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Creative Corner => Online Journal => Topic started by: Kenshin on October 24, 2014, 12:42:20 PM
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I feel so worthless and sad today. It's going to be a long day. ~sighs~
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You may feel that way about yourself but someone else may not. Remember that it's just a temporary feeling and that it will eventually subside. Until then, try to have good thoughts, think of the meaningful people in your life, the things you are fortunate to have and do. :)
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Hey cheer up! It's friday, at least that's something to look forward to right?
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Hey cheer up! It's friday, at least that's something to look forward to right?
It doesn't matter what day of the week it is when you are dangling in this dark tunnel. Pls pray that I will still be in one piece after the weekend. :(
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It doesn't matter what day of the week it is when you are dangling in this dark tunnel. Pls pray that I will still be in one piece after the weekend. :(
Talk to me. I'm here to listen to you.
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You may feel that way about yourself but someone else may not. Remember that it's just a temporary feeling and that it will eventually subside. Until then, try to have good thoughts, think of the meaningful people in your life, the things you are fortunate to have and do. :)
Sometimes some people in your life can make your feel so worthless and miserable that you feel it's not even worth trying to be with them. Time to re-think and re-focus my energy elsewhere. But I am so deep wallowing in my own miserable worthlessness now that I can't seem to shake my head out of this funk. I am mad and sad at the same time. :'(
Thanks for your words of encouragement though. :)
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Talk to me. I'm here to listen to you.
Where do I begin? You don't know me. And I you. Appreciate the kind thought and concern though. :)
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Where do I begin? You don't know me. And I you. Appreciate the kind thought and concern though. :)
That's what so great about talking to a stranger because they don't know you. You can tell them everything. My PM is open for you anytime should you ever need a friend to listen to you. ;)
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That's what so great about talking to a stranger because they don't know you. You can tell them everything. My PM is open for you anytime should you ever need a friend to listen to you. ;)
Thanks for being a kind stranger with a willing ear. I am just not ready to unleash my misery on you. Maybe another day I will find the courage.
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Thanks for being a kind stranger with a willing ear. I am just not ready to unleash my misery on you. Maybe another day I will find the courage.
Take your time but just know that I or many other phers are here willing to listen.
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Sometimes some people in your life can make your feel so worthless and miserable that you feel it's not even worth trying to be with them. Time to re-think and re-focus my energy elsewhere. But I am so deep wallowing in my own miserable worthlessness now that I can't seem to shake my head out of this funk. I am mad and sad at the same time. :'(
Thanks for your words of encouragement though. :)
If it's the people in your life that is making you feel that way and you know they won't change, it's time to reflect on what you really want in life. If these people are toxic to your being and peace of mind, you may need to distance yourself or get away from them. Remember that it's you who allowed them to make you feel that way, no one can make you feel a certain way unless you let them.....once you realize this, they won't have that much power over you. Life is too short and these types of feelings can be very draining on the mind and body. We can listen, support, and encourage you but only you know your situation and what's best for you.
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I understand the feelings of worthlessness and sadness. As much as we want to be strong, confident individuals within ourselves, without being overly swayed by outside opinions, the truth is that we're also social beings who rely a lot on what's being reflected at us from other people. If someone is making you feel worthless and sad, you must think about yourself, and only yourself. Do what's good for you, and no other. Lately I've been struggling with feelings of worth and depression myself. It's pretty bad but I'm hoping in a few months I'll be marginally okay again. In the meantime, doing what I need for myself is my only goal right now. Best wishes and hope you leave that dark tunnel soon.
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Bro, grab a bottle of whiskey and rejoice. Rurouni Kenshin: Kyoto Inferno is probably floating around out there somewhere to be watched.
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A new week comes a new beginning. Forgive, forget, and move on. The best is yet to come. Thanks you all, my PH comrades. Thanks for caring. :)
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Don't settle for heartaches. Instead, surround yourself in happiness so you don't feel miserable all the time.
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Don't settle for heartaches. Instead, surround yourself in happiness so you don't feel miserable all the time.
Sometimes that is easier said than done. But perhaps MinorCharacter's suggestion might temporarily do the trick when needed. A shot glass and a bottle of hard liquor. Maybe Hmong cawv tsau tshuav...lol :D
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Sometimes that is easier said than done. But perhaps MinorCharacter's suggestion might temporarily do the trick when needed. A shot glass and a bottle of hard liquor. Maybe Hmong cawv tsau tshuav...lol :D
Liquor is always a temporary cure to any heartache but remember that they are anti-depressant. It might make you more emotional because we know that alcohol tends to bring other deep emotional to the surface. :P I recommend visiting your family. Hanging out with your friends. They will at least help you through trouble times.
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Liquor is always a temporary cure to any heartache but remember that they are anti-depressant. It might make you more emotional because we know that alcohol tends to bring other deep emotional to the surface. :P I recommend visiting your family. Hanging out with your friends. They will at least help you through trouble times.
Where do you go when it's your family members or friends who are the primary cause of your grief? Perhaps to the mountain. Nature has a way of working its wonder with me... O0
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Where do you go when it's your family members or friends who are the primary cause of your grief? Perhaps to the mountain. Nature has a way of working its wonder with me... O0
I'm very sorry. When it's your family or loved ones that is causing the grief, it must be one of the most lonelinest moment in your life. Where you feel like you have no one to turn to. Well, I say, treat yourself out. Make it a "ME" day. Just yourself. Go do something that you enjoy doing.
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Where do you go when it's your family members or friends who are the primary cause of your grief? Perhaps to the mountain. Nature has a way of working its wonder with me... O0
I will reiterate what I said earlier, you may have to either distance yourself from these people or cut them out permanently IF they are toxic to your well-being. I understand that they may be family/friends BUT if they cared about you or your welfare, they wouldn't cause you all this pain/unhappiness.......if it's the bad type of pain/unhappiness you're referring to. I know that it's easier said than done but when a person has a breakdown (and I'm not saying you will, just speaking generally), s/he won't be good to/for anyone. You have to help yourself first before you can help anyone else.
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You matter..