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Marriage & Family Life / Niam Nkauj Mob Ab
« on: January 16, 2020, 04:31:53 PM »
Someone needs to tell these old babies to stop having affairs with our men!  :D

My cousin, who is in his 40's, was having an affair with one and she was willing to become his Niam Yau. She divorced her old grandpa husband and wanted a younger man but the young men don't want a niam nkauj mos ab so she is back to the old men again.  :2funny:

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Marriage & Family Life / Re: 2nd marriage
« on: May 15, 2019, 02:32:47 PM »
traditional family so I guess the groom will still "kowtow" along with paying for the discounted bride price??

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Marriage & Family Life / 2nd marriage
« on: May 13, 2019, 12:44:07 PM »
Do the groom still bow to the bride's side of the family if she's been married once? Asking for a friend.  :)

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Entrepreneurial Minds / Re: Marijuana business in California
« on: January 16, 2019, 10:32:02 AM »
What is the upfront cost to start up? How do I obtain a license?

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Entrepreneurial Minds / Re: Marijuana business in California
« on: January 11, 2019, 02:14:02 PM »
Are legal dispensaries buying the plants?

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Marriage & Family Life / Re: Do you know her?
« on: January 11, 2019, 01:35:58 PM »
Update:

My brother’s girlfriend was in town for a few days during New Year’s. She (ex-wife) called my brother a few days after Jan 1st stating that she was taking him to court to get custody of the kids. He told her OK. Then a few days later, she called him again to play victim that her life is all messed up because of him and that she doesn’t want the kids.

My brother has tried to get her elders involved bc he doesn’t want her to go to jail but everytime they talk to her, she tells them she is an adult and don’t need them to butt into her life. She doesn’t listen to any of the elders in her family and they are at lost with her.

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Marriage & Family Life / Re: Do you know her?
« on: January 11, 2019, 01:35:24 PM »
Update:

My brother’s girlfriend was in town for a few days during New Year’s. She called my brother a few days after Jan 1st stating that she was taking him to court to get custody of the kids. He told her OK. Then a few days later, she called him again to play victim that her life is all messed up because of him and that she doesn’t want the kids.

My brother has tried to get her elders involved bc he doesn’t want her to go to jail but everytime they talk to her, she tells them she is an adult and don’t need them to butt into her life. She doesn’t listen to any of the elders in her family and they are at lost with her.

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Entrepreneurial Minds / Marijuana business in California
« on: January 07, 2019, 01:21:56 PM »
Is the Hmong doing marijuana farming in California doing it legally? What's the start up process? I feel like I want to get in on this cash crop too.

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Marriage & Family Life / Re: Do you know her?
« on: December 17, 2018, 02:13:14 PM »
Let’s just say… She was a very promiscuous young lady back then. She is lucky her daughter is my niece so I will refrain from spilling her stinky egg.

To me, she can do whatever she wants to make her happy. We will all just like her gone. We close that door on her when she walked out and just want her to move on. The law usually sides with the mother 90% of the time and anytime it comes to domestic violence, they side with the woman 100% regardless. My brother is very aware of this and doesn’t want to get into anymore trouble like he did in his teens.

They do not have court order regarding the children's residency. When she left, it was known, she didn't want them. Even now she doesn't want them, she only wants them to see my brother.

I hope she puts her sob story on May Vang’s channel. I would love to hear her side of the story.  ::)

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Marriage & Family Life / Do you know her?
« on: December 12, 2018, 02:42:33 PM »
Dear EX-sis in law,

When my brother and you were married, his paycheck went straight to the bank. For years, you give him allowances to what he can use because your reasoning was that you were “saving” money. Lord knows what you did with your pay. You control everything in the house because you were the “educated” one with a Bachelor’s in Psychology which was useless because you got a job after 2yrs of looking in a field that doesn’t even required a “Psychology” degree.  Mind you, in case you have forgotten that my brother supported you through college.

 When you met your old flame again and my brother caught you cheating on him. You had the guts to tell MY brother that he was a “No Good Piece of CRAP” and that you made a mistake when you married him because he got you knocked up and that you would’ve never married a man who couldn’t satisfy you in bed like him. Who told you to spread your legs and follow my brother everywhere? Remember, your family tried to force my brother to marry you but he wouldn’t marry you until you got pregnant…. He step up to the plate and took care of his responsibility didn’t he??   You could’ve told everyone that my brother was such a bad person etc.. but you choose to say that if you didn’t get knocked up, you would’ve never married him?

Granted, my brother isn’t a perfect person and he does have his flaws. He is uneducated with only a HS diploma working in a factory. He does indeed have NOTHING to offer you and sometimes will not bend to anyone once his mind is set. True, he is stubborn in every possible way. True, he used to be aThug/Gangster back in the days but you loved that shyte didn’t you? You were the one who parent’s had to come hit you to go home. REMEMBER?

So, when you wanted to leave him for another man, what did he do? He opened the door for you didn’t he? He was hurt but he let you go because you beg him to let you go. You took all the money and you made sure his name was on all your debts didn’t you. You had the courts come looking for him to pay debts he never incurred. 

Even after all that, even after you left,  you have not stop harassing my brother!  You for sure thought my brother will come to your rescue when you found out the grass wasn’t greener on the other side and when you beg him to allow you back into his life and he said NO, didn’t you threaten the cops on him? Yes, my brother moved on faster than you thought he would. Yes, he did end up falling in love again. BUT he doesn’t bother you and your boyfriends does he? NOPE. He has even apologized for the past and that for both of you to move on and do better, there’s children involved so he only wants what is best for the children and for you.  Didn’t he ask you nicely to leave him alone? Didn’t he ask you to stop harassing him and his girlfriend? Didn’t he BEG you to stop stealing from him?

We are sick and tired of your childish threats on calling the police on him, on us or taking the kids away. If you want the kids, take them. My brother told you to take them didn’t he? He even offered to pay you child support didn’t he? Every time you come around or we hear your name, we cringed. If it wasn’t for the kids and their innocence, we would had shut the door on you every time you go over to my brother’s looking for revenge because in your mind, he ruined your “perfect” life.  No one in the family has said one word to your regarding my brother and you. Everyone just want you gone. So please stop trying to find drama for us and calling the cops on us because you think we beat your kids ok.

Go and live your life. We are all very happy for you ok.

Sincerely,
The sister in law that you called the cops on last night because she wouldn’t release the kids to you without her brother’s approval

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Marriage & Family Life / Re: Another man's money
« on: November 12, 2018, 10:26:18 AM »
I know women equally stoop low too. Sadly.

This person I know thinks that oversea bride may have stash some $ to the side from her ex.  He hopes to get with her to get to that money. The woman isn't bad looking. She's decent and she's only 28yrs old. Her ex isn't an old grandpa as well.

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Marriage & Family Life / Another man's money
« on: November 09, 2018, 02:33:42 PM »
There's a newly divorce oversea bride from Laos in St Paul currently. Rumors is that her ex hsb had alot of money growing Xa in California and someone I know personally is trying to get with her in hopes of getting to that money.

Have men stoop that low and desperate? I'm so ashamed to know this person.

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Marriage & Family Life / Re: Divorce rates among highly educated men
« on: September 27, 2018, 12:28:29 PM »
Women do it too but not nearly as much as men bc women tend to think of their children.. the life they have built.. etc..


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Marriage & Family Life / Will they be curse?
« on: September 27, 2018, 12:10:42 PM »
Just wondering.. if you put an oath on your parent’s grave to look after someone or love someone or etc… and you made an oath to Heaven and is willing to drink blood for it. If you change your mind later, will you be curse by it?

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