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Online Journal / Re: luvly....is she really?
« on: February 09, 2025, 09:58:22 PM »
Hello PHers, nyob zoo luvs! It’s 2025; I’m still alive. That’s all. KThnxBye!
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General Discussion / Re: Ate what the locals eat (gator) in SC, they also have what Duma & NtsesHnub like
« on: August 11, 2023, 03:57:42 PM »
My brother n I enjoy gator. We have a small Cajun restaurant n town that serves it. 
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General Discussion / Re: Have not heard of this Asian Rapper until now, guess it's too late now??
« on: August 11, 2023, 03:53:00 PM »
They say she was hacked so which was it? 
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Anything Goes / Re: One Thing About You, Everyday!
« on: August 09, 2023, 09:11:12 AM »What happened to all these people?wow, several familiar faces but I can’t think of their names now (or aliases).
https://youtu.be/NrVt46Ca4HU
Also, am I the only one who watched n was hoping to not find themself? Thank goodness.
A walk down memory lane though…the digicams, style, n phones (that could fit n ur palm n em flip phones)!
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General Relationship / Re: New term I just learned that is better than "ghosting"
« on: August 07, 2023, 09:14:53 PM »I kid you not. I need to hang around with the youthful generation more often to stay afloat with their generation and the world that we are living in.zombie eh? Makes sense.
Ghosting is leaving the relationship without telling the other party.
New term called "Zombie"
That is when you ghost them but later on, you come back into their life.
Had me thinking about all them ex and what they are up to.
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General Discussion / Re: Outside of the twin cities
« on: August 03, 2023, 03:08:46 PM »Uh... why would you move to FL? Isn't that a racist Far Right, White Supremacy state - you know; Don't Say Gay, Anti-Black history, Anti-Vax state, Anti-Sex Transition for children, etc etc all the things you aren't supporting... Beside, it's way Deep Down South where you said it's so racist and full of White Supremacy there...I didn’t like FL both times I was there. More so bc of the heat. Sweatin like no other!
I don't need to copy/paste your posts here.
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General Discussion / Re: Outside of the twin cities
« on: August 03, 2023, 01:44:32 PM »I understand what you mean. Making decisions on that at times can be hard.Yep.
Anyway, PL-how r u? Long time no c (mainly bc I am hardly ever here anymore). R u still playing soccer n having snickers n Coke breaks?
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General Discussion / Re: Outside of the twin cities
« on: August 02, 2023, 10:01:33 AM »
Well, I turned down a job during COVID as the move was needed but knowing that it would be mostly remote didn’t make sense for the move at the time. Also, the pay was a cut from my new job I started (I applied for both jobs at the same time but the one I had just gotten-a month n-got to me first).
So for now, I still live n the same city I grew up n.
I have however, cross state lines n commuted 30 mins for a job several yrs ago. I did that for about 2 yrs after college until my car died on me.
So for now, I still live n the same city I grew up n.
I have however, cross state lines n commuted 30 mins for a job several yrs ago. I did that for about 2 yrs after college until my car died on me.
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Online Journal / Re: luvly....is she really?
« on: July 31, 2023, 10:02:19 PM »Good to see all is well with you, luvlylisa! Like you, I am still alive too.hi lilly!
Yeah, same-o, same-o everyday. I guess that’s not a bad thing. Glad to c u here (PH) n here (my lil ranting corner).
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Online Journal / Re: luvly....is she really?
« on: July 31, 2023, 12:24:10 AM »
Yes, I'm still alive.
It's been a lil over a yr n well, we indeed went to Philly n attended my sister n BIL's npe laus celebration. Made it a huge family affair n spent a week n a half out there-even got some family qt out n Ocean City for a few days. It was my mom's first time seeing the ocean. My dad n his wife showed up n although I thought it would be awkward-it was in the beginning, I was able to talk to him (sort of); heck, I even bought his wife a gift (of course I got something for my mom as well). To sum it up, it was a nice trip. Exhausting but good.
Work has been a bit chaotic with storage of staff n several transitions w ppl coming n going (resulting n several assignment shifting) but n another week we will have a full team again n will hopefully have caseloads set n finalized (for good) this time. I've been w this job now for three yrs n I've had to relearn things or unlearn bad habits w my boundaries but I'm proud of myself for realizing this n fixing it so I don't continue it n this role. I have also realized while learning to (re)set my boundaries I have observed that not everyone is willing to b a team player. I say this bc I knew when we were short staff n overwhelmed w our caseloads as is, but having to take on more programs n caseloads was a no brainer. U can't just drop or not serve students. But no one was willing to step up n take more. I had to break the silence n step up; told the new manager in order to serve students-even if I didn't the know the programs-I'd get familiar w them but will not cut out students. Unfortunately, it came to b just two of the six of us who stepped up. That was disappointing to actually see that my team (many who have been here for a long time) didn't want to step up (we stared at each other n Zoom for about a good silent 3-4 minutes-that's a long time to be silent and have no one unmute via video). Anyway, we have two new staff now but we're still in transition n caseloads will b a lil more manageable. We hope so at least. I did get word that we are now approved to have at least two remote days (campus-wide for staff) so I will definitely be requesting for another remote day (espec. when I found out that I was the only staff who was told I had to work four days on-campus while others had more options of remote-would have not been a problem had I not know that others had a choice where I didn't). Anway, other than that, work has been the same. Meeting with students, assisting them with their usual academic goals/issues/questions.
I really wanted to travel more this year but just didn't happen. Granted, the yr is not over yet but looking at my schedule already for the academic yr n other things/events coming up in addition to budgeting things out-not going to happen as planned. Maybe some short and small trips. We'll c I guess.
HNY dates are set for the end of Sept here now. I'm definitely going as I missed out last yr due to the family all having COVID. Got my HMoob outfits picked. Although the lineup for the night party is nothing compared to last yr, I'm thinking of getting a new flashy dress. Y not?
It's early but I did start my Xmas shopping already, at least for my niece and nephew. They're pretty ez to shop for. I have found when I start early n the yr I'm not running around trying to find things. It's ezr on the pocket n I at least try to get something on everyone's wishlist later n the yr.
Hope all is well w u...thanx for dropping n!
It's been a lil over a yr n well, we indeed went to Philly n attended my sister n BIL's npe laus celebration. Made it a huge family affair n spent a week n a half out there-even got some family qt out n Ocean City for a few days. It was my mom's first time seeing the ocean. My dad n his wife showed up n although I thought it would be awkward-it was in the beginning, I was able to talk to him (sort of); heck, I even bought his wife a gift (of course I got something for my mom as well). To sum it up, it was a nice trip. Exhausting but good.
Work has been a bit chaotic with storage of staff n several transitions w ppl coming n going (resulting n several assignment shifting) but n another week we will have a full team again n will hopefully have caseloads set n finalized (for good) this time. I've been w this job now for three yrs n I've had to relearn things or unlearn bad habits w my boundaries but I'm proud of myself for realizing this n fixing it so I don't continue it n this role. I have also realized while learning to (re)set my boundaries I have observed that not everyone is willing to b a team player. I say this bc I knew when we were short staff n overwhelmed w our caseloads as is, but having to take on more programs n caseloads was a no brainer. U can't just drop or not serve students. But no one was willing to step up n take more. I had to break the silence n step up; told the new manager in order to serve students-even if I didn't the know the programs-I'd get familiar w them but will not cut out students. Unfortunately, it came to b just two of the six of us who stepped up. That was disappointing to actually see that my team (many who have been here for a long time) didn't want to step up (we stared at each other n Zoom for about a good silent 3-4 minutes-that's a long time to be silent and have no one unmute via video). Anyway, we have two new staff now but we're still in transition n caseloads will b a lil more manageable. We hope so at least. I did get word that we are now approved to have at least two remote days (campus-wide for staff) so I will definitely be requesting for another remote day (espec. when I found out that I was the only staff who was told I had to work four days on-campus while others had more options of remote-would have not been a problem had I not know that others had a choice where I didn't). Anway, other than that, work has been the same. Meeting with students, assisting them with their usual academic goals/issues/questions.
I really wanted to travel more this year but just didn't happen. Granted, the yr is not over yet but looking at my schedule already for the academic yr n other things/events coming up in addition to budgeting things out-not going to happen as planned. Maybe some short and small trips. We'll c I guess.
HNY dates are set for the end of Sept here now. I'm definitely going as I missed out last yr due to the family all having COVID. Got my HMoob outfits picked. Although the lineup for the night party is nothing compared to last yr, I'm thinking of getting a new flashy dress. Y not?
It's early but I did start my Xmas shopping already, at least for my niece and nephew. They're pretty ez to shop for. I have found when I start early n the yr I'm not running around trying to find things. It's ezr on the pocket n I at least try to get something on everyone's wishlist later n the yr.
Hope all is well w u...thanx for dropping n!
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General Discussion / Re: How’s your day?
« on: August 08, 2022, 01:56:34 PM »
Howdy frans! 
It's been forever since I have bene on PH but just wanted to drop in and say hi...Happy Monday!
It's been forever since I have bene on PH but just wanted to drop in and say hi...Happy Monday!
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Online Journal / Re: luvly....is she really?
« on: July 17, 2022, 10:33:44 AM »
I can't believe I haven't come to rant or put thoughts down for almost a year (about 8 months).
Work is work-nothing has changed there. You can say that's a good thing. If anything, I am glad I'm no longer in a toxic environment n my supervisor actually appreciates me for once.
Things at home have been OK-for the most part. The kids r growing n I have a lil mini me-although I don't think her mom likes that she tends to be more like me-n the nephew is finally walking-still kinda drunk like, I call it drunken milk walking-but at least he's walking. He's also a bit colicky so he sticks mostly to his parents n is always crying but he does like his aunty when mommy n daddy r not around as well.
Mom hasn't been the best n if anything, very defiant. We can't reason w her anymore so now we just don't bother nor say anything. Regardless, we r always the "bad guy" so we've just given up. In levels of safety, it's bad and it is dangerous but again, she won't listen n is too stubborn. We could put her n a facility (what I am sure my nyab hopes for
but that's not going to happen) to ensure that everyone is safe but then we would be the low-life ungrateful children who didn't luv r mom.
J4 weekend, my sis n her fam came which prompt my older bro n two cousins n their fam to all come n visit together. It was nice to c everyone-the house was packed-but it was a lot of fun seeing all the kids (for some it was their first time meeting). If anything, we also learned to will need to make a trip out east for my sis and BIL's npe laus party in early summer. I'm excited n I know others r too but I just hope it will be a nice trip/time w as lil to no drama as possible. Is it bad to say that I hope my dad n his wife don't make it? I mean, we all r skeptical of them attending already since they've not shown up for anything already in the last two yrs anyway (funerals, weddings, etc.).
Guess we'll have to wait n find out eh.
So, I have had a TT for maybe two yrs now but literally didn't do anything on there the first yr. Thanks to the last yr n being bored n addition not being able to really post on YT (editing just sucks) I prefer the TT platform with shorter vids. It's also a huge rabbit hole-yeah, u can def find me scrolling for hrs in bed regardless of morning or night.
I don't post anything outrageous though. Some food/mukbangs, vlogs n vids of my aunty time/life, clothing/makeup hauls, but I mainly wanted to share vids about the HMoob language (which I started to do on my YT). However, this past yr was overwhelming for me n a lot of areas of my life n I started a "Diary of a HMoob Daugther" series. Just my personal rants from my experience of being a HMoob daughter. Granted, the experience is of mine thus, may not resonate w everyone-that's OK-but hopefully, others know they do not feel alone n the space of being just that-a HMoob daughter.
Anyway, if ur reading this-thanks for "checking-in" or for being nosy. Kthnxbye
Work is work-nothing has changed there. You can say that's a good thing. If anything, I am glad I'm no longer in a toxic environment n my supervisor actually appreciates me for once.
Things at home have been OK-for the most part. The kids r growing n I have a lil mini me-although I don't think her mom likes that she tends to be more like me-n the nephew is finally walking-still kinda drunk like, I call it drunken milk walking-but at least he's walking. He's also a bit colicky so he sticks mostly to his parents n is always crying but he does like his aunty when mommy n daddy r not around as well.
Mom hasn't been the best n if anything, very defiant. We can't reason w her anymore so now we just don't bother nor say anything. Regardless, we r always the "bad guy" so we've just given up. In levels of safety, it's bad and it is dangerous but again, she won't listen n is too stubborn. We could put her n a facility (what I am sure my nyab hopes for
but that's not going to happen) to ensure that everyone is safe but then we would be the low-life ungrateful children who didn't luv r mom. J4 weekend, my sis n her fam came which prompt my older bro n two cousins n their fam to all come n visit together. It was nice to c everyone-the house was packed-but it was a lot of fun seeing all the kids (for some it was their first time meeting). If anything, we also learned to will need to make a trip out east for my sis and BIL's npe laus party in early summer. I'm excited n I know others r too but I just hope it will be a nice trip/time w as lil to no drama as possible. Is it bad to say that I hope my dad n his wife don't make it? I mean, we all r skeptical of them attending already since they've not shown up for anything already in the last two yrs anyway (funerals, weddings, etc.).
Guess we'll have to wait n find out eh.So, I have had a TT for maybe two yrs now but literally didn't do anything on there the first yr. Thanks to the last yr n being bored n addition not being able to really post on YT (editing just sucks) I prefer the TT platform with shorter vids. It's also a huge rabbit hole-yeah, u can def find me scrolling for hrs in bed regardless of morning or night.
I don't post anything outrageous though. Some food/mukbangs, vlogs n vids of my aunty time/life, clothing/makeup hauls, but I mainly wanted to share vids about the HMoob language (which I started to do on my YT). However, this past yr was overwhelming for me n a lot of areas of my life n I started a "Diary of a HMoob Daugther" series. Just my personal rants from my experience of being a HMoob daughter. Granted, the experience is of mine thus, may not resonate w everyone-that's OK-but hopefully, others know they do not feel alone n the space of being just that-a HMoob daughter. Anyway, if ur reading this-thanks for "checking-in" or for being nosy.
Kthnxbye
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Online Journal / Re: luvly....is she really?
« on: November 01, 2021, 08:49:34 PM »
Didn't get to watch RM.
Another long day. I'm up in arms n feel like a lost abused puppy. Lost? Sometimes I feel like a stray too. Or r they the same?
U said u came back for me? Is that pity? Maybe a form of luv...n a weird way I appreciate that but n another way I wished u would have not bothered to think of me n such a way. Things may have been very different but at the same time it may have been best--but we'll never know will we?
Do you ever feel like you just want to run? Literally just get up and go and have absolutely no worries, no care n the world, n just like that-fly? I hate feathered things or birds in general but I envy that they can fly and soar with the wind against their face/feathers n at least feel free.
Another long day. I'm up in arms n feel like a lost abused puppy. Lost? Sometimes I feel like a stray too. Or r they the same?
U said u came back for me? Is that pity? Maybe a form of luv...n a weird way I appreciate that but n another way I wished u would have not bothered to think of me n such a way. Things may have been very different but at the same time it may have been best--but we'll never know will we?
Do you ever feel like you just want to run? Literally just get up and go and have absolutely no worries, no care n the world, n just like that-fly? I hate feathered things or birds in general but I envy that they can fly and soar with the wind against their face/feathers n at least feel free.
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Online Journal / Re: luvly....is she really?
« on: October 31, 2021, 09:56:27 PM »
What a long day! I have no regrets.....on ly wished I can have more patience-with everything.
Anyway, mom came home today. It's been quite the transition for everyone but we'll be OK. With time we'll all adjust and see where we need to make other accommodations .
Now I finally have some time to myself. Not gonna watch my kdrama tonight. Running Man it is!
Anyway, mom came home today. It's been quite the transition for everyone but we'll be OK. With time we'll all adjust and see where we need to make other accommodations .
Now I finally have some time to myself. Not gonna watch my kdrama tonight. Running Man it is!
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Online Journal / Re: luvly....is she really?
« on: October 30, 2021, 03:11:47 PM »
At the end of the day...I guess it really doesn't matter. No, I don't matter. So y do I even bother?
Toxicity is real. Trauma is real. Abuse is real.
Guess, I am not tho.
Toxicity is real. Trauma is real. Abuse is real.
Guess, I am not tho.