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Just keep doing what you've been doing. Since you're her daughter, you need to be the voice of reasons even if she doesn't listen to you. You never know, maybe...one of these days it might sink in and prevent her from having her way. Not that she's listening to you but having people away from her corner will make her think a little bit before putting her ideas into actions.
maybe, your mom wants him with a white girl too.
ok, you know your mom best...tell her to chillax. i would also tell my brother to maybe, take the gf and mom out for dinner, maybe a proper introduction may change her mind.
, and who care what my mom thinks because she soo judgement that she doesn't get along with anyone beside her family. What will you guys do if you were in my shoe?
...there will be a movie out on this one pretty soon! can't wait.
I guess I will finally share one after all 100 pages read, not even done yet.
Well, my BIL knew of a friend who lost his 1 year old due to Luekimia. The mom went into a trance for a long time and didn't want to bury the child. She would hold all his toys and carry it around for the longest time. Well, when they finally did his funeral, the morning my BIL and the dad along with some friends went early to set up, and there was rice all over the funeral home. They went to look into the bucket of rice and there was only about 1/4 of the way of rice left, so the guys decided to dump the rice out of the bin, since there was not much left, but 3 of the guys could not lift it, once they got it lifted and poured the rice out, it kept pouring like the bin was still full.
Once the funeral was over, they did a shaman jingle bell and the baby told the mom that he was very happy that his mom had loved him so much. He said he wanted his little orange toy that his mom keeps carrying around because she missed him. He loves her very much but would like that toy, so they had to burn it for him. He also said the reason he had to leave was because he was never meant to be her son. He came in the form of a baby spirit and waiting to be born in their family, but his real parents were his Dad's older brother and wife. But when he came to be born, his supposed to be parents had just gotten separated and divorced before he was born, so he didn't know where to go, so he went into his mom instead. So after he was born, little angels came back to take him to be reborn to his new proper parents, of which has no relations to their family. He also said, he was mad that they withheld his funeral too long, because he needed to be reborn to his new parents. But they wouldn't do his funeral and tso plis. (Pardon my hmong spelling). So he finally said good by and never came back.
So now I'm thinking just....hmmm.. ..is that why some babies are late and don't come at the time of their due dates? Because they haven't tso plis yet? lol I dunno
