go or start a conversation if i sat down next to you with the kama sutra book? 
Title: Re: Where do single hmong men/women hang out at?
Post by: VillainousHero on May 29, 2019, 02:06:31 PM
LOL...just reading this.

There was this Asian mother who tried to pick me up at the Grocery store.  She had her daughter with her shopping too.

Of course I was only grocery shopping and my ice cream is melting.   ;D  I forgotten what the conversation was...anyways afterwards.

Now I think grocery shopping is a great place to meat singles.

You walk down the aisles and you keep running into each other.  You smile as you walk past them, and take sneak peaks behind your back.  You stay at the other end of the aisle and gaze at their strides and pretend you're looking at a package.

It's even more awkward to have a conversation at the library.  What book are you reading/checking out.  It's a book on the opposite sex... :2funny:
Title: Re: Where do single hmong men/women hang out at?
Post by: lilly on May 29, 2019, 02:58:57 PM
LOL...just reading this.

There was this Asian mother who tried to pick me up at the Grocery store.  She had her daughter with her shopping too.

Of course I was only grocery shopping and my ice cream is melting.   ;D  I forgotten what the conversation was...anyways afterwards.

Now I think grocery shopping is a great place to meat singles.

You walk down the aisles and you keep running into each other.  You smile as you walk past them, and take sneak peaks behind your back.  You stay at the other end of the aisle and gaze at their strides and pretend you're looking at a package.

It's even more awkward to have a conversation at the library.  What book are you reading/checking out.  It's a book on the opposite sex... :2funny:

Haha, come to think of it... yes, the grocery store is a pretty good place to meet people.    O0  ;D
Title: Re: Where do single hmong men/women hang out at?
Post by: DuMa on May 29, 2019, 03:20:59 PM
I walked by two during my lunch break.  Obviously viets with the Blondie highlights but I kept on walking.  We will never see each other again. 

Women are everywhere these days.  Looks like my balls have shrunk but it is for my own good.  Don't catch me on the weekend when my hunting mode is on. 

Title: Re: Where do single hmong men/women hang out at?
Post by: VillainousHero on May 29, 2019, 03:42:19 PM
I walked by two during my lunch break.  Obviously viets with the Blondie highlights but I kept on walking.  We will never see each other again. 

Women are everywhere these days.  Looks like my balls have shrunk but it is for my own good.  Don't catch me on the weekend when my hunting mode is on.

LOL this happened all the time when I use to work at corporate american down town.

I always meet these wonderful sexy ladies either in the skyway or standing in line trying to get lunch.

"You wanna share a table?"

"I'm lost can you help me?

That's what they sometimes say to me.

Me, "I'm gonna need the table space, cuz I have two lunches I'm trying to eat."

"I can't help you, cuz I have no idea where I'm at right now."

 :idiot2:  Was I stupid!  They be trying to give me hints and it's just went past my head.  Well actually I saw where their eyes was looking at and it was somewhere below my belt line.  I was at the time seeing someone and/or married.

Now I'm single again...soooo.  :2funny:
Title: Re: Where do single hmong men/women hang out at?
Post by: theking on May 29, 2019, 05:30:20 PM
LOL...just reading this.

There was this Asian mother who tried to pick me up at the Grocery store. 

The melons, cucumbers and zucchinis area is usually a good spot??  ???
Title: Re: Where do single hmong men/women hang out at?
Post by: VillainousHero on May 29, 2019, 05:38:16 PM
The melons, cucumbers and zucchinis area is usually a good spot??  ???

Actually I was in the canned vegetable canned soup section...LOL  she was asking me something about noodles another two aisles down away.  It was something about how can you cook something and if you know how to prepare something...

I was more concern with...You see the ice cream bucket in my cart?  It's melting.

At that time, I was still a young guy twenty something only.

Title: Re: Where do single hmong men/women hang out at?
Post by: lilly on May 29, 2019, 06:18:41 PM
LOL this happened all the time when I use to work at corporate american down town.

I always meet these wonderful sexy ladies either in the skyway or standing in line trying to get lunch.

"You wanna share a table?"

"I'm lost can you help me?

That's what they sometimes say to me.

Me, "I'm gonna need the table space, cuz I have two lunches I'm trying to eat."

"I can't help you, cuz I have no idea where I'm at right now."

 :idiot2:  Was I stupid!  They be trying to give me hints and it's just went past my head.  Well actually I saw where their eyes was looking at and it was somewhere below my belt line.  I was at the time seeing someone and/or married.

Now I'm single again...soooo.  :2funny:

OMG, Villain, you can really crack me up!   kekeke!  ;D
Title: Re: Where do single hmong men/women hang out at?
Post by: VillainousHero on May 29, 2019, 07:38:37 PM
OMG, Villain, you can really crack me up!   kekeke!  ;D

So you know how tiny some of them stupid little lunch tables are?  I put my two lunches on it and I really haven't got room for my one large drink already.  I know space is tight in them skyline area,

I once pointed north...or I thought so, then it was only afterwards like two weeks I google and I was pointing southwest.  LOL..skyway and underground ways after a while is confusing in actual direction.  I walk the path I walk, but I really don't know what the names of each building or block is or are.

Someone asked me where I got the great Stromboli sandwiches and I say, it's easier if I just show you rather than tell you, but you must be willing to walk at least 15 minutes.

And one must be careful in the downtown area...them great looking ladies are often nothing but escort services trying to get new clients.  Like the one time gorgeous looking girl, you can almost accuse of working the red light ask me for some change to make a phone call.  I've seen her hang out in the area this past week.  Well I've also seen her use her cell phone before too.  I had one of them stupid small flip phone still.  Oh you need a phone call, I've got a phone for you to use pull it out of my pocket.  She pretends to dial and said no one answered.  Later I look at my phone, not a single number was dialed.  The timing of the place where she stopped me, when no one was around.  Very suspicious.  Not that I want to be suspicious of everyone, but that's how people get mugged when one gets lead to another place where no one is around.  I knew that the service garage and elevators were rather close by and no one goes there unless they be service personnel. 
Title: Re: Where do single hmong men/women hang out at?
Post by: lilly on May 29, 2019, 07:53:42 PM
So you know how tiny some of them stupid little lunch tables are?  I put my two lunches on it and I really haven't got room for my one large drink already.  I know space is tight in them skyline area,

I once pointed north...or I thought so, then it was only afterwards like two weeks I google and I was pointing southwest.  LOL..skyway and underground ways after a while is confusing in actual direction.  I walk the path I walk, but I really don't know what the names of each building or block is or are.

Someone asked me where I got the great Stromboli sandwiches and I say, it's easier if I just show you rather than tell you, but you must be willing to walk at least 15 minutes.


And one must be careful in the downtown area...them great looking ladies are often nothing but escort services trying to get new clients.  Like the one time gorgeous looking girl, you can almost accuse of working the red light ask me for some change to make a phone call.  I've seen her hang out in the area this past week.  Well I've also seen her use her cell phone before too.  I had one of them stupid small flip phone still.  Oh you need a phone call, I've got a phone for you to use pull it out of my pocket.  She pretends to dial and said no one answered.  Later I look at my phone, not a single number was dialed.  The timing of the place where she stopped me, when no one was around.  Very suspicious.  Not that I want to be suspicious of everyone, but that's how people get mugged when one gets lead to another place where no one is around.  I knew that the service garage and elevators were rather close by and no one goes there unless they be service personnel.


I literally could not breathe for 2 minutes because I laughedMAO sooo hard!  OMG!!!  Oh, Villain, you are such a comedian!!!  :2funny: :2funny: :2funny:
Title: Re: Where do single hmong men/women hang out at?
Post by: Believe_N_Me on May 31, 2019, 01:30:43 AM
Hahaha!  I once thought about trying the library to meet a guy because a guy who's into books is... mmm... yummy!   ;D  But no Hmong guy goes to the library.  Or....... do they?  Hmmm.

Hmong guys at a library? What a laugh. You might find some nerdy other type of Asian guy though.

I frequently take my children to secondhand bookstores. Lots of white people in there, young, old, single, married, etc. They are looking for books, magazines or old vinyls. My kids like to look for anime books and other good reads.

NO NON-WHITES EXCEPT FOR MY KIDS AND MYSELF. 

There has never been another time when I saw a non-white at these stores. Even BN is empty of them. Except one time I was talking with an Indian family.
Title: Re: Where do single hmong men/women hang out at?
Post by: Believe_N_Me on May 31, 2019, 01:41:51 AM
Asian grocery store is probably the best place for men to pick up a single Hmong gal in her 30s. Simply just go and ask if she knows where to find dried Chinese yams. Choose an item that will actually draw her to walk down the aisle with you. Then to find out if she's single, maybe ask her what she is shopping for. If she's married she'll tell you right away. "I'm making pho for my family. The kids really want to eat pho."

If she's single, her response is typically, "my mom asked me to come get these items..."

Anyways, single gals tend to be shopping for their maternal family because they're having a small gathering of sorts. Sometimes she's with an older woman, her mom, or other females around her age (sisters, aunts, etc.). But you can usually tell who is single and who is not.

Then just start a conversation.

The problem is that at this age, women don't want to play around. If you're really interested then show it. Let them know your intentions immediately. Women don't want to get into long-time-boyfriend/girlriend-who-knows-where-this-is-going-to-end-relationships. Is this going to be 10 years of dating before tying the knot? Ridiculous!

If the guy has to think too much about it and wait then it's a CANCEL.

If you're a grown man in your 30s+, then you should know by the third month if you're going to marry this woman after seeing her.
Title: Re: Where do single hmong men/women hang out at?
Post by: lilly on May 31, 2019, 08:55:02 AM
Asian grocery store is probably the best place for men to pick up a single Hmong gal in her 30s. Simply just go and ask if she knows where to find dried Chinese yams. Choose an item that will actually draw her to walk down the aisle with you. Then to find out if she's single, maybe ask her what she is shopping for. If she's married she'll tell you right away. "I'm making pho for my family. The kids really want to eat pho."

If she's single, her response is typically, "my mom asked me to come get these items..."

Anyways, single gals tend to be shopping for their maternal family because they're having a small gathering of sorts. Sometimes she's with an older woman, her mom, or other females around her age (sisters, aunts, etc.). But you can usually tell who is single and who is not.

Then just start a conversation.

The problem is that at this age, women don't want to play around. If you're really interested then show it. Let them know your intentions immediately. Women don't want to get into long-time-boyfriend/girlriend-who-knows-where-this-is-going-to-end-relationships. Is this going to be 10 years of dating before tying the knot? Ridiculous!

If the guy has to think too much about it and wait then it's a CANCEL.

If you're a grown man in your 30s+, then you should know by the third month if you're going to marry this woman after seeing her.

 O0
Title: Re: Where do single hmong men/women hang out at?
Post by: VillainousHero on May 31, 2019, 09:32:28 AM
Asian grocery store is probably the best place for men to pick up a single Hmong gal in her 30s. Simply just go and ask if she knows where to find dried Chinese yams. Choose an item that will actually draw her to walk down the aisle with you. Then to find out if she's single, maybe ask her what she is shopping for. If she's married she'll tell you right away. "I'm making pho for my family. The kids really want to eat pho."

If she's single, her response is typically, "my mom asked me to come get these items..."

Anyways, single gals tend to be shopping for their maternal family because they're having a small gathering of sorts. Sometimes she's with an older woman, her mom, or other females around her age (sisters, aunts, etc.). But you can usually tell who is single and who is not.

Then just start a conversation.

The problem is that at this age, women don't want to play around. If you're really interested then show it. Let them know your intentions immediately. Women don't want to get into long-time-boyfriend/girlriend-who-knows-where-this-is-going-to-end-relationships. Is this going to be 10 years of dating before tying the knot? Ridiculous!

If the guy has to think too much about it and wait then it's a CANCEL.

If you're a grown man in your 30s+, then you should know by the third month if you're going to marry this woman after seeing her.

This is almost funny and unbelievable.  As it goes most single female are never single alone at the grocery store.  They're usually in a group or so.  And I never think of hanging out at the Asian grocery store...too busy grocery shopping...my tofu isn't going to cook itself.  :2funny:  And no, I cannot tell who's single...

Is it the way she walks? The way she looks at the produce?  The way she holds it?  :P

Title: Re: Where do single hmong men/women hang out at?
Post by: lilly on May 31, 2019, 10:45:41 AM
This is almost funny and unbelievable.  As it goes most single female are never single alone at the grocery store.  They're usually in a group or so.  And I never think of hanging out at the Asian grocery store...too busy grocery shopping...my tofu isn't going to cook itself.  :2funny:  And no, I cannot tell who's single...

Is it the way she walks? The way she looks at the produce?  The way she holds it?  :P

LOL!  Yes, it's the way she holds the produce.   :2funny:

But yeah, it'll be hard to tell who's single and who's not.  You can just straight up ask her as long as you ask in a NON-CREEPY way... most women don't mind you asking if they are single or taken.  They'll find it flattering.  Maybe just walk by and smile at her in a non-creepy manner... then say, "Hi, how are you?  I think you're beautiful, and was just wondering if you are single?"   :P
Title: Re: Where do single hmong men/women hang out at?
Post by: VillainousHero on May 31, 2019, 10:56:17 AM
LOL!  Yes, it's the way she holds the produce.   :2funny:

But yeah, it'll be hard to tell who's single and who's not.  You can just straight up ask her as long as you ask in a NON-CREEPY way... most women don't mind you asking if they are single or taken.  They'll find it flattering.  Maybe just walk by and smile at her in a non-creepy manner... then say, "Hi, how are you?  I think you're beautiful, and was just wondering if you are single?"   :P

I can tell by the way how you're holding that baby...You are not her mom!  :2funny:
Title: Re: Where do single hmong men/women hang out at?
Post by: Gracified23 on June 01, 2019, 06:37:14 PM
Women hit their wall in their late 20s. Older men dates younger females now.
Title: Re: Where do single hmong men/women hang out at?
Post by: nraug_hmoob on June 04, 2019, 06:44:30 AM
if you're in the twin cities...go to monkong or pupraya, on the weekends!  i'm never there but if you go, i'll be there!

I just moved to the Twin Cities recently. Gonna have to check these places out. So this is where all the Hmong professionals hangout?
Title: Re: Where do single hmong men/women hang out at?
Post by: tRouBLe on June 04, 2019, 06:57:04 AM
Great point but narrow minded folks can't fathom such a concept unfortunately. .. ;D

Sometimes it’s not due to being narrow-minded but preference and there’s nothing wrong with that, since most of us have preferences and standards.   ;D
Title: Re: Where do single hmong men/women hang out at?
Post by: VillainousHero on June 04, 2019, 01:00:11 PM
Women hit their wall in their late 20s. Older men dates younger females now.

What is this wall?

Ladies need to come know down my walls  O0
Title: Re: Where do single hmong men/women hang out at?
Post by: VillainousHero on June 06, 2019, 02:16:30 AM
So I went to my FB account of which I hadn't used for a long time...Apparen tly there's single people on there, or they claim to be single.  >:D
Title: Re: Where do single hmong men/women hang out at?
Post by: DuMa on June 06, 2019, 03:55:56 AM
B4, it used to be the clubs but now, even the clubbing scene seems to have expired.  B4, they used to come to me and I'll tell them which azn theme club be popping.  These days, I can't even tell you one.  The girls I've used to bump and grind at the clubs are now married.  That leaves her daughters as the next generation of 21 years older and it'll be a creep to see me busting the Mack on them cuz well, I might know her mother.  Like imagine this, she introduce me to her mom and we be laughing our azz off cuz her mom and I used to sleep with one another.  Oh the torture. 

Well the azn clubbing scene have died out and azn promoters of the past have all quits.  That means people are spending their leisure time doing other things besides having a night life.  In comes social media. 

I've joined a hmong group on Facebook and to me, it is like a form of club but without the limitation of getting embarrassed.  Like write a short letter and copy and paste style.  Hit up 20 single females and paste the same messages to all and just wait for the fish to bite.  It is that simple to find something to do on the weekend.   Facebook people to the most part are real and best part yet, you don't have to buy them a drink just for them to entertain you either.  In my days, this style would make one a digital pimps.  You now can have hoees in different area codes if you like but I rather focus on the local ones for quicker access like if they need me now and it is 3am in the morning.  Unless I'm planning a trip to MN, I'll change my diet by digital pimping these Midwest women about 2 months in advance.  I noticed that if you media talk with someone on a daily basis and for 2 months, they will feel comfortable with you and if you going to be in town, it'll make her toe curls for that one coffee date in frog town MN.   :2funny:

Title: Re: Where do single hmong men/women hang out at?
Post by: VillainousHero on June 06, 2019, 12:13:44 PM
So That's how it goes...when email first become available.  On college campus there were the email dating thingy.

Write an introduction, an invite, or a what's up email...copy paste and hit send.

Then there was the BCC...awesome.  Just write once and make sure, they're all on BCC.

I always find it funny when getting an email that says...I had such a great time with you last night, I think we really click together...so it goes. 

I'm thinking, but I was never ever even at that party...my response...I believe you have mistaken me for someone else.

Then even more funny, I get a response...It really was you, please don't leave me.

My response...How can I leave you when I haven't even met you.

silence... :2funny:
Title: Re: Where do single hmong men/women hang out at?
Post by: Reporter on June 10, 2019, 05:53:16 AM
You expect to find Hmong professionals at clubs and bars?

I just moved to the Twin Cities recently. Gonna have to check these places out. So this is where all the Hmong professionals hangout?
Title: Re: Where do single hmong men/women hang out at?
Post by: Reporter on June 10, 2019, 05:54:34 AM
I heard that those guys in their 60s that go to Laos look for virgin teenage girls only. Those in their 20s are considered old maids there and are indeed being left out.

Women hit their wall in their late 20s. Older men dates younger females now.
Title: Re: Where do single hmong men/women hang out at?
Post by: tRouBLe on June 10, 2019, 08:09:17 AM
I just moved to the Twin Cities recently. Gonna have to check these places out. So this is where all the Hmong professionals hangout?

He’s joking.  I don’t even know what/where those places are.   ;D
Title: Re: Where do single hmong men/women hang out at?
Post by: Gucci K on June 10, 2019, 11:11:11 AM
I just moved to the Twin Cities recently. Gonna have to check these places out. So this is where all the Hmong professionals hangout?
yes...you'll find all sorts of hmong people there. from gangsters to doctors, lawyers and even your hmong leaders (pha-thaanz!).  What you will find most interesting are single and beautiful women! 
Title: Re: Where do single hmong men/women hang out at?
Post by: Gucci K on June 10, 2019, 11:12:27 AM
He’s joking.  I don’t even know what/where those places are.   ;D
stop playing!  i've seen you there a few times!  ha!
Title: Re: Where do single hmong men/women hang out at?
Post by: Reporter on June 10, 2019, 11:40:27 AM
I met a non-Hmong guy who told me to go to the Casino to find hot Asian women, too.

yes...you'll find all sorts of hmong people there. from gangsters to doctors, lawyers and even your hmong leaders (pha-thaz!).  What you will find most interesting are single and beautiful women!
Title: Re: Where do single hmong men/women hang out at?
Post by: Gucci K on June 10, 2019, 11:48:28 AM
I met a non-Hmong guy who told me to go to the Casino to find hot Asian women, too.
that is one good spot to find good looking women...proble m is, you would have to pay money just to get her number and sometimes it's not even correct! ha!
 
Title: Re: Where do single hmong men/women hang out at?
Post by: Reporter on June 10, 2019, 06:20:14 PM
Okay. So, you agree, too.

A Hmong guy told me if you give those girls $100.00 to gamble, they'll go to any hotel room at the casino with you for the night.

that is one good spot to find good looking women...proble m is, you would have to pay money just got get her number and sometimes it's not even correct! ha!
Title: Re: Where do single hmong men/women hang out at?
Post by: tRouBLe on June 11, 2019, 06:38:40 AM
stop playing!  i've seen you there a few times!  ha!

That’s hilarious and thanks for the laugh.   ;D

I’ll reiterate what I said earlier......o nline or through family/friends.   O0

Title: Re: Where do single hmong men/women hang out at?
Post by: nraug_hmoob on June 15, 2019, 09:01:34 AM
He’s joking.  I don’t even know what/where those places are.   ;D

When you single as a pringle how else you gonna meet someone. The bar seem like the most logical place most singles tend to want to mingle.  ;D