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everyone has their own style or approach when it comes to talking,dating, and committment.

The old school way, yes, Men are encourage to chase, be persistent, and prove his worthiness...l ols But keep in mind, this was when women in general were still angels and would never dare kill a ant...lmao

Today, its very different. It's very fast pace. If one or the other does not show the same matching energy, interest, or effort, it's pretty much onto the next...lols Men today are very sensitive to being call creeps, desperate or simps. Women in general, I notice does not like to be chase either. They will say something, if I like you, you will know. If you still don't know, get ready for a restraining order..lols

J/k I'm just speaking from observations and from other men that tells me about their love life. lols

I have too much pride to chase women. I do agree with most modern men though, if she likes you enough, you won't have to chase her or play her mind games. lols Because if you do chase and chase, and she say yes, one or two things gonna happen when one or both decide to part ways. if he's going to break up he will say, she never liked me anyway. Or if she breaks up, she's going to say, I never liked him anyway, i was just being nice...lols

so I strongly suggest you women out there, do not make him chase you, do not test him. if you don't like him like that, make it clear, if you do like him, make it obvious. It's not about being easy or desperate, its about being mature and civil..lols Only resentment will arise down the road when you decide to play games..
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While in London last weekend because my son was running in the London Marathon, we saw a blind person running in the London marathon. The blind person ran locked elbow with another runner. It goes to show that we all have too many excuses for why we can't while this person found all the reasons why he could.
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https://ashidakim.com/zenkoans

I used many of Ashida Kim's Zen stories in my book.  I asked for permission from Mr. Kim. All the great stories help us to understanding happiness in our life's journey.  For in happiness, we give ourselves to the world and ask for nothing.  In our unhappiness, we take everything from the world and our unhappiness radiates into the world.  One of my favorite that I used was:

Ryonen's Clear Realization

The Buddhist nun known as Ryonen was born in 1797. She was a granddaughter of the famous Japanese warrior Shingen. Her poetical genius and alluring beauty were such that at seventeen she was serving the empress as one of the ladies of the court. Even at such a youthful age fame awaited her.

The beloved empress died suddenly and Ryonen's hopeful dreams vanished. She became acutely aware of the impermanency of life in this world. It was then that she desired to study Zen.

Her relatives disagreed, however, and practically forced her into marriage. With a promise that she might become a nun after she had borne three children, Ryonen assented. Before she was twenty-five she had accomplished this condition. Then her husband and relatives could no longer dissuade her from her desire. She shaved her head, took the name of Ryonen, which means to realize clearly, and started on her pilgrimage.

She came to the city of Edo and asked Tetsugyu to accept her as a disciple. At one glance the master rejected her because she was too beautiful.

Ryonen then went to another master, Hakuo. Hakuo refused her for the same reason, saying that her beauty would only make trouble.

Ryonen obtained a hot iron and placed it against her face. In a few moments her beauty had vanished forever.

Hakuo then accepted her as a disciple.

Commemorating this occasion, Ryonen wrote a poem on the back of a little mirror:

In the service of my Empress I burned incense to perfume my exquisite clothes

Now as a homeless mendicant I burn my face to enter a Zen temple.

When Ryonen was about to pass from this world, she wrote another poem:


Sixty-six times have these eyes beheld the changing scene of autumn

I have said enough about moonlight,

Ask no more.

Only listen to the voice of pines and cedars when no wind stirs.
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C2 corvettes are rare and the split windows are even rarer.  I wouldn't sell either.  Fully restoration C2 brings over $250k at Barret Jackson. 
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I remembered hearing this story last year but don't know why it closed. 
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General Discussion / We Need to Chill
« Last post by Visualmon on Today at 12:52:16 AM »
A good day to make a joke during the protest at the university.

https://www.instagram.com/reel/C6PrTgft3Ht/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

 ;D ;D ;D ;D
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Online Journal / Re: The Not so private Diary of JonniJacco
« Last post by JonniJacko on April 27, 2024, 10:21:47 PM »

You didn't betray me, you betrayed yourself, did you disappoint me, yes, but it was expected- stick to your roots, hold tight to your values- your kind is born, not made- You are now ready- the time has come
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General Relationship / Re: Best relationship advice
« Last post by JonniJacko on April 27, 2024, 10:09:45 PM »
too many relationships today are transactional. no longer mutual and genuinely reciprocal. That my friends, is the root cause of such high divorce rates.....choo se wisely, your happiness and time depends on it..... >:D 8)
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Online Journal / Re: On Va pie's friend me.
« Last post by shadowball on April 27, 2024, 06:10:41 PM »
correct light skin Hmong chinese Woman tones.  Light skin anus tones.
https://youtube.com/shorts/95ZjsSkLmKs?si=6vMz9l2KOaXrynYA
糾正淺膚色。糾正肛門淺膚色。
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Marriage & Family Life / Hnub no tshaj ntuj rig...
« Last post by mind-teaser on April 27, 2024, 02:02:09 PM »
Xyov yog dabtsi deev Tau kuv lub siab thiaj rov tuaj txog zos PebHmong Dua.

Uacas tej qub phoojywg thaum peb Nim hnub tuaj uasi rau thaj chaw no tsis pom neb tag li lawm.

Nej sawvdaw puas tseem noj zoo, nyob zoo li qub thiab? Twb Tau ze li 10 xyoo lawm kuv tsis Tau tuaj zos PebHmong lawm. Hnub no Nim zoo cai zoo nyug es kuv Tau rov tuaj pom thaj chaw dai siab no ib zaug ntxiv.

Nyob zoo nej mog.

Ua Tsaug
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