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General Category => Hmong Culture & History => Topic started by: hmgROCK on February 17, 2020, 10:50:02 PM

Title: if your older brother die.... you suppose to married/take in his wife
Post by: hmgROCK on February 17, 2020, 10:50:02 PM
you take in the wife plus your brother's kids

you don't have to do this
but if you love them....

you will



this old youtube clip does a better job at explain the hmong culture

 start at  2:10
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6vmFQL0JodY (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6vmFQL0JodY)
Title: Re: if your older brother die.... you suppose to married/take in his wife
Post by: ProudLao on February 18, 2020, 09:12:13 AM
Last time I checked it was 2020 lol
Title: Re: if your older brother die.... you suppose to married/take in his wife
Post by: Reporter on February 18, 2020, 09:44:06 AM
No way. That’s icky.
Title: Re: if your older brother die.... you suppose to married/take in his wife
Post by: hmgROCK on February 18, 2020, 10:24:17 AM
this youtube clip does a better job at explaining the hmong culture

start at 2:10

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6vmFQL0JodY (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6vmFQL0JodY)

Title: Re: if your older brother die.... you suppose to married/take in his wife
Post by: Dok_Champa on February 18, 2020, 11:25:59 AM
I still see this happening mainly to keep w/ traditions but enforcement is consensual.  The reason behind is everybody wants to know the widow and her family is being taken care of.  Even if she is not given to the husband's brother,  a family representative will make a promise to look after her family.  Sometimes they will say things like, "We know we can never replace our brother but we will make sure she and her family will not go hungry, has roof over their head, something something...et c.."
Title: Re: if your older brother die.... you suppose to married/take in his wife
Post by: DuMa on February 18, 2020, 01:03:58 PM
Take in ok

but does he gets to have sex with 2 wives now? 
Title: Re: if your older brother die.... you suppose to married/take in his wife
Post by: theking on February 18, 2020, 06:02:27 PM
Last time I checked it was 2020 lol

No way. That’s icky.

Take in ok

but does he gets to have sex with 2 wives now? 

 ;D ;D ;D
Title: Re: if your older brother die.... you suppose to married/take in his wife
Post by: hmgROCK on February 18, 2020, 11:38:00 PM
Take in ok

but does he gets to have sex with 2 wives now?

Yes
He would have two wive
You will address them as 1st and 2nd wife
Can sleep with her if he wants too

In the old days it common for hmong guys to have multiple wives
Title: Re: if your older brother die.... you suppose to married/take in his wife
Post by: WildRedLotus on February 19, 2020, 11:59:50 AM
This is BS. Anyone who still practice this s$$$, need to get their head re-examined.
Title: Re: if your older brother die.... you suppose to married/take in his wife
Post by: hmgROCK on February 19, 2020, 10:52:56 PM
This is BS. Anyone who still practice this s$$$, need to get their head re-examined.

lol

you will be suprised
there are hmong guy in the US
that have 2nd and 3rd wives

Title: Re: if your older brother die.... you suppose to married/take in his wife
Post by: theking on February 20, 2020, 01:09:52 AM
lol

you will be suprised
there are hmong guy in the US
that have 2nd and 3rd wives

I see reading comp issues again like what other PH members pointed out...

WildRedLotus didn't say there's *NO* one that practice it...

Instead she said: "This is BS. Anyone who still practice this s$$$, need to get their head re-examined."
Title: Re: if your older brother die.... you suppose to married/take in his wife
Post by: DuMa on February 20, 2020, 07:33:44 AM
So no case of the guy killing his brother in law just to be with his hot wife?

Oh wait, that'll make her your hot sister   :2funny:
Title: Re: if your older brother die.... you suppose to married/take in his wife
Post by: Mr_Mechanic on February 20, 2020, 08:03:09 AM
Last time I checked it was 2020 lol

This is BS. Anyone who still practice this s$$$, need to get their head re-examined.

Yog!!
Title: Re: if your older brother die.... you suppose to married/take in his wife
Post by: Hung_Low on November 02, 2023, 09:05:43 AM
Take in ok

but does he gets to have sex with 2 wives now?

No, they usually give it to a close family/relative that is single. And only resort to a married person if the family really want to keep the DIL and the children.
Title: Re: if your older brother die.... you suppose to married/take in his wife
Post by: Visualmon on November 02, 2023, 09:26:44 PM
The video ain't no Secret War. What about it sooo secret? :idiot2: :2funny:
Title: Re: if your older brother die.... you suppose to married/take in his wife
Post by: hmgROCK on November 09, 2023, 10:39:12 PM
No, they usually give it to a close family/relative that is single. And only resort to a married person if the family really want to keep the DIL and the children.

If you continue watching the video part 6
At 7:50

The deceased brother’s wife is with sue and his wife in America
Matter of fact, she has always been with sue in part 1 of the documentary
Since his brother pass


https://youtu.be/xFvt3QaLajQ?si=NKO_NVISf_kElXXW

The DIL will get pass down to a brother or family member
So she stays in the family clan


Otherwise she can always start new too
But they will try to get her to stay in the family first always
Title: Re: if your older brother die.... you suppose to married/take in his wife
Post by: Visualmon on November 10, 2023, 01:01:35 AM
It's no secret anymore. Y'all exposing everything.  ;D