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Relationship => The Single & Dating Scenes => Topic started by: YAX on January 08, 2019, 11:16:53 AM
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Heard this on Tom Lykus show long ago but thought I'd share for my youthful friends..
Step 1: go to the ATM and look for printed bank statements/receipts that people left behind. Find one that has 6 figures or more on it.
Step 2: Go talk to the girl you really like. Tell her she should call you sometimes and offer to give her your number, but pretend you can't find anything to write it on and pull out the receipt, then write your number on the back of it.
Step 3: hand her the ATM receipt. She'll see the $$ in your account and her eyes will be like: :evil5:
Good luck boyz!!
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Perhaps for some of the more shallow ones but really depends as some girls are not money hungry like that...thus won't work on them...Fact!
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Perhaps for some of the more shallow ones but really depends as some girls are not money hungry like that...thus won't work on them...Fact!
That's fine, they can be shallow but as long as my young bros are getting laid, it's all good.
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I did that once...stateme nt said $6.02 balance.
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Play the guitar...
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Play the guitar...
Does virtual guitar count? ;)
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Does virtual guitar count? ;)
Let me clarify. Must play in a band. :D
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Let me clarify. Must play in a band. :D
But you're trying to get a band together in virtual guitar. ;D
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You gotta ask her if she wants to make out. Don't say, would you like to fawk or can I get a blowjob. If she is ok with first base, she will be ok with your bj.
Of 100 requests, one will say yes and you marry that one.
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Let me clarify. Must play in a band. :D
make it a rubber band.
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You gotta ask her if she wants to make out. Don't say, would you like to fawk or can I get a blowjob. If she is ok with first base, she will be ok with your bj.
Of 100 requests, one will say yes and you marry that one.
LOL...it doesn't even take 100 if you go to the right party... :-X
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So, I actually read the original poster's comment.
Then this...
I did that once...stateme nt said $6.02 balance.
;D
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Those are terrible advice. When you go in to approach her and try to chase her validation, you're already going it at the wrong way.
If you want to learn how to game I suggest you don't do those.
You don't need to do something "extra" to make her to like you.
The best way to get women is through self amuse. Self amuse is the best seduction to get girls.
Self amuse is when you can learn how to have fun on your own. You don't need the validation of a pretty girl to feel good.
You can say whatever you want to her because it comes from you.
You go in.. you show interest but be indifferent.
Everyone wants to be admired and respected. To be notice by others. If you're good at charming you can definitely pull hot women.
The indifference part is communicating high status. When you can walk away from a hot pretty girl at any time, when you don't want anything from her, and she sense that you're just killing it, she will get attracted to you.
Being interested but indifference means that you find her interesting when you talk to her, but it doesn't matter to you whether you talk to her and connect with her or not, you're still happy.
First you learn how to be happy on your own without being needy.
Neediness kills attraction. Indifference makes you attracted.
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damns, no wonder they girls always fighting over me...i'm a natural..haha jk
another trick is that saying...how you look at someone, or something, that's how they look at you...so just pretend that chick fooking likes you like hell...she cant' fooking get enough of you....lmao
but if you looking for the real deal...folks.. .there is no tricks....it all lye's in Fate's hands...haha 8)
Yes. It's called the state of transference. Whatever mood you are in will rub off on the people around you.
You say things because you find it funny and not because you want to get a reaction from her.
The most important factor of your game is not how much she laugh but by how amused you are.
If you say something and nobody laugh, that's okay... keep using it. Most likely, however, if you find it hilarious, she will pick up on your mood and the laughter will transfer over.
To get beautiful women you must learn how to have a great time.
You're not going to be like the needy guy. If you appear needy her attraction for you will drop, but if she sees that you are emotionally unaffected, her attraction for you will actually increase because of your indifference.
It took me a while to finally get it. Hope I add some value to your life. :)
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The belief that you think a chick like you and therefore, she will like you is not necessarily true. It’s good to be in that mode but it doesn’t happen like that. Think about this- you think you’re the only special snowflakes in the bar/club that deserves attention. Attractive women has tons of options. What make you think they will pick you over some good looking chads? :2funny:
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I got a better one.
Get off the net and go say hi.
Day game require social skills. Most Asians usually dont do well.
They aren’t tall enough for hot white chicks. Also low smv (sexual market value) and most Asian are socially awkward. I’m the only person that could get women who are higher than my lookscale If train under me. Race and Height matters a lot. Most Asians are short 5’5 and below. Can’t calibrate. Pickup is so hard for Asians. Only tall Asians with muscles can offset for lack of looks.
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Hahaha definitely will get a one night stand...until she actually asks you to pay for her gucchi bag that she wanted...
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Hahaha definitely will get a one night stand...until she actually asks you to pay for her gucchi bag that she wanted...
and remember, Tom also says, call her up, but eat your dinner before you take her out. If you take her out, order first and only order a salad. She'll likely just order a salad as well because women don't want to look like she's a pig so she generally won't try to eat more than you. Plus eating salads is better later on, she won't feel so bloated or full so the sex will be a better experience for her. O0
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Do you have photos of you with women?
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I could take the time to examine every line you said, and tell you where you’re wrong. But since sI don’t have time for that, I’ll simply present my argument:
Game won’t work if the woman is not attracted to you. Any results you got off from approaching was from playing the numbers game. Nothing to do with being stuck up. It’s has more to do with looks.
Women are the chooser. They ultimately decide if she wanna sleep with you or not based on her preferences.
And sadly their physically attraction toward tou is predetermined and there isn’t much you can do besides spam approach 50 women and hopefully one land on your d*ick.
And also because you’re Asian most women have racial preferences and Asians aren’t seem as attractive. Get rich or die trying, or go overseas to Laos or Thailand.
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You can be stuck up all you want, it doesn’t mean anything if she’s not attracted to you.
It’s like the saying “women like confidence guy,” no, women like the confidence guy they’re ATTRACTED to. An ugly guy with confidence would get friend zoned.
It doesnt matter how much worth you think you are, if you don’t have the looks to match.
Do you seriously think you’re the only person who have game?
What about a good looking white guy (Chad 8+)?
Most attractive women has better looking options and with the confidence/personality to match. So unless you are equally as good looking as the white dude, good luck leveraging your game since Chad also has game.
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When you say you don’t have to socialize that’s already an error.
Women will not magically jump on your d*ick just because you think you’re the only special snowflakes 😂
You have to be normal socially to approach so women won’t dismiss you based on social skills and vibe.
Assuming you weren’t creepy/austistic, if a woman reject you it’s either because she’s not available, she has a bf, or you do not fit her preferences ( ex. UGLY low Asian trying to pick up hot white girls.)
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What I said is the ultimate truth. My intention wasn’t to offend you but to face the reality of what it’s like in the dating game.
Take for example, online dating.
Use a picture of yourself vs a 8/10 white guy (aka Chad)
Assuming you’re an average looking Asian guy. See how many matches you get. I can guarantee you Chad has more matches than you. You might end up getting a match from the opposite sex but you really have to spam approach. This means you have to play the numbers game approaching and escalating every girl. Most often you get rejected then you have to move on to another girl. If you’re lucky you might match 1 or 2 out of every 50 female you approach. You push the interaction hard and either get her number or doesn’t. This works the same with cold approach. It’s a numbers game.
My point is this. Average and below guys will struggle getting a date from the opposite sex while Chad is swimming in with pussies. A 8/10 guy could get matches at a consistent rate but this isn’t true for average and ugly guys. For average and below guys they have to spam until they find a match. Then they have to wait every 6 months-1 year until they find another date. In other words they can’t replicate it at a consistent rate. They settle for their once every year occasion. Good looking guys doesn’t have problem. They just meet women online and women will come over to f**k at a consistent rate.
Same thing with a 4/10 guy vs a 4/10 girl. I can easily prove this with an online experiment. The 4/10 girl still has tons of suitors than the 4/10 guy. Men are willing to lower their standard and mate. Women are more shallow than men. If looks don’t matter then the 4/10 guy should have no problem getting more results.
Most guys will never admit that the reason they get rejected is due to his looks or he do not fit her preferences. Most Attractive women has tons of good looking options, and they can just monkey branch to Chad over an dorky Asian. 😂
Asians have low sexual value. So you get it now bro? Online dating and cold approach you have to look good.
Looks are the only determining factor. In real world dating, average and below guys get shit from women. The only way he gets laid is if he’s ACTUALLY good looking or pay prostis. Hate to break it down but it’s the truth. Why do you think there are incels? I would bet most of u here are incels. Ur too ugly for online dating apps lol.
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As a student of pickup artist I didn’t say I was going at it easy. You should always respect women. What you don’t do is give them direct attention or seem needy.
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You’re making this post about me is irrelevant lol. It doesn’t invalidate my argument.
Women are the chooser. How men gets results is dictate by their looks and the girl preselected them based on their preferences. If you’re average looking you are out of luck.
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You’re making this post about me is irrelevant lol. It doesn’t invalidate my argument.
Women are the chooser. How men gets results is dictate by their looks and the girl preselected them based on their preferences. If you’re average looking you are out of luck.
O0 O0 LOL but even ugly face me, get's some face time with ladies in dark clubs lighting...LOL . Or was that just the beer googles? I don't know..
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O0 O0 LOL but even ugly face me, get's some face time with ladies in dark clubs lighting...LOL . Or was that just the beer googles? I don't know..
Lmao If you’re ugly looking your ceiling is an ugly looking girl.
Most attractive women only dates their equally looksmatch.
Women in equal level like you and below still prefer the hottest guy and would rather stay single than settle.
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Lmao If you’re ugly looking your ceiling is an ugly looking girl.
Most attractive women only dates their equally looksmatch.
Women in equal level like you and below still prefer the hottest guy and would rather stay single than settle.
So that's why they always be looking below my belt line. Walk into a room and the hottest chick...let me rephrase that. The classiest chick, not the hottest, The CLASSIEST CHICK would stand or sit next to me. It's my ugly face that keeps all the other guys away from her.
Oh how many ladys, who just can't push away another guy who is down right not giving up comes up to me and say,
"Pretend you're my boyfriend."
"Pretend you're my date."
"Will you be my escort"
"You're my bodygaurd okay."
At the end of the day...she's probably thinking, *I screwed up. I played my game wrong. I couldn't win that trophy.*
I know it all too well...all eyes on me. Even though I'm nothing but a wall flower. When I step onto that center stage. All eyes on me. Of course it's a looks game, but you have to be able to toss and catch balls too.
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So that's why they always be looking below my belt line. Walk into a room and the hottest chick...let me rephrase that. The classiest chick, not the hottest, The CLASSIEST CHICK would stand or sit next to me. It's my ugly face that keeps all the other guys away from her.
Oh how many ladys, who just can't push away another guy who is down right not giving up comes up to me and say,
"Pretend you're my boyfriend."
"Pretend you're my date."
"Will you be my escort"
"You're my bodygaurd okay."
At the end of the day...she's probably thinking, *I screwed up. I played my game wrong. I couldn't win that trophy.*
I know it all too well...all eyes on me. Even though I'm nothing but a wall flower. When I step onto that center stage. All eyes on me. Of course it's a looks game, but you have to be able to toss and catch balls too.
Looks gets you a head start...open the door/a quick night stand but after that if a guy can’t back up his looks with a solid masculine frame, it’s game over. Looks will only carry a man so far.
Looks is more important with online dating and social media, but that only opens the door, there are 100 steps after that require game and money- if you’re ugly you have to leverage those things.
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i have seen it many a times...if you lack the looks, you need the personality... i don;t like to call it game...because a man's game should be his true character, personality, and spirit..haha if lack the character, then good looks might help...
I don’t look at it as faking. I look at it as becoming the best version of myself.
Some people aren’t naturals that’s why they need game. What Game does is it tries to copy the same behaviors that naturals have
i said might, because usually 8 out 10 women prefer the masculine looks, over the pretty boy justin beiber and jason presly looks...lmao
They prefer the Chad looks. Strong jaw line, asthestic facial feature, 5’10-6ft tall.
so i disagree bratha...you don't have to look good....you just got to carry yourself with real confidence and masculinity, sheer and pure rigid manliness...th at's what really attracts women...the only thing that can possibly beat that is money, and lots of it..lmao
Would you duck a fat ugly confidence girl that approach you?
if you ever look around you, you will see what im talking about...the pretty boy justin beiber looking dudes don't always get the girl they want..usually the average looking janes....for fuuk sakes, they look prettier than the girls....lmao and all the average joes, with pure and sheer masculinity gets the sexy big booty mamma citas....lmao
Nope. Stop coping. Average joes gets shit from women outside of looks.
There’s no magic pill for average and ugly guys banging big booty mamma citas strictly with game. He have to be good looking.
Even with game, he’s too far outside of this range to be acceptable by majority of attractive women.
And I’m not talking about ducking your equally looksmatch or below. I’m talking about picking up hot white chicks.
The 8’s and 9,s supermodels. You can’t get them with game bro. It takes looks, money and status.
Guys who are average and below often settle for their equally looksmatch or below, pay prostis, or move to other countries like Thailand.
stay away from online dating sites....it is night and day compare to real life...online, women don't see the other qualities they would otherwise see in person...all they have to go with is your picture, so of course, it sees like good looks is everything to women, when in actuality, good looks to women is average looking, somewhat handsome, somewhat ugly, but pure rigid manliness is what they really want...and money...of course...lols
Agree. But even cold approach is still hard and results is the same regardless.
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the smartest women out there will admire your game and how talent you are with your words....but they will know if it's genuine or not...and if they want someone who is real and true to themselves, having game will not win her over...she might not be turned off, but she won't be impress either...some will take offense to it actually, because they view it as a form of dishonesty and deception. if they want the real thing, they want to see the good and bad..and go from there.
First you gotta learn how women are and not get duck up, and then duck them.
The thing with game is that it’s very situational. A man’s success is going to depend on many variables: how good he’s looking and location.
Ex. A guy goes to Thailand will have it easier than say in LA.
The man’s results is strictly depend on the the women preselected him and the location he’s in.
My result with women will not speak for you or others because every guy gets preselected at diff rate.
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the smartest women out there will admire your game and how talent you are with your words....but they will know if it's genuine or not...and if they want someone who is real and true to themselves, having game will not win her over...she might not be turned off, but she won't be impress either...some will take offense to it actually, because they view it as a form of dishonesty and deception. if they want the real thing, they want to see the good and bad..and go from there.
LOL...but when you suddenly change the type of women to fulfill your argument...doe sn't that just moot your original argument.
I'm not supporting nor against what you said, but just that there's incongruity in what you're selling. But I'm sure you know exactly what you're talking about...perhap s just not able to put it down into words for the rest of use to read it. And again, it's probably the same regurgitated stuff everyone is selling already on the internet, magazines, self made millionaire coaching, with just a slight twist in flavor. O0
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i have seen it many a times...if you lack the looks, you need the personality...
Personality does not matter if she’s not attracted to you bro.
Have you ever got rejected? Or got ignored before whether it was in real life or on text messages?
If you approach her first chances are, she was never interested in you. If she approached you first it may have been because you weren’t interesting or turned her off somewhere.
Women might like your personality but if she doesn’t like the way you look, it won’t work.
Bruh she was never interested in you. If you show me your text conversation I can tell you what went wrong.
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double post
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Personality only applies at the average looking level.
Ex. A 4.5/10 guy and a 4.5/10 girl
Both sex with personality could work.
But if you’re a 4.5/10 and you’re trying to get an 8/10 girl, personality won’t apply at this level.
Most guys are average looking and even with game at this level won’t get you 8s and 9s. It will only get you friend zone majority of time. At this level he’s too far outside the range to be accepted by majority of attractive women.
Guys who are below 4.5 settle for their equally looksmatch just as ugly as them.
Real life ex. A fat guy ceiling is a fat girl lookmatch couple.
I never see a hot guy going out with a fat obese woman. If she’s fat, her match is a equally fat obese guy just like her. Duh!!
My topic is about how to get women ABOVE your looks bro!!!
Majority of time people date their equally looksmatch. You don’t see mismatch couples that often. Because it doesn’t happen.
This is why I argue that for average men, why would attractive women settle for a 4.5 guy when she can go for an 8/10 Chad. Most attractive women has plenty of options and they don’t date down.
DaCurse, you said u dated women who are high status like 8s or 9s. Where do you think you are you between 1-10?
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LOL...but when you suddenly change the type of women to fulfill your argument...doe sn't that just moot your original argument.
I'm not supporting nor against what you said, but just that there's incongruity in what you're selling. But I'm sure you know exactly what you're talking about...perhap s just not able to put it down into words for the rest of use to read it. And again, it's probably the same regurgitated stuff everyone is selling already on the internet, magazines, self made millionaire coaching, with just a slight twist in flavor. O0
In real life dating it’s impossible for a guy especially if he’s average to get a high status woman.
The way this could happen is if he pay her (aka escorts/prostitutes)
However, when one does that it’s no longer game.
Guys who pay have the lamest game. They’re incels and can’t get women because they’re too ugly.
It’s true. I know everything lol.
Not saying he did, but chances are it happens that way.
Ex. Ugly guy with a hot woman.
In real life dating, average and below looking guys gets shit from attractive women unless he pay.
The only way a guy could get laid in real life is if he’s ACTUALLY good looking.
It’s looks, nothing else.
Anything besides that don’t count.
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In real life dating it’s impossible for a guy especially if he’s average to get a high status woman.
The way this could happen is if he pay her (aka escorts/prostitutes)
However, when one does that it’s no longer game.
Guys who pay have the lamest game. They’re incels and can’t get women because they’re too ugly.
It’s true. I know everything lol.
Not saying he did, but chances are it happens that way.
Ex. Ugly guy with a hot woman.
In real life dating, average and below looking guys gets shit from attractive women unless he pay.
The only way a guy could get laid in real life is if he’s ACTUALLY good looking.
It’s looks, nothing else.
Anything besides that don’t count.
LOL and this is exactly where the incongruity is. But for the most part as it goes...knowing your limit when shooting for the stars.
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I like how y'all horn dogs approaching this from different School of thoughts. I will give you one that is the road less traveled.
You do see a chump looking guy on a hotter chick than he is. He's a flubber n she's definitely could pass for an ig model. How can this be?
Well, to me, it is because he had sold her something. Definitely not the looks but if he's buying her things, she's going to stick around to reap the rewards. Do this enough n she's his gf.
There is also the sprung theory of mine. Every girl has a price. If you trade something, whether it be your charm, personality or money to buy her things just to get her to sleep with you (minus the payed hoes), she may get sprung on you. Remember I did not say that you have to be good looking to try this. Women are not going to sleep with ten different sizes cocks and decides to pick the best one. She is going to get one and will be sprung on you cuz it is a biological thing where she is loyal to a man who may be her breeder.
So it starts there. Sex her first and see how loyal she will be to you. Now how to sex a dime, that's another story but it is possible.
I'm not good with being bf/gf title first then sex. I'm always a fan of sexing first then she gets sprung and wants to know where we stand. Obviously she wants to hook up cuz sex to her was a ritual and she must be liking me enough to give her cavity body to me.
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Over the weekend, my wife and I attended a wedding. During the reception, I noticed a hot girl in a red dress. Guys be staring her booty as she walked around. Then I see her man. He's shorter than her, walks with a limp and slightly below average looking, not to mention, a bit older, but she's proud to be with him. I just gotta wonder, how he did do it? Is it money? Is it drugs? What does he have that these other guys around the room didn't? Courage to approach her?
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having game is like what we are discussing here.....
i can kiss ass, agree with everything you say, while you don't agree with nothing i say, to whichis perfectly fine.....and we'll have a very peaceful but superficial discussion...l mao
being your true self is the opposite.....a nd this is why you don't always get the girl you want...
you want the real deal, not no fake shit you have to lie to kick it...lmao
when you're able to say whatever you want and don't give a damn, you can be ugly and still get the girls....haha
your past rejectins have nothing to do with your looks....but everything with how you carry yourself...so to be bluntly honest, maybe you're game just wasn't as good as you thought, maybe you're hitting on girls way above your league.....be happy with yourself, and give the average janes a chance, because that's where you belong.
Women are only attracted to men who are higher value than them.
The more she works towards getting you, the higher value she sees you, and the higher status you are in her eyes.
This is what women want. They want a challenge, and they friend zone what comes to easily.
Yeah, just be yourself lol - bad advice imo.
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i would love and have given many average janes the opportunity, but with my looks at a 11 on a scale of 1-10, average janes are resentful towards great looking men like me due to pass rejections or fail relationshops. ...so i have to stick with the 8 and 9 white girls that are taller than me...lmao j/k
Lmao you know you’re an low Asian incel. Attractive women generally don’t go for Asians or Indians unless you’re the top 10-15% of your race as a minority.
Still, an average Jane generally still has more options and won’t have trouble sleeping with a guy.
Keep telling yourself ur an 11. Strong cope mechanisms 😂
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Lmao you know you’re an low Asian incel. Attractive women generally don’t go for Asians or Indians unless you’re the top 10-15% of your race as a minority.
Still, an average Jane generally still has more options and won’t have trouble sleeping with a guy.
Keep telling yourself ur an 11. Strong cope mechanisms 😂
That's why you gotta get them when they're young and inexperienced. Leave the experienced ones to them other dudes. O0
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That's why you gotta get them when they're young and inexperienced. Leave the experienced ones to them other dudes. O0
If I don't have standards cuz I'm older now, I would eat them 18 to 21 years old youngins for breakfast. I made a killing off them 18+ hmong night clubs from cali to the midwest. I know what they want and what they like. I uses psychology to lure them like dangling a piece of candy for the kidnap.
Now that I'm older, you can't pay me enough to go to an 18+ or all ages event. Too shameful and some might call me uncle. I have no answer for that. :2funny:
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When they say that it is a trick, I say that it is all psychological. You know that pepsi sign? When I was working for pepsi corp, they said they payed millions of dollars just to have that circle design on their can. It has a meaning and it is deep. We don't see it cuz well, we don't see their tricks.
Same can be said with luring women. It is all psychological. Sure it will help if you give me a bag of money to spend on her or if you give me a pretty face but let me tell you something here. A pimp has a few girls. She works her body to bring money back to dude. Now tell me why don't she just run away and start her own business? Well it is because of a pimp and hoes psychological thing. He hypnotized her with his charm so she's hooked. Learn that style and you will have your women eating from the palms of your hands.
Easier said than done but it is still an art and good sales people have extensive training into this. It is called the power of persuasion. I can get you to do things without you realizing what you have done. Once you buy, you might have buyers remorse but my policy is half price if you return it. I still win. :2funny:
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Over the weekend, my wife and I attended a wedding. During the reception, I noticed a hot girl in a red dress. Guys be staring her booty as she walked around. Then I see her man. He's shorter than her, walks with a limp and slightly below average looking, not to mention, a bit older, but she's proud to be with him. I just gotta wonder, how he did do it? Is it money? Is it drugs? What does he have that these other guys around the room didn't? Courage to approach her?
He paid her as an escort to be his companion at the wedding event.
There’s no magic pill for below average guys banging HOT women. He has to be good looking.
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If money was the reason she’s with him, she’s a gold digger. She’s not into him because of him, but only for his money.
Money only matters if it’s at extreme level ($250k+) because in America, women has their own jobs and they can provide for themselves. Have fun spending 3 roses an hr lmfao! And if you are UGLY (as with most Asian guys), you won’t pull women unless you pay.
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Good lord! If you guys want to know how to get a chick to like you, just ask the chicks!
Here are some pointers:
NOTE. You don't have to be the best looking guy to win a great girl.
1. It's in the way you carry yourself.
a. Be clean and dress nicely like a guy who's trying to score at a job interview (no baggy pants or thug life if you want a nice girl that you want to bring home to mama).
b. Carry yourself with class.
c. Be a gentleman.
d. Have a great personality.
e. Make her laugh.
f. Show interest in her and ask her lots of questions.
2. Have and show some intelligence. Write and speak well.
3. Prove to her you're a good guy. What this means: you have a stable job (you don't need to be a lawyer or doctor, you just have to like what you do for work), you take care of your responsibiliti es, you care about your family and friends, you don't intentionally set out to hurt people.
4. Prove to her you have a good heart. What this means: you know right from wrong, you want to do the right thing, you care about people, etc.
Boom! That's it. You can be short, tall, fat... but if you can accomplish the above 4 things, there is an 80%+ chance you'll get her. 80% is better than 50%, k!
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Good lord! If you guys want to know how to get a chick to like you, just ask the chicks!
Here are some pointers:
NOTE. You don't have to be the best looking guy to win a great girl.
1. It's in the way you carry yourself.
a. Be clean and dress nicely like a guy who's trying to score at a job interview (no baggy pants or thug life if you want a nice girl that you want to bring home to mama).
b. Carry yourself with class.
c. Be a gentleman.
d. Have a great personality.
e. Make her laugh.
f. Show interest in her and ask her lots of questions.
2. Have and show some intelligence. Write and speak well.
3. Prove to her you're a good guy. What this means: you have a stable job (you don't need to be a lawyer or doctor, you just have to like what you do for work), you take care of your responsibiliti es, you care about your family and friends, you don't intentionally set out to hurt people.
4. Prove to her you have a good heart. What this means: you know right from wrong, you want to do the right thing, you care about people, etc.
Boom! That's it. You can be short, tall, fat... but if you can accomplish the above 4 things, there is an 80%+ chance you'll get her. 80% is better than 50%, k!
So what are my chances of dating you yom?
Here, I'll answer for you. Negative 100%
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There are 2 rules that you guys need to know about women if you don't already know them yet.
Rule 1: Never trust what a woman says, only what she does.
Rule 2: If you ever forget, refer to rule 1 again.
They don’t know what it’s like being in our shoes picking up women.
Remember women are dynamic not static.
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So what are my chances of dating you yom?
Here, I'll answer for you. Negative 100%
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LMAO! :2funny:
Well, you accomplished 1e. Keep going... ;D ;D ;D
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There are 2 rules that you guys need to know about women if you don't already know them yet.
Rule 1: Never trust what a woman says, only what she does.
Rule 2: If you ever forget, refer to rule 1 again.
They don’t know what it’s like being in our shoes picking up women.
Remember women are dynamic not static.
You know why I like my women deaf and mute?
1. So she can not nag at me
2. So she can not give me the silent treatment
3. So if she asked me how she looks in this dress, I can claim the 5th
yep, I'm getting me a blow up doll. :2funny:
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Good lord! If you guys want to know how to get a chick to like you, just ask the chicks!
Here are some pointers:
NOTE. You don't have to be the best looking guy to win a great girl.
1. It's in the way you carry yourself.
a. Be clean and dress nicely like a guy who's trying to score at a job interview (no baggy pants or thug life if you want a nice girl that you want to bring home to mama).
b. Carry yourself with class.
c. Be a gentleman.
d. Have a great personality.
e. Make her laugh.
f. Show interest in her and ask her lots of questions.
2. Have and show some intelligence. Write and speak well.
3. Prove to her you're a good guy. What this means: you have a stable job (you don't need to be a lawyer or doctor, you just have to like what you do for work), you take care of your responsibiliti es, you care about your family and friends, you don't intentionally set out to hurt people.
4. Prove to her you have a good heart. What this means: you know right from wrong, you want to do the right thing, you care about people, etc.
Boom! That's it. You can be short, tall, fat... but if you can accomplish the above 4 things, there is an 80%+ chance you'll get her. 80% is better than 50%, k!
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You know why I like my women deaf and mute?
1. So she can not nag at me
2. So she can not give me the silent treatment
3. So if she asked me how she looks in this dress, I can claim the 5th
yep, I'm getting me a blow up doll. :2funny:
Most women do not know what they want or how they want to be approach.
All they say is, if you like her then just be nice to her.
Yet these are the same women who date guys that treat them like crap, and the ones who treat them nice gets friend zoned.
Learn from experience folks.
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Indirect game is allways better. Direct approach rarely works. Going direct and showing her all these signs of interest is a BIG no. It’s not even game. If you wanna go direct you better look good (depend how physically attracted you are) I go indirect majority of the time it’s the better strategy for most situations. Then after she enjoys my company then I will show intent. Indirect opens better.
Dont take advice from women on how to pick up women!
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Players cry lol. Players do not cry but you will if you keep doing nice things to her then you will know who’s the one she’s chasing after. You’re the one who beg her to love you but she was never attracted to you. ;)
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Good lord! If you guys want to know how to get a chick to like you, just ask the chicks!
Here are some pointers:
NOTE. You don't have to be the best looking guy to win a great girl.
1. It's in the way you carry yourself.
a. Be clean and dress nicely like a guy who's trying to score at a job interview (no baggy pants or thug life if you want a nice girl that you want to bring home to mama).
b. Carry yourself with class.
c. Be a gentleman.
d. Have a great personality.
e. Make her laugh.
f. Show interest in her and ask her lots of questions.
2. Have and show some intelligence. Write and speak well.
3. Prove to her you're a good guy. What this means: you have a stable job (you don't need to be a lawyer or doctor, you just have to like what you do for work), you take care of your responsibiliti es, you care about your family and friends, you don't intentionally set out to hurt people.
4. Prove to her you have a good heart. What this means: you know right from wrong, you want to do the right thing, you care about people, etc.
Boom! That's it. You can be short, tall, fat... but if you can accomplish the above 4 things, there is an 80%+ chance you'll get her. 80% is better than 50%, k!
I want to get this lovely lady to like me and I will follow your tips here. But first I need to test this to validate it's authenticity of effectiveness. So I will test it out on you. ;) kay?
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don't be envy of those dudes who think they are badass and can get any girl....the truth about game is, it only works on the low quality and stupid girls....hahah a just be yourself...why would you want to be with someone who doesn't want to be with you in the first place....know your worth, and the right girl will see and accept you for who you is...
when those dudes decide they want to settle down with the high quality, or high status girl...and when they throw every trick they know at her and she's not impressed....h e starts to get desperate and cry or go psycho and stalk her....haha
you once said you grew up being very quiet and shy....you should really just be yourself and find a nice and shy girl just like yourself....sh e doesn't have to be white, to be a 8 or 9....nor does she have to be snobby and slutty and socially active....
i'm pretty sure you're the type of dude that just want to hit n run.....whatev er you do is your business...but like i said, when I come and do the same to your sister or daughter, you better not cry....hahah lols j/k man, j/k....I know I don't know you like that to joke like that...but grow some skin...it's just the internet...lol s
but i am just saying, if you want the real thing, you have to be the real you.....most people end up divorcing, breaking up, and etc...because one or both parthners was never themselves.... it was allbase on fakeness, and eventually the true colors show...it always do...just like the truth always comes out sooner or later.....
Right. You just gotta be yourself. By being yourself, you will get good. Well if that was the case, every guy would be good 😂
I’m sorry but seem like your nice guy strategy does not work. It doesn’t work because it attempts to attract women logically. It is based on the assumption that if you treat women with respect, got your shit together, then she’ll automatically jump on your d*ck. WRONG!
And don’t get me wrong. Like I’ve said you should always treat women with respect, but that is NOT how you build attraction.
And when did game teaches you to be desperate? That’s not how game work.
Do you know why nice guys can’t get girl? It’s because they’re the desperate ones. Not us players. Us players take our time to respond to text messages. We do have our shit together which makes also makes us high value. The diff is we don’t put women on a pedestal. We don’t bombard her text like every nice guys out there seeking her validation or else they’ll cry like a baby 👶
Keep doing that and watch her push you away.
Pretty sure if you’ve ever lost someone in the past it was because you were too needy.
Girls have noses like bloodhounds. One swift and you’re out.
In fact, if you can train your brain to not need the validation of a girl to feel good or happy, you simply interact her with pure joy, self amusement, you will see the results with women much better.
But if you go in constantly seeking her validation, it’ll drive her away. This is what nice guys dont understand.
I know because I used to be this guy. I pay women too much attention.
Nice guys are clingy as hell. Having a solid Game changes all that.
I am still nice don’t get me wrong. I just don’t give women free attention like every guy on social media.
I mean seriously, every time she post a status or selfie how many guy send her the same comment “you’re so pretty” lol
Seriously stop that shit man. All it is doing is inflating women’s ego. They don’t give a duck about you.
The goal of learning game is to develop natural behaviors. The concepts should be internalized in such a way that it becomes a natural part of how you interact with women.
I understand not all people are naturals, but if you want to improve your life with women you gotta learn it.
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Like someone once said, women need to have game too. I now agree with that statement.
Women are constantly gaming men bro. They do it so natural.
Game mimic women’s behavior.
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Again dont look at as faking it. Look at it as becoming your best self.
Regarding sex...women loves sex, and Nice guys aren’t getting lay. The nice guy push over isnt attracted to women because they don’t realize that the best way to attract women is to be a challenge.
The nice guy doesn’t have any of that. He plays it safe, he’s gives too much ducks.m, always in the worry mode, and in the end lose the girl.
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You’re wrong. Game isn’t just about approaching or leaving good impression. It’s everything from opener to getting her number down to setting up a date then escalating, build sexual tension, seduction and onward. And if you’re bad at sex, assuming she have experience, she’s probably gonna ghost your ass cause your d*ck wasn’t hitting right. After sex if she don’t call you chances are she wasn’t feeling it. She had better d*ck.
And the guys are afraid to approach women because they have approach anxiety. It’s really just a lack of social skills. They don’t know what to say. They have limiting beliefs. Of course they have to deal with rejection as well. They have to learn how to calibrate, how to spot women’s signals, body language etc. it’s all part of gaming. That’s what gaming is for. To help you become your best version.
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You’re wrong. Game isn’t just about approaching or leaving good impression. It’s everything from opener to getting her number down to setting up a date then escalating, build sexual tension, seduction and onward. And if you’re bad at sex, assuming she have experience, she’s probably gonna ghost your ass cause your d*ck wasn’t hitting right. After sex if she don’t call you chances are she wasn’t feeling it. She had better d*ck.
And the guys are afraid to approach women because they have approach anxiety. It’s really just a lack of social skills. They don’t know what to say. They have limiting beliefs. Of course they have to deal with rejection as well. They have to learn how to calibrate, how to spot women’s signals, body language etc. it’s all part of gaming. That’s what gaming is for. To help you become your best version.
LOL...I didn't learn about incels until it was mentioned in this thread and I remember a few younger guys who had these problems back in the days. Good young guys and better than Chads. Yet..when you're chicken chit...you get no chick. Wingman can't go over pick up numbers and all and then...what? You still too chicken chit to go and chat with that chick...hopele ss... :D
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So I gathered one's advice is for young adults...below 21
The other is advice for the bulk of the modern professionals typical age category of 21-30 yrs.
Again different target audience....si nce it wasn't about ghetto style, NEET style, hippie style, etc.,...
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brah, sorry, I know gratified is your boy, but he swung at me first...im only defending myself...i though we were homies? i'm starting to wonder why your workers don't get along with you and have quitted under you?? hahaha
So you wanna try me now? Good luck. You're need to defend yourself is because you have weak foundation.
I was never against you...just seeking clarification on your regurgitated fake knowledge. Looking for something that can be validated not sold.
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maaan fuuk yall hatas....tryin g to do something good, and yall hahaes hating and hella ungratefull... ..fuuk yalls jealous ass hatas....
yall pussies going wish you listen to me on day...i guarantee it...hahaha bishes ass motherfockers. ....come to me when you're ready to bow down and call me master...lols :2funny:
proof...right there malfunction
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But you have no pictures with women. I talk with pictures.
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I disagree with the age thing.
One of the first realizations you must make with women is that tip toe-ing around them and trying to "say the nice thing, and be a super nice gentleman" just doesn't work.
When you try to get her to like you, when you show validation seeking behavior, it just turns her off.
But if you're indifferent, if you say what you want, do what you want, and you DON'T do things to get her to like you... THAT'S when she becomes attracted to you.
You don’t seek a reaction. Guys who go into an interaction and seek a reaction are trying to win her validation. Instead of trying to make her laugh, they make themselves laughs. This is called the Self amusement theory taught by Real Social Dynamic (RSD) they one of biggest players in the PUA community.
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You gotta show disinterest not interest. It’s showing disinterest that gets the girl to chase. I might write more about this later.
Nice guys show lots of interest. They go in and seek a reaction, then when they don’t get the answer they want, they get mad or frustrated.
That’s not how game works.
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There is always exception to everything, but you gotta know why ur doing this or that. Why ur using this technique?
If you see a girl u like, of course you should go talk to her. What I’m saying by disinterest is dont come across as needy. It’s unattractive to women. I think we’re on the same page now.
You gotta know the situation why ur doing this or that. The nebiews do not know yet, they use pickup lines and when a girl make a comeback, they’re stuck. They don’t know why they’re using that line for lol. They do not have an answer for her comeback. They’re just like me when I first started lmao. I was seeking reaction only. When I knew how to game, I changed all the habit I used to do with women.
Guys that go into an interaction with this mindset are actively seeking a reaction from her. They’ll say a joke, and if the girl finds it funny, they deemed it as successful. If she doesn’t find it funny or laugh, they thought they’d failed.
This dependency on the women’s reaction is low status and unattractive. It shows you’re needy and the girl is higher value.
Women are only attracted to higher value guys then they are.
When I’m gaming/picking up chicks I’m thinking 3 steps ahead.
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sorry folks....pleas e excuse the ghetto behavior...but my pateince was tested, intelligence insulted, and authencity, questioned.... haha lols....
Villanous and gratified, I'm just trolling withyou guys....sorry if it gotten too far...I admit I lost it and got carried away....please treated as it never happened.
It’s all good man. I understand your point as well but I just disagree with it. Your view is to be a nice gentleman, bring her flowers, and tell her how you feel right? Lol.
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Those are really nice advice.
Women are hypergamous by nature. She’ll stay with a beta provider but she’s ducking chad on the side.
I’m more of a redpill guy. I don’t put women on the pedestal. I’m no cuck lol.
Do not give women what they want. When you’re dealing with women you have to remember they are in it for themselves.
We always want what we can’t have, and if you don’t give women what they want, they will chase you.
Put women first, be too agreeable, and she’ll take advantage you. Never give them validation and attention.
A real haha will play you.
The less you do for them, the more you’ll obtain.
That’s why I’m a Redpilll bro.
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The kind of dating you’re focusing on is good. They’re more like dating coaches not PUA. Dating coaches focuses primarily on relationship management on what to do than actual attraction. So for anyone that doesn’t have relationship experience should look into what you have to teach.
But those advice aren’t really good for Asians who are 4/10 incels lol.
White dating coaches have it better because they’re white. Their results cannot be transfer to their students, especially for low Asians lol.
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;D ;D ;D
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The moment you figure out the trick, I have already gotten to her and that is a trick in itself. :2funny: