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Marriage & Family Life / Re: The type of man that will make a good husband

« on: April 30, 2024, 06:15:20 PM »

For sure one that loves, respect, and value you.   Yes marriage is building  a life together but no matter how busy you are building this life (school, work, communities services, your reputation in the community, raising children, etc) do not forget each other, the needs of each others. Sometimes in life, married couple are so busy building everything else at the expense of neglecting their own needs an want.  In the end, you gain everything but loses each other.

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Marriage & Family Life / Re: No one loves you more than your spouse

« on: April 30, 2024, 06:04:53 PM »

That's a lie women are telling themselves, thinking no one outside of their spouse will/can love them.  The world is full of men but I think for women to find that person/love, we need to value ourself, not be like a fish dying without water, a woman dying without the love of a man.  The key to finding love is be yourself, value yourself and a man will value you.  If he does not, he's not the one.  A man who truly values you will find a treasure in you.

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Marriage & Family Life / Re: What should you do if you're the married friend?

« on: April 30, 2024, 05:53:40 PM »

Nothing good will come out from such affair (that's what it'll be).  If you play with fire you will get burn.  I would say if a person is that miserable in the marriage, have the courage to leave and do everyone a favor and yes one door may closes and another open.  Life is full of possibilities but start on the right foundation and love will blooms....a love that you can be proud of, both can be proud of.

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General Discussion / Re: Everything you need to succeed is already there...what you're really asking for

« on: April 24, 2024, 02:20:41 PM »

Everything you need to succeed is within you (2 hands, 2 feet, a brain, and an able body). 

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General Discussion / Re: The NUMBER ONE Cause of Homelessness

« on: April 24, 2024, 02:18:27 PM »

Poor decision making.

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Online Journal / Re: Life's Milestones

« on: April 24, 2024, 02:14:04 PM »

Making a List, Checking It Twice

The Calderas are calling.... and this year I'm listening.  Can't wait.  A few short months away but I need to start packing! Calderas...Cap ri, Amalfi, I'm coming soon!  Can't wait to meet you and stand on your shores. 

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Travel & Vacation Forum / Re: Vietnam Hmong market on a bridge and boat tour

« on: April 11, 2024, 10:07:01 AM »

Hung_Low, what do you think of SAPA?  Did you go to Ha Giang?

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Movies / Re: What is the MOST recent movies you've watched at the Cinemas?

« on: March 28, 2024, 01:18:28 PM »

Last night me,myself,and I watched this:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZaMlUazXvyY&ab_channel=AngelStudios

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General Discussion / So it looks like it'll be BIDEN and Trump for this election

« on: March 22, 2024, 02:49:58 PM »

Biden, he's a little soft and Trump, he's extreme and lack moral conscience...

but it's a coin tossed, I'm thinking.  50/50.

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Food Forum / So I tried Cavier

« on: March 13, 2024, 11:04:03 PM »

and it wasn't that great!  They taste and look like those tapioca pearl.  I bet if you put tapioca pearl and called them cavier people wouldn't know.

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General Relationship / Re: Be careful of...

« on: March 13, 2024, 10:58:42 PM »

Good luck to folks that are looking and may love comes your way.  Relationship these days seem like a headache. 

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Online Journal / Re: Life's Milestones

« on: March 13, 2024, 10:50:11 PM »

A Vacation from a Vacation

Lobsters, plenty of them, sunshine, ocean breeze that smells like the sea, bridges over the ocean, a mile long, and the one road leading to the very tip of the US and beyond are miles and miles of ocean. What a different world and coming home is wonderful.

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Online Journal / Re: Life's Milestones

« on: March 08, 2024, 11:58:22 AM »

So I am in my fifties, got married, raised a family, got my own career, raised my children, and now at this point in my life, it's just me and him again. This next chapter of my life, I want to travel the world.  He's not into travelling as much as I am.

In my dream/fantasy, I'd want us to wake up to the sunrise and sunset of Santorini, Norway, South America, Africa, Bali, Maldives, where ever together.. But that's not to be. I've come to accept that.

However, the world is so big fills with amazing places waiting for me to explore.  My journey has only begun....

Note to self: To many beautiful travels...

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Marriage & Family Life / Re: What Would You Do?

« on: March 08, 2024, 11:32:55 AM »

This is a personal choice for folks. Some people will stay through thick or thin, better or worse (marriage vows) while others will bail out. 
What would I do?  I'm not married to Derek Chauvin so can't say.  But let's say it's my husband, thru thick or thin because I'm all he's got.

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Travel & Vacation Forum / Re: Amalfi or Santorini

« on: February 27, 2024, 01:22:19 PM »

Italy & Greece is calling this year.  I hope to be zipping a glass of ice beverage on the caldera cliff overlooking the ocean by the year's end.....