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Relationship => General Relationship => Topic started by: Allday-24 on November 03, 2018, 01:37:08 PM
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I've traveled to many places around the world and I can assure you that....
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The Japanese say Japanese women's lifestyles are more flexible than their male counterpart's.
Same goes for all Asian women.
Once they are wedded to Asian men though, they don't have that flexibility anymore.
So, most keep their freedom and flexibility by looking outside the circle of Asian men.
I've traveled to many places around the world and I can assure you that....
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Actually...the honest truth is we just dont look good. Compared to our counterparts.. .we just dont look good.
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The Japanese say Japanese women's lifestyles are more flexible than their male counterpart's.
Same goes for all Asian women.
Once they are wedded to Asian men though, they don't have that flexibility anymore.
So, most keep their freedom and flexibility by looking outside the circle of Asian men.
Very true, Women, in general, are attracted to taller guys. Asian men are 5'7 feet tall in average. Boyish looks. either too skinny or overweight. As for attitude wise, Asian men are perceived to be too serious and boring. The odds keep stacking against Asian guys. The solution, stop worrying about your image as an Asian man, and start improving yourself and encourage your Asian brothers to go lift some weights and be confident. When you are confident and full of muscle, women don't see you as "ANOTHER ASIAN GUY".
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I've traveled to many places around the world and I can assure you that....
Depends as reason(s) can vary...
I'm sure like how some Asian men "dislike" Asian women and opted to hook up with women of other race, it's mainly a preference thing...
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Actually...the honest truth is we just dont look good. Compared to our counterparts.. .we just dont look good.
Perhaps that applies to you personally? ....but like in your "Romanian girls" thread, it's just depends....as there are good and bad looking male and female members of every race ....so just depends...
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Well i can say my asian friend doesnt like that im talking to non asian girls. 😀
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I think we need an intervention! Let's come together bros
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It is a give and take world. They take a few of our azn women and we take a few of theirs. Think of it being terms of being gay. The gay community attacks one another so why should you worry yourself over nothing? Their groups deserves one another.
Same goes with azn women lusting for white guys who loves a me love you long time moments. It balances to cancels out one another so worry yourself not.
I went to the u of Wis for Halloween on states street and believe me not but I felt like a place I belong. I can make out with the purest looking white chick at will but they being drunk helps a whole lot too but the point is that them white Chicks still sings to the Jackie Chan kaydoo music. Thanks to the exposure, we are on the map again.
It is all out getting out there and get your fair share instead of seeing the competitors taking your worth and feeling sorry for yourself.
If there are any girls hating on their azn men then there are white Chicks hating on their white guys too.
It all balances out in the end. Sometimes we over think things cuz we get that silly vibes that just because an azn chick is all hipster or Americanized does not mean she wants a cow boy. Matter of fact, cow boys want other cow girls.
I don't hit on them country music chick. I know she still has eyes for a white guy who walks in the room with that cowboy hat on. With that, I let them live. I can't do country.
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If there are any girls hating on their azn men then there are white Chicks hating on their white guys too.
Yes there are...I know my nephews white wife wasn't attracted to white guys and prefers Asian men instead ...they've been married for over a decade now and have two children...in terms of mixed race children, I think Asian and white mixed kids look the best...
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Yes there are...I know my nephews white wife wasn't attracted to white guys and prefers Asian men instead ...they've been married for over a decade now and have two children...in terms of mixed race children, I think Asian and white mixed kids look the best...
Maybe I'm not homo but the white or Euro mix azn women are hot.
It is like add a mix to fix an issue like want to be taller or fix that flat nose or lightening up your hair color.
I remembered watching a movie I think called big trouble in little China where the evil guy was hunting for a rare Chinese chick with green eyes.
People with pretty eye balls, it is like you can't stop looking at them.
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You heard of Russel Wong? As hot a hunk as a hot hunk can get.
Actually...the honest truth is we just dont look good. Compared to our counterparts.. .we just dont look good.
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Those in Vietnam have grouped up. Their tactic: zij kiag xwb thiaj tau.
I think we need an intervention! Let's come together bros
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I think we need to let loose more and not always trying to be a good, steady father.
Just play. Then we'd be less boring.
Very true, Women, in general, are attracted to taller guys. Asian men are 5'7 feet tall in average. Boyish looks. either too skinny or overweight. As for attitude wise, Asian men are perceived to be too serious and boring. The odds keep stacking against Asian guys. The solution, stop worrying about your image as an Asian man, and start improving yourself and encourage your Asian brothers to go lift some weights and be confident. When you are confident and full of muscle, women don't see you as "ANOTHER ASIAN GUY".
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True. Other chicks love us, too. I'm going to find one.
It is a give and take world. They take a few of our azn women and we take a few of theirs. Think of it being terms of being gay. The gay community attacks one another so why should you worry yourself over nothing? Their groups deserves one another.
Same goes with azn women lusting for white guys who loves a me love you long time moments. It balances to cancels out one another so worry yourself not.
I went to the u of Wis for Halloween on states street and believe me not but I felt like a place I belong. I can make out with the purest looking white chick at will but they being drunk helps a whole lot too but the point is that them white Chicks still sings to the Jackie Chan kaydoo music. Thanks to the exposure, we are on the map again.
It is all out getting out there and get your fair share instead of seeing the competitors taking your worth and feeling sorry for yourself.
If there are any girls hating on their azn men then there are white Chicks hating on their white guys too.
It all balances out in the end. Sometimes we over think things cuz we get that silly vibes that just because an azn chick is all hipster or Americanized does not mean she wants a cow boy. Matter of fact, cow boys want other cow girls.
I don't hit on them country music chick. I know she still has eyes for a white guy who walks in the room with that cowboy hat on. With that, I let them live. I can't do country.
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Lol.
no worries dudes...it only seem that way because it's like how people never or rarely see the good in you, but only the bads...or at least, what they consider bads....when in reality....peo ple just want to make something out of nothing...haha ha for reals though dude...haha
i mean you see a couple asian girls with a white or black dude...and you forget, most asian girls still prefer asian dudes...but we don't really notice when a asian couple is out and about...but we see a short asian girl, with a tall ass white or black dude...and that stand out and we take notice.....and then we wonder...damn how do they have sex......hahaha
no worries folks...we might not be the tallest, best looking, and gamest, but we still got the better genes...give it another 20 years....Asian dudes will rule the NBA, NFL, Holly wood, and the porn industry...lol s
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Because Asian men rather stick to their video games than make something of themselves, be productive w/ their life/have goals, get education, etc... AND the ones that do are rare, not enough to go around, so Asian women have to seek outside.
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Because Asian men rather stick to their video games than make something of themselves, be productive w/ their life/have goals, get education, etc... AND the ones that do are rare, not enough to go around, so Asian women have to seek outside.
Depends...men of other race have those habits too so just depends...With that said, there are overwhelmingly more White men listed in the Fortune 500 publications so that may have something to do with it too... ???
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Depends...men of other race have those habits too so just depends...With that said, there are overwhelmingly more White men listed in the Fortune 500 publications so that may have something to do with it too... ???
Your new nickname should be the "Depends" guy... Well, it's a "safe" thinking but sometimes it's important to take a stand.
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Your new nickname should be the "Depends" guy... Well, it's a "safe" thinking but sometimes it's important to take a stand.
Because fact is, it does depend on the person/individual and NOT the race/ethnic like you portray...and you can "take a stand" all you want but make sure it's with facts...since what you said about Hmong men does also apply to other groups..
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Well, it is fact I'm talking about. You see more Asian men playing video games than women. Also, more Asian women graduating from college than Asian men, especially in our Hmong people.
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Well, it is fact I'm talking about. You see more Asian men playing video games than women. Also, more Asian women graduating from college than Asian men, especially in our Hmong people.
But that also applies to other groups as there are more women in other groups that also attend college than their male counterpart as well as "graduating" from it ...So leaving one's race and moving to another race that is also the same in terms of more men "playing video games" and less are "graduating from college" ...makes no sense...IMO..
However, the White men tend to have more money and wealth on average fact make more sense as many women are attracted to those attributes in men just like how many men are attracted to a woman's looks and beauty attributes...
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And as I've pointed out, there are also women in other race that prefer Asian men over their own so perhaps, it's just *depends* on the person/individual... ???
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I have interview many Asian/Hmong women on this topic and the answer I get the most is that Asian men are really controlling and that they (Asian Men) just wants to make Asian women their slaves.. With that being said, I figure that it is our part as Asian Men to re evaluate our own characters as Men.. The Asian culture itself is very centered on the Men. From my observation, the Hmong culture and it's traditions lack respect for Hmong Women. On the contrary, I have Caucasian friends that share their thoughts and ideas with me as well. And guess what, they are disrespectful as fudge towards women! Of course they will never open up this side of them to Women and "Asian" Women. But at the end of the day, they are just like me and you; my AZN brothers... Men will be Men! So it brings me to this theory: Do the Asian Women that chooses to be with a Caucasian man tell herself that everything is going to be aright when it isnt? In other words, she's in denial if her Caucasian partner turns out to be just like Asian Men and it's too late to go back to Asian Men. Am I being ignorant?
I've come across this scenario a couple of times, and to be honest it's really sad. For the ones that chose to go with another race and are successful in their relationships, props to you! Idk, blah!! Chime in well ya
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Your environment plays a factor here. If you come up in life, that means you have money and big money allows you to buy things like white men toys. You buy a house in a white man's neighborhood cuz you know, if your neighbors are of the minority, your neighborhood is ghetto.
We live in a so what white world. Everything you do and taste us white. Heck, even your kids prefers to speak the white man's language instead of their own to their azn peers and to their parents too. So the first choice is white first.
I came from a minority background and although I would like to live white, I am still more comfortable with an area that is infested with azn people. It is like you take your chances of not being a target. Let's just say I don't know how to tolerate racism so like a pod of sardines in the sea, if you want to live, take your chances to swim in a swarm with the other millions.
I can tell right away that im in a redneck or white dominated town. Go in, buy what I need and get out asap.
Now if you are a pretty azn chick, you get away with this do called stigma. Now to better your chances, you get with a white guy. To rednecks, she's alright cuz she's white lost so she gets a free pass plus everyone tends to treat pretty things better. Kinda bias but that is how the world works.
Kind of sad to see y'all Midwest Korean adopted kids. It is like their souls are lost. I haven't seen much cases but I have yet to see an adopted Korean chick who is with her white peers to branch out and go talk to my azn group over here. It is always an azn goes to her group and lures her out.
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Asian Men, when will we prevail..
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Asian Men, when will we prevail..
When "Asian Men" become the majority in this publication ;D:
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Fact is many women are attracted to wealthy and powerful men regardless if race...so when they seek the wealthy and powerful type, and see this, it's a no brainer for them... as the majority are White men... ??? ;D:
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My cousin from ATL just got a culture shock. He was at a chick fil a restaurant where the food there looks like redneck's food. He got hated cuz he's azn. He stood up to them though cuz the boy is a second generation born plus he's living the white life and can not speak a lick of Viet language.
Just like adopted Korean. When you play white and thinks that the white way is the superior way but still get racisms to your face, it then opens up your eyes that no matter how much you strive in the white world, some other whites will not accept you.
I would love to lecture him to go study his roots and come back to reality but the guy is in pharmacy school, old enough to make his decision. I told him to let it be, just walk away and if they block his path, ok to kick their azz. Was more worrying about his safety first. Y'all heard of Athens Georgia? Sounds like a hick town, filled up with other hick and racist college kids there.
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peep see grass...it's greener on other side. nuff said. :2funny:
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From my observation and reports from dating sites, successful Asian men tend to be super nerdy and have no personality. Not to say that this isn't true for white men as well, it's just that the white man can at least advance his wife's career in mainstream culture.
It is a two-way street though. Successful Asian men also marry outside their race group, especially those who are actually decent looking and have a personality. Thus, Asian women (especially Hmong women) would have to marry down in order to stay within their race group.
I'd like to see more Hmong men have higher career ambitions. They need to be more competitive and show up for the all out race war. At the moment, they aren't even contenders. The other race groups aren't feeling threatened at all when it comes to business, education, sports and so on. Hmong boys should really strive harder and try to dominate a highly respected industry as men. Maybe they could dominate the culinary world, auto decal design, ranching, BBQ house, etc. I don't know. Figure out something!
But please none of that gangsta thug wannabe, wearing your pants low and talking ghetto when you in your 30s and got 5+ kids.
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From my observation and reports from dating sites, successful Asian men tend to be super nerdy and have no personality. Not to say that this isn't true for white men as well, it's just that the white man can at least advance his wife's career in mainstream culture.
It is a two-way street though. Successful Asian men also marry outside their race group, especially those who are actually decent looking and have a personality. Thus, Asian women (especially Hmong women) would have to marry down in order to stay within their race group.
I'd like to see more Hmong men have higher career ambitions. They need to be more competitive and show up for the all out race war. At the moment, they aren't even contenders. The other race groups aren't feeling threatened at all when it comes to business, education, sports and so on. Hmong boys should really strive harder and try to dominate a highly respected industry as men. Maybe they could dominate the culinary world, auto decal design, ranching, BBQ house, etc. I don't know. Figure out something!
But please none of that gangsta thug wannabe, wearing your pants low and talking ghetto when you in your 30s and got 5+ kids.
And yet you married a divorced "Hmong" man....I bet he married "down" because HYPOCRITES are much lower...they're like scums... ;D