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General Discussion / Beta Males and Low Vibration Females

« on: Today at 05:01:15 PM »

Beta males don't have to get their act together because there is always a low vibration female to give them sex.

Strangely enough, it is the beta male who complains that there are no good women around, and the low vibration female who also complains about men. 

Both of these observations are true from their perspectives. If you're a beta male who only gets with low vibration females then you don't get good women. To add to that, if you're a low vibration woman entertaining beta males, then you also only get time wasters.

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General Relationship / Never bring a man into your domain...

« on: Today at 04:38:37 PM »

It's up to him to show you that he can provide. He needs to prove that he can build. He is the one who needs to impress you with his assets.

Let the man love you by being able to give to you.

You know why a lot of women are so upset and go bat-shyt crazy after a breakup? It's because they mad as hell for raising him up. Be supportive and his biggest cheerleader but don't rescue him.

First of all, if a man is in your domain then he will always treat the situation like he is a guest. He won't step up when you need him to. Men respect only what they acquired and earned.

I get it. It feels super wonderful to have a man allow you to lead. He's with your family, doing the things you love, making your dreams come true, etc. etc. It's a beautiful thing. But that is only amazing as long as he doesn't blindside you. You're going to go beserk if he ever betrays you because you gave so much. He gave nothing. God designed men to be the ones to give. Let them give.

The older women in my family used to forewarn all the time. Do not bring a man to your clan. You create opportunities for him to cheat with your female relatives, brothers' wives, your friends, etc. A man is least likely to betray his brothers/friends/etc. They are his tribe, his gang, and the thought will never cross his mind to sleep with their women. Any man who does that will be cut off from the tribe and he is dead to them.

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General Relationship / Being in your feminine energy does NOT mean being agreeable...

« on: Today at 04:25:09 PM »

...to all men at all times.

In fact, that is insecurity on display because you're giving the message that you'll entertain beta males.

You are under no obligation to be cordial to beta males who will only waste your time.

Save your energy and tone for men who are builders and have something serious to offer.

Secure women in their feminine energy feel okay if there are no serious man at the moment. Nothing feels worse then a woman who ignores her boundaries for a beta male only to be blindsided by him.

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General Discussion / If a woman doesn't even worry about talking down to you, it means you're beta

« on: Today at 04:13:40 PM »

When a woman isn't putting any effort to appear agreeable with you ------> take the hint!

She ain't interested nor even leaving the door slightly cracked open.

She uses that tone with you because you bring out her masculine energy. Which means YOU ARE FEMININE ENERGY.

Wow, I guess a man can be a woman after all.

 

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General Discussion / Blessings from giving to a homeless person...he was actually a multimillionaire

« on: Today at 03:47:31 PM »

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=R5AESig_9YQ&t=327s

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General Discussion / Speaking of homelessness...one time I bought a meal for the homeless man...

« on: Today at 03:44:45 PM »

...who I always saw sleeping by the front door of a Hmong restaurant. They said that I should stop doing that because he won't leave. He is there everyday because when people come into the restaurant, they don't know any better and keep buying him food. The owner told me, "did you know someone just bought him food right before you came?" 

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Marriage & Family Life / Do you need to know everything about your spouse?

« on: Today at 01:43:01 PM »

How much of yourself do you share with your spouse?

A lot of married people do shady things without their spouse's knowledge. Are these just harmless gestures or a gateway to more risky behavior?

What is your threshold?

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General Discussion / The NUMBER ONE Cause of Homelessness

« on: Today at 12:53:19 PM »

Is not having a social support system.

If you don't have family or friends, then any event that disrupts your stream of income will drive you to become homeless. I haven't even touched upon those who develop addictions and other habits that are self-sabotaging.

 

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General Discussion / White liberals in affluent communities have a weird way of thinking

« on: Today at 12:19:51 PM »

Remember the thread I posted about Third World vibe? Well they apparently won't share input about it because I suspect they fear it will make them look racist. BUT, a whole bunch of them have a problem with a pest control company canvassing the neighborhood with flyers to attract business.

Personally, I find both annoying. I don't want solicitors knocking on my door and I also don't want to have to walk through a sea of people trying to sell me stuff in a Target parking lot. If I wanted any of that, I'd live in the big city, not in the burbs.

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General Relationship / Hey some of you, I know that this is what you've been looking for...

« on: Today at 11:17:19 AM »

The number of women who will be agreeable, dutiful, and faithful are plentiful ----> but that's not what you want. If you did, you'd already be with one.

You want an empath who will understand and feel you. You want a woman who is going to feel what you're feeling. You want someone who is going to feel just as offended when someone offends you. You want her to feel the excitement and passion that you feel for things that are important to you.

Why?

Because you're a lone wolf looking for your ride or die partner.

You want a woman who is going to miss you when you're gone and tell everyone that you were the best she ever had. No other man compares to you.

You don't want an agreeable, dutiful, and faithful wife who will easily marry someone else when you're gone from this world - because agreeable, dutiful, and faithful wives will do just that.

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General Relationship / Are you with the one who really loves you? If NO, why not?

« on: Today at 10:19:53 AM »

Well? 

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General Relationship / A man who wants stability always know what he's looking for...

« on: Today at 09:36:48 AM »

...and he's not going to string you along until he's ready because his time is valuable to him as well.

It doesn't take a man long to know that you're the one. It won't be your job to prove anything. In fact, what will happen is that he'll court you for this reason alone:

To see if you're attracted and willing to commit to him. He already knows that he likes you and wants commitment with you.

The dudes who are testing to see if there is compatibility or if they like you enough ARE PLAYING. If a man has to test to see if he likes you enough then RUN. Even if you get him, it will be a very one-sided relationship where he has all the power. You'll feel anxious all the time and fearful of abandonment.

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General Relationship / You'll have your dream guy when you look for these things:

« on: Today at 02:20:32 AM »

A man who is in a position to do these things and has the desire to do them -

- take care of someone
- accrue assets
- create stability
- secure a wife who will help oversee these things

The most satisfying and successful marriages I know include a husband who is all of these things. Otherwise, you just have a dude who enjoys spending time with you and using up your energy. In essence, a playmate. Which is why so many women are unhappy in their marriage/situationship.

It doesn't matter how nice he is or how much you enjoy his company. If he isn't in this state of mind and in a position to do these things, then you'll only be disappointed. Stop playing house with men. Then they'll know that they have to go do these things before they can get with you. Release them to go learn how to be a proper man and stop rescuing them.

No hobosexuals. The world has too many hobosexuals nowadays.

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General Discussion / 100% Positive that if theking dies first, that daughter of his will never...

« on: Today at 01:08:44 AM »

...see the Hmong again.

The Chinese wife isn't going to encourage her to know her Hmong side.

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General Discussion / You know how useless non-Hmong spouses are at Hmong events

« on: Today at 12:32:02 AM »

It's already bad enough that there are useless Hmong spouses, but a useless non-Hmong spouse?

There are very few who really chip in. theking's Chinese wife is not one of them.

The Hmong have very low expectations. They're just happy the non-Hmong spouse was willing to show up since most find Hmong customs very primitive. They feel very uncomfortable.

Hey, at least the non-Hmong spouses admit that they're useless. I'm not even criticizing them. But I know that it upsets theking because he's a son who should've married a Hmong girl who can carry out the customs.

When his mom dies, the daughter-in-laws are supposed to dress her in the Hmong clothes. Not sure theking's wife is willing to do this unless she is in the medical field and is comfortable being around a corpse.

Chinese wife will honor a Chinese husband's parents, but not so sure they feel the same obligation to a Hmong dude.