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Relationship => The Single & Dating Scenes => Topic started by: Magic Mike on March 27, 2017, 08:05:57 AM

Title: The older you get, the harder dating gets
Post by: Magic Mike on March 27, 2017, 08:05:57 AM
Life is just so busy.  :D
Title: Re: The older you get, the harder dating gets
Post by: theking on March 27, 2017, 09:31:03 AM
Depends...
Title: Re: The older you get, the harder dating gets
Post by: ProudLao on March 27, 2017, 09:32:50 AM
Life should never be too busy for love. Life happens better with love.
Title: Re: The older you get, the harder dating gets
Post by: Magic Mike on March 27, 2017, 10:01:01 AM
Depends...

Depends but when you are younger, less responsibilies and more time.
Title: Re: The older you get, the harder dating gets
Post by: theking on March 27, 2017, 10:10:23 AM
Depends but when you are younger, less responsibilies and more time.

Some older men have a lot of times too especially those that are retired.
Title: Re: The older you get, the harder dating gets
Post by: ProudLao on March 27, 2017, 10:13:03 AM
When it matter, we all have time or make time.
Title: Re: The older you get, the harder dating gets
Post by: Magic Mike on March 28, 2017, 10:21:33 AM
When you know what you want in a partner, it makes it more difficult to choose. Finding that person will almost be impossible.
Title: Re: The older you get, the harder dating gets
Post by: nightrider on March 28, 2017, 08:42:28 PM
Wouldn't it be nice if there was some sort of program/app where you could look at potential love interests and see how they match with you, and as a bonus you can also see into your future with them so that you can either avoid a messy breakup or know that you're going to love them forever and, man, that would be so much easier!

Isn't so much more easier to doll yourself up and advertise rather than using a service or app? I think we all have too high of expectations. With the power at our finger tips these days, we'd already eliminated our potential and are just left with the impossibles.
Title: Re: The older you get, the harder dating gets
Post by: nightrider on March 30, 2017, 05:54:41 PM
But what if someone was able to harness psychic power into a crystal and then used that crystal's power in an app to let people see into their future? So that if you swiped yes for someone, you can pay extra to get a look at your future with them. No stress, no mess.  ;)

And then at that point you can get all dolled up for them.  ;D

If someone was able to do what you say then it could only work on those whom aren't too intelligent or can't think for themselves. But for you, you're too intelligent to even believe some crystal prophecy to even pay for it. As for the paying, if you're thinking about money, you outta of just pay for your very own personal escort that way there's no stress, no mess as you point it. Sadly, all relationships requires you pay with your time, some money, affection, effort, and the unfortunate fate of mess of heartache. Best to just find someone that can really appreciate you.
Title: Re: The older you get, the harder dating gets
Post by: Magic Mike on April 02, 2017, 09:11:10 AM
I've decided to set aside some time to put myself on the market.
Title: Re: The older you get, the harder dating gets
Post by: nightrider on April 04, 2017, 06:24:51 PM
You're very pragmatic.  ;) And yes you're right, the best thing is to find someone who appreciates you for who you are.

Nah. It's nothing special, I'm sure most folks are like that including yourself.

Magic Mike,

That's what we keep telling ourselves that we're available on the market but it's a tough sell because we don't know where the markets at.

Title: Re: The older you get, the harder dating gets
Post by: Reporter on April 11, 2017, 12:09:36 PM
Women just can't set up times with me and complain that I don't care about them.

Sure, like they cared about my work. lol

Life is just so busy.  :D
Title: Re: The older you get, the harder dating gets
Post by: Magic Mike on April 15, 2017, 07:53:20 AM
Sure we know our market. Antique shop. Haha jk  :2funny:
Title: Re: The older you get, the harder dating gets
Post by: Magic Mike on September 20, 2017, 10:48:54 PM
And how's it been going for you?

It's going great. Dated for a few months. Single again.
Title: Re: The older you get, the harder dating gets
Post by: Dok_Champa on October 04, 2017, 10:45:04 AM
That's because what you want in your 20's you no longer want in your 30's and in your 30's no longer want in your 40's.  As you get older, you want quality not quantity. 
Title: Re: The older you get, the harder dating gets
Post by: Mrs.Vang on October 06, 2017, 06:05:55 PM
I do have to agree that dating is harder now that one is older.  You're at an age where you now know what you don't want in your life.  So, yes, be picky about who you want as a life partner.  He/she is called your better half, after all.
Title: Re: The older you get, the harder dating gets
Post by: Magic Mike on October 07, 2017, 05:57:09 AM
I do have to agree that dating is harder now that one is older.  You're at an age where you now know what you don't want in your life.  So, yes, be picky about who you want as a life partner.  He/she is called your better half, after all.

We get older and wiser and wanting to choose s better partner. And that makes it more difficult. Because in life there is no perfect match. It takes time and effort to make the relationship perfect.
Title: Re: The older you get, the harder dating gets
Post by: Mrs.Vang on October 07, 2017, 12:49:03 PM
We get older and wiser and wanting to choose s better partner. And that makes it more difficult. Because in life there is no perfect match. It takes time and effort to make the relationship perfect.


 :'(  I still wonder if there really is a thing called love?  Why is it that at our age, we're still waiting for it?  There's no perfect relationship, I do get that.  Everyone has flaws; therefore, there will be ups and downs.  However, there has to be some kind of happiness in order to live a happy life.  *sighs*