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« on: March 23, 2023, 07:01:38 PM »
When you want a healthy growing relationship.. .you will just naturally do things to cultivate such a relationship.
Unfortunately most people aren't that. So many are still just players and gamers. Worse are scammers and parasites. We should just put down on paper pros and cons. Or in simplicity asset or liability. If there's a liability, then one should just forget about it.
Even when I fully believe in second chances for people. Lesson learned, that most people do not deserve a second chance, because they're probably already on their 10th chance. So many people out there who haven't even been given a first chance. When you're young you have more time. When you get older or old, no time for that anymore.
Most of all, get them to tell you what their life philosophy and love theory is. Then let them reveal to you how they mirror their life philosophy and conduct their love theory. If you see a liability, then leave it. Life is not perfect, but why lower oneself for even less.