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General Discussion / Not sorry for not having much sympathy for immigrants who already have a country

« on: Today at 12:38:14 PM »

For example, if you're a Chinese living in America and you're crying about racism, then go back to China. You actually have an option and I have no interest hearing why you can't get along with the Chinese government or the Chinese who live there.

The other thing, too, is that you and I don't even view racism from the same place.

When you say that whites are being discriminatory against you, you mean that they're in your way. They're not exactly oppressing you since you both are on the same equal footing. The money you make by living in America can and will be sent back to China to enrich that country and the people of your ethnicity. There is a reason why whites are concerned about you as they should be. I don't even blame them.

The only complaint I have about the beef that you have with whites, is that they think I'm also Chinese. They're ignorance is pretty frustrating but then again, I can't expect them to think differently. After all, Asians don't care to make distinctions between the different white ethnic groups either.

But either way, we both know that we don't care about each other.

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General Discussion / Re: Not surprising that Dems ignore how THEY DESTROYED THE SOUTH with SLAVERY

« on: Today at 12:26:30 PM »

Mentality goes a long way, doesn’t matter the location, party or skin color.

Exactly. After slavery was abolished, if slaves weren't abandoned by their masters then they just fell into another trap set up by Dixiecrats (just another segment of the Democrat Party who eventually established the KKK).

And of course, there were still the poor white people. What was to become of them under the new federal policies?

A lot of people don't realize that Native Americans sided with the Confederate states because they viewed the north as encroaching on their liberties. Confederate states pretty much didn't give a rat's arse about what you did as long as you weren't their slave. The poor whites were free from the grid, so to speak. This is why there continues to be very poor white southerners who vote conservatively because they view the Democrats as putting everybody on the grid.

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General Discussion / Re: without going to FOXNEWS for answers: do you think we should help the homeless?

« on: Today at 12:20:57 PM »

Why does it need to be a "we"? Jesus did not call for the people to set up an organization to do God's work. Jesus called on the individual person to do God's work.

You should start with yourself. 

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General Discussion / Re: without going to FOXNEWS for answers: do you think we should help the homeless?

« on: Today at 12:19:43 PM »

nobody want to be homeless

you agree we should help them???

its what YEXUS would do

 

Wow, speaking for the homeless.

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General Discussion / Re: Not Even A Debate

« on: Today at 12:18:52 PM »

While American Jews remain civil throughout this entire time, BUT PRO-HAMAS are going off the rails.

 

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General Discussion / Re: The Truth about these Pro-Palestine activists...

« on: Today at 12:16:43 PM »

Sound like interpretation s made by Fox News and crazy Republicans.  A bunch of paranoids.

You're saying those quotes are made up? Or just misinterpreted? Either way, you're wrong. 

Why don't you tell us what you think "Death to America!" means. 

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General Discussion / Re: The Truth about these Pro-Palestine activists...

« on: Today at 12:16:01 PM »

All of them are closet Nazis... during their protesting at Columbia University, they chanted...

“We say justice, you say how? Burn Tel Aviv to the ground!”

“Al-Qassam you make us proud! Take another soldier out!” The al-Qassam Brigades is Hamas’s military wing that perpetrated the brutal attacks against Israel on October 7.

“Hamas, we love you! We support your rockets, too! Red, black, green, and white, we support Hamas’ fight!”

“It is right to rebel, Al-Qassam, give them hell!”


You see... All Pro-Palestine are Pro-Hamas and closet Nazis. Did they care when Hamas control, tortured and take away aids meant for the Palestinians? NOPE. Did they care that Gaza and West Bank was control by Eqypt. Jordan? NOPE. Did they care that other race are being genocide around the globe? NOPE. Why do they care so much about Palestine then - it's because of Israel. If the Palestinians were being bomb and killed by another Muslim country, these people would not care much.

At least Hitler was looking out for the people of Germanic origin. HAMAS doesn't even really care about Muslim Palestinians.

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General Discussion / Re: WHAT THIS NONSENSE ABOUT PUTTING YOUR PARENT IN HOSPICE CARE???

« on: Today at 12:12:49 PM »

PHers who claim to love their parents the most are typically those who do the least for their parents.

Anybody whose actually had to take care of aging and sickly parents will tell you that they take no pleasure in doing so AND THAT IT'S VERY BURDENSOME. They do it out of of obligation. Furthermore, it's created a lot of tension as well as animosity amongst grown siblings.

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General Discussion / Re: Who are the real insurrectionists...

« on: Today at 12:05:44 PM »

Jan 6 defendants showed up at the capital because they love the country and want to ensure that we still have a republic. They will fight anyone who is AGAINST America.

Pro-HAMAS defendants show up at rallies to chant "Death to America". They will fight anyone who is FOR America.

Dems don't know how to make distinctions about anything. Their only agenda is to destroy the republic so that they can usher in communism. Unfortunately, there are super brainwashed people like Visualmon and theking who don't make the distinction between immigrants who entered "legally" vs. "illegally". The Dems know that such feeble-minded people exists and take advantage of it.

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General Relationship / Neo-Feminists killed chivalry and ruined courtship

« on: Today at 12:00:27 PM »

...every time a woman is willing to play house with a man, she is enabling all men to ignore accountability and delay commitment.

Women aren't wired to have situationships .

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General Relationship / Re: Best relationship advice

« on: Today at 11:54:26 AM »

Sometimes it's best to bring nothing to the table, but pull up a chair only. 

People are judgmental and have many biases.  They all want to measure you up to something that only relates to their own base measurements. 

So few are actually open minded and likewise be willing to build something from nothing.

^^^

In other words, you prefer situationships (friends with benefits, cohabitation, long-term gf only, etc.) and are most definitely in one at at the moment.

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General Relationship / Re: A man who makes a woman wait for years before he'll marry her...

« on: Today at 11:50:20 AM »

A friend was in this type of situationship for 10+ years. Towards the end she gave him an ultimatum. I advised her that even if he gave in, did she really want to start a marriage that way? She found the courage to move on and met someone who wanted the same thing as she did out of life. She never looked back and is living a happy life for the past 10 years and counting.

Recently, I found out that her ex is dating a gal who used to frequent PH. She seems happy for now, but the guy is still the same. But who knows, this new gal may not want anything too committal just yet because it looks like she's going through a healing stage.

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General Relationship / Re: sorry, i don’t do SINGLE HMONG DIVORCE MOTHER WITH MULT KIDS…

« on: Today at 11:44:11 AM »

there is nothing wrong with you
im sure you are nice person in real life

but

its me
im still immature and can’t handle responsibility
can barely take care of myself

 

^^^

This dude is a hobosexual destined to be with a single mother. 

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General Relationship / Re: sorry, i don’t do SINGLE HMONG DIVORCE MOTHER WITH MULT KIDS…

« on: Today at 11:43:22 AM »

Men who "don't do single mothers" tend to end up being a hobosexual who "needs a single mother". 

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General Relationship / Re: Why you don't need to forgive in order to heal and move on with life

« on: Today at 11:32:16 AM »

yeah I know right? if you can't forget, than you can't forgive. or is it forgive but don't forget? I guess it's a personal preference.

There are some cases where you can't forget nor forgive.

I once knew someone who made me feel a type of way. I still liked them but the thought of getting together with them or even talking to them made me feel dread.  Actually, there have been two people who made me feel that way. One was a woman who was like a frenemy. We instantly hit it off, and always had an amazing time hanging out. We also felt really comfortable getting real with each other about all sorts of topics. But something in me said that I really couldn't trust her. She definitely had a shady side to her. One day in conversation, something slipped from her lips (and it was such a small thing but I picked up on it), that she was definitely capable of blindsiding me. So I just started pulling away my energy. The other person was a suitor. Amazing chemistry, amazing when we spent time together, amazing everything! But something was off. Then one day he said something that again, very small, but I picked up on it. Turned out that my intuition was spot on.

I have very strong intuition about people and I'd say 99.999999999% of the time I'm correct. It's not like I'm trying to look for these things. I can't help that my strong intuition picks it up. I've had people start being careful about what they say because I can pick up any slight of shadiness - NOT THAT I BRING IT UP OR ANYTHING, BUT THEY FEEL GUILTY, THEMSELVES.

If a person is sincere, genuine, and authentic, then they have nothing to worry about. I'm actually a very forgiving and understanding person to a fault. I understand the human condition. And that's why I have some very loyal friends because they know that I'm loyal to them.