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Marriage & Family Life / Re: Life After Divorce

« on: October 07, 2021, 02:04:18 PM »

You know I have dated divorcees before.  IT is not like divorcees have this big D on their forehead to tell the world that they are a divorcee.  10 out of 10 times, these divorcees will question my intention when they figure out that I'm not a divorcee like they are.  Now had I lied and say that I'm a divorcee too and so I can relate to what we both went through then sure, we can see her eyes brighten up a little bit more. 

I also gotten a few that hid their kids from me.  The only way I found out is by doing some research by ways of social media like facebook and seeing her with her kids and never a pix of this baby daddy.  I mean it would be better if I see who is out there stalking me as well you know?   

I think that for some divorcees, their version 2 after a bitter divorce will make them more feistier.   They are looking for some healing and thus are able to fall in love so much easier.  When they say a divorcee is "damaged goods" it just means that they are more experienced and thus so, they are more careful.  They wanted to fall in love fast but at the same time, are scared if thing are moving along too fast.  It also depends if she has toddlers or teenagers or fully grown adults children.  It also gets complicated if she has 3 kids but by 3 different guys.   

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Online Journal / Re: The Secret Life of a Hmong-American Woman

« on: October 07, 2021, 01:33:51 PM »

Don't forgot to update us cuz well,

if my life sucks cuz I'm right and I told you so, I'll be too embarrassed to show my face up here again. 

Without your funky orthodox romance with this bozo, what is there to type on here journal you know?

If you got knocked up by dude or even gotten back with your ex, you know what's my motto  " I TOLD YOU SO" and I will continue to grind you with more "I TOLD YOU SO"

Now if you catch covid and die, I'm sorry and I take everything back. 

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General Discussion / Re: height and weight

« on: October 07, 2021, 01:24:39 PM »

A friend of mine, a Berkeley grad told me something peculiar.  He said it doesn't matter how short or fat a chick it, it is all about how clean she is and if her face is pretty or not. 

IT then got me looking at these short and fat women but with a pretty face and I'm thinking, had she be skinnier and a tad taller, she'll be a knock out.

Lets face it.  Everyone has flaws.  It just that we tend not to present our flaws out at first bat.  What you like today may  not be what you like tomorrow and not all ideal or perfect hubby makes the best relationship either.

Pick and choose your poison.  I wish I was handsome so that I can go find me a chick that no one wants so I can have her all to myself.  Now here's another thing to remember.  How did you manage to figure out to what is your ideal or what is pretty or handsome to your liking?  You got to see pretty people to have such standards like watching social media Facebook feeds or YouTube tiktok women or Instagram models.  Well, if I were you, I shouldn't be looking for these types of people because they do not represent the majority of our population and you will be disappointed in thinking that our world is filled up with these types of people.   Asian beauty, we called them "IDOL"   

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General Relationship / Re: Not going to happen with me

« on: October 07, 2021, 12:43:21 PM »

It all depending on where you are at in your life cuz really now, why do beggars have a choice? 

One can also say that you are not man enough to deal with situation like this.  Premature boys shouldn't play the grown man's game.  You shouldn't get in where you don't fit in.  What love got to do with a little bit of condition like she has to be a widow and making sure that the other man is not in the picture? 

If you are a real man, you can take on all conditions.  Her kids still needs their biological father so he's gonna be hanging around you guys for some times.  If you feel threaten by this other so called "other" man then maybe you should check your insecurity. 

Now before you go after me for saying all of these things, let me share you with my own personal view. 

What I say must also applies with me as well.  Divorcee do get a bad rep when it comes to the dating playing field and I get that but is it possible for a never been married guy to learn how to love a divorcee?  Possible, but it all depends on his game plan as well.  Some play for fun and some play for keeps.  I need to question those who plays for real for I think they are playing immaturely and not knowing what they are getting themselves into.  I can easily talk them out of it or making them have doubts.   

I'm not a real man though.  I play for fun first and I let her decides how she wants to take this.  If one of my red flag is for her to linger around the ex then I don't need to waste my time with her anymore.  She got issues of her own and perhaps, maybe, she can catch an immature guy who doesn't know any better and con him to be the father of her kids while she still has a relationship with the baby daddy. 

The youthful in me used to shy away from divorcee women but the older in me has opened up to some divorcee if them red flags are not met so if you see me with a divorcee, your first thought is that I'm playing the field for fun and you may be right.  Realistically speaking, she may playing the fields as well as she is not ready to look for a new daddy for her kids.  It goes both ways too you know?   

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General Discussion / Re: This Asian dude was just out fishing in the striper and sturgeon area?

« on: October 06, 2021, 07:38:27 PM »

On Friday, the coroner’s inquest jury unanimously ruled Quinto’s death as accidental. His death was blamed on “excited delirium,” a state attributed to a narcolepsy drug found in Quinto’s system.

https://sanfrancisco.cbslocal.com/2021/08/20/coroners-jury-releases-findings-in-death-of-angelo-quinto/

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General Discussion / Re: Drink Air

« on: October 06, 2021, 07:19:30 PM »

Technology is great but government needs to think it through.  To sell in the USA is to get permission from your local government.

Here's what I compare it to.  We have desert sand right?  It is hot there right?  Why don't they put up a few millions of them solar cells to harvest that sun energy?  Sounds practical right?  Not quite.  There is a reason why the desert area is hot and dry.  If you extract all that heat from the natural environment, it will cause some form of climate issue like if the desert normal temperature will drop by a few degrees, them animals that thrive on that heated platform may die off. 

Now with this contraption.  We have oxygen in the air.  Robbing the 02 from the air to make h20 will lead you with more Carbon being left in the air.  Get enough of this system for every household and we will be living on Mars like atmosphere.   Although my chemistry science may be off but you get the idea behind what I'm trying to say here. 

Balance is key.  Do enough to help support but not disrupt.  The word is "sustainability" 

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General Discussion / Re: not a single thread/post about the FALL COLOR this year!!!!

« on: October 06, 2021, 07:10:09 PM »

 
 

Just for you, I even  made it into fall colors 

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General Discussion / Re: not a single thread/post about the FALL COLOR this year!!!!

« on: October 06, 2021, 06:56:17 PM »

Your word is not big enough. 


JEALOUSph

I also added Ph to make it more legit   

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Pro Sports Discussion / Re: Week 5 games to watch!

« on: October 05, 2021, 07:57:39 PM »

It could be interesting or it could be a blowout lol

the league only got 2 old timers left that is worth mentioning.  Rogers and brady.  Old man big ben is slipping unless he makes up ground and hit the playoff somehow. 

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Pro Sports Discussion / Re: Week 5 games to watch!

« on: October 05, 2021, 07:16:22 PM »

adding wackers and cinn city

old qb vs young buck 1st rounder 1st pick of last year draft

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Pro Sports Discussion / Re: Week 4 Games!

« on: October 05, 2021, 07:14:52 PM »

how about week 5 match up?  YOu do the honor

wackers vs cinn city

browns vs chargers

bills vs kc

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General Discussion / Re: I actually know people who are afraid to get the vaccine.

« on: October 05, 2021, 12:47:25 PM »

They are still at the first stage of the pandemic still and that it is illogical to think that they are healthy enough to not die from the disease. 

Before the vaccine, that was what we so called healthy people were thinking.  If we catch it, we can still live.  Only those elder and with underlying conditions are dying from it.   However, stats don't lie.  Just fresh in the news.  A healthy 10 years old girl just died from it.

How can you even play russian roulette with such uncertainty, especially that the disease is air borne and invisible to the naked eye?

Also in the news, some folks are getting the jab because the world is requiring it now.  Need it to fly or need it to go to events or eat at restaurant or just a pass to be outdoors with the crowds to get a sense of normalcy again.   Whatever the case, thank you for taking the jab.  I still dodge people who are mask less at walmart.  I see you coming, I'm going the other way. 

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Money & Investment / Re: got another PLAY for us ticker symbol $CLOV....

« on: October 05, 2021, 12:19:26 PM »

I'm here to make you broke   

green every day even when the market is red.  Bet it and forget about it

$LEAS   $0.0142 0.00 (24.01%)
$PUGE   $0.0092 0.00 (15.00%)

Grows like weed.  No need to wishing and hoping to hit target.  Where else can I make my money grow 10% compound daily or something like that? 

Once you buy, it goes up, I sell and it goes down and you holding the bag.  I think that's about right   

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Pro Sports Discussion / Re: Raider vs charger tonight...Monday night brawl

« on: October 04, 2021, 06:38:41 PM »

Give me Raiders +3.5 

I'll take my chance on them over rated raiders to keep it close and monday night is weird football that favors the underdog plus conspiracy theory like "fix" game cough cough only football game of the day, nationally televised and you know where the money is flowing and vegas is there to spoil your fun. 

Just saying.  I don't believe in fix games because I don't have the evidence for it although it could look like a coincidence. 

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Pro Sports Discussion / Re: NFL Pebhmong Eliminator Challenge

« on: October 04, 2021, 09:55:47 AM »

week 1 KC win
week 2 tb win
week 3  balt win
week 4  buff win
week 5 mn over det   
     
week 6 ram over giant         
week 7 caro over giant
week 8 tenn over indy or sea over jag
week 9 raiders over giant
week 10 pitt over det
week 11 sf over jag
week 12 hou over jet
week 13 phi over jet
week 14 no over jets or den over det
week 15 dal over giant
week 16  az over indy
week 17 chi over giant or ne over jag or sea over det
week 18 gb over det

moving along with week 5, oh yeah 

How about them bills?   I got my ticket for them winning it all as they were the 4th best odds to win the SB at the beginning of the season.  Hate backing up cousins and hate betting on them vikqueens but in this game, no other choice