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« on: March 23, 2017, 09:44:54 AM »
It's okay for you to be upset with his friend, but don't hold a grudge. He does have a point after all. We don't know how often you go out, but obviously enough for someone to point it out. Perhaps now is the time for you to reevaluate your values and priorities.
Your husband may or may not already express how he feels about you going out, but you have to know better. It will get old with you gone all the time and your husband will eventually head for the hills. We as women have to know how to keep our men occupied too no matter how much they say they don't care if we go out.
I grew up with strictish parents too who didn't? As soon as I turned 18 though I was allowed to go clubbing and my parents rules were that as long as I stay in school, finish, and was responsible. I partied a lot up to 23 years old then got married a few years after, so I had my fair share of clubbing, but I can't say that is the reason why I don't club anymore after marriage because I know so many people who still do even after marriage. It's a choice, don't blame your parents for you wanting to go out clubbing.