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Marriage & Family Life / Re: Husband won't allow her to take the job even though it benefits the family more

« on: February 11, 2019, 01:54:16 PM »

Talked to a female co-worker about family life the other day and she said that she's angry at her husband. She's currently making 100k a year and found another job that makes 50k more year but her husband won't allow her to accept it. The reason is he doesn't want her to make more money than him. He feared that other men will lose respect for him because he makes less money than his wife. I pretty much just told her that his selfish reasons aka invalid insecurities are childish and very stupid! 

Normal Hmong men would just leave the woman alone since she's married and its her business.  But ofcourse there are those creepy guys who would try to give the woman advice to make her turn on her husband because they're hoping she'd cheat on her husband with them.  just sayin..

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General Discussion / Re: Some higher educated people (Master and PHD graduates) can be so dumb

« on: February 11, 2019, 01:46:52 PM »

so you're talking to a psychiatrist eh.. hmm. interesting.

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General Discussion / Re: When I see people post pictures of their food...probably the first thing they

« on: February 11, 2019, 08:59:13 AM »

How about if they post good food everyday? 

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General Discussion / Re: Stupid Wells Fargo sites have been down all day!!

« on: February 08, 2019, 01:35:02 PM »

I used to like their bill pay feature.  They used to allow me to send money to anyone via bill pay, but nowadays, they don't allow that anymore.  Looks like they use some third party group for sending money and I don't like it, but for anyone who I've already defined and address for, I can still use bill pay to send them money.

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Marriage & Family Life / Those Hmong meds that make a woman have a boy. What do you think of them?

« on: February 08, 2019, 01:20:39 PM »

I mean, each time she gets pregnant, it's like 50/50 so there's a 50/50 chance it'll be a boy, right?  And when it's a boy, they go: SEE! It works!.  If not, then they go try again, maybe next one and if that's a boy then: SEE! it works!

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General Discussion / Re: Stupid Wells Fargo sites have been down all day!!

« on: February 08, 2019, 01:17:52 PM »

not so much loyalty.  At this point, it's more of nostalgia or a novelty item. 

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Hmong Culture & History / Re: Zaj in Fresno CA video clip

« on: February 08, 2019, 09:57:49 AM »

They need to work on their walking.  They still seem a little stiff and unbalanced.  I've seen people walk much better on those two.

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General Discussion / Re: When I passed through North East Wisconsin on the way to see the biggest Indian

« on: February 08, 2019, 09:19:14 AM »

 

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General Discussion / Re: Stupid Wells Fargo sites have been down all day!!

« on: February 08, 2019, 09:14:15 AM »

yeah, I remember all that but I have this account with them since college so I'd like to keep it opened. I bank with other banks too but this is my longest running account.

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General Discussion / Re: When I passed through North East Wisconsin on the way to see the biggest Indian

« on: February 08, 2019, 04:19:29 AM »

Awe. You still butt hurt about being ignored? 

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General Discussion / Stupid Wells Fargo sites have been down all day!!

« on: February 07, 2019, 03:53:34 PM »

And now they're up, I can get to the login screen, but so many people are trying to login at once that it's like a DDOS attack on their servers so it's slowing down and freezing too.

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General Discussion / Was talking to a distant relative in Wi..

« on: February 07, 2019, 01:25:15 PM »

She asked me about my work and I told her and she says "es niam txawm neb ua shift ib, shift ob los eb na?"

Me: Oh, we don't have second shift or third, we only open during the day.

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Marriage & Family Life / Re: Parents, what do you think?

« on: February 07, 2019, 11:38:40 AM »

"Stop" being worthless! "you said ignore". 

Stop changing the topic. You do that whenever you realize you've lost.  Just admit defeat for once. People might think you actually had a drop of credibility if you do. 

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General Discussion / Re: why ain't you going to your family gathering??? (shaman, church, etc..) no show

« on: February 07, 2019, 11:36:19 AM »

Prove it. Watch as YAK back pedals...

  you make a claim and you want me to prove it? 

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Hmong Culture & History / The train of thought in Hmong OG's.

« on: February 07, 2019, 09:29:14 AM »

Marries a young girl, finds out she's not a virgin. Cheats on her because he's mad she's not a virgin.  Marries a divorcee or widow as his niam yau, but doesn't mind that she's not a virgin.