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Relationship => Marriage & Family Life => Topic started by: Believe_N_Me on September 19, 2022, 08:58:59 AM

Title: You don't realize how physically attractive someone is until...
Post by: Believe_N_Me on September 19, 2022, 08:58:59 AM
...you see them in a room with other people.


Title: Re: You don't realize how physically attractive someone is until...
Post by: Reporter on September 19, 2022, 11:13:03 AM
Especially if they are talking to the opposite sex and you feel like they are whispering words to each other or if you see them smiling endlessly to the other person.
Title: Re: You don't realize how physically attractive someone is until...
Post by: Believe_N_Me on September 19, 2022, 11:13:19 AM
A former co-worker C used to be the IT guy. He quit the company over the summer. We were never close. We only talked on two occasions about work. About a week ago he came to the company with his brother. I was standing at the main door. C came right up to me and started talking like we were old pals.


Title: Re: You don't realize how physically attractive someone is until...
Post by: Believe_N_Me on September 19, 2022, 11:14:35 AM
Especially if they are talking to the opposite sex and you feel like they are whispering words to each other or if you see them smiling endlessly to the other person.

Really? I'm the exact opposite. I've never met people while in public. They always call me after the event. Sadly, I'm not one who will be talking or whispering with the opposite sex in a room full of people.  :-[

The old folks say that the one you like "zoo li phaj ej rau yus". True. I only notice the one I like in a room full of people.
Title: Re: You don't realize how physically attractive someone is until...
Post by: Reporter on September 19, 2022, 12:10:43 PM
Really? I'm the exact opposite. I've never met people while in public. They always call me after the event. Sadly, I'm not one who will be talking or whispering with the opposite sex in a room full of people.  :-[

The old folks say that the one you like "zoo li phaj ej rau yus". True. I only notice the one I like in a room full of people.

I'm talking about jealousy.
Title: Re: You don't realize how physically attractive someone is until...
Post by: Reporter on September 19, 2022, 12:11:32 PM
A former co-worker C used to be the IT guy. He quit the company over the summer. We were never close. We only talked on two occasions about work. About a week ago he came to the company with his brother. I was standing at the main door. C came right up to me and started talking like we were old pals.

Oh. He found you more attractive now? Or was it the other way around? :2funny:
Title: Re: You don't realize how physically attractive someone is until...
Post by: Believe_N_Me on September 19, 2022, 12:34:56 PM
Oh. He found you more attractive now? Or was it the other way around? :2funny:

Tus kuv nyiam, kuv thiaj li pom zoo li phaj ej xwb os.
Title: Re: You don't realize how physically attractive someone is until...
Post by: Believe_N_Me on September 19, 2022, 12:35:13 PM
I'm talking about jealousy.

I see.  :D
Title: Re: You don't realize how physically attractive someone is until...
Post by: Reporter on September 19, 2022, 01:23:01 PM
Tus kuv nyiam, kuv thiaj li pom zoo li phaj ej xwb os.

 O0 O0
Title: Re: You don't realize how physically attractive someone is until...
Post by: Believe_N_Me on September 19, 2022, 02:15:26 PM
O0 O0

Kuv hais qhov tiag xwb nawb.

But that's just me. I don't even notice anybody else if he's not there.
Title: Re: You don't realize how physically attractive someone is until...
Post by: DuMa on September 19, 2022, 02:21:40 PM
Don't do it. 

A gal that got my work energy been passing onto her and I but nothing can come out of it because we worked in the same company.  No office romance is my policy. 

8 months later, I just saw her at work as she came to visit her friends for lunch.  She too came up to me and say hi and such.  She was in street clothing but she still looked the same.  She is no longer an employee but went with the competitors who payed her more than what we could of payed her.  Free game since the "no romance dating" is broken right?  It is not that easy and it is even more complicated.  When she was about to quit, I sent her an email to wish her on her merry ways and included my personal contact info.  She never follow up with it and my informant who lives in her town said she has a new korean guy as a bf now.  She's chinese by the way.  In 9 months, her friend got married, got pregnant and is now carrying another one.  I was about to toy fully ask her when she will compete with her friend.  We ended the conversation without any hugs and she said she still has my email.  I'm like why don't you write me so I can pimp talk her?  I appreciated that she kept the email though.  It is the little things like that which makes a guy think but I'm not pushing anything more out of it because I'm taken.   :2funny:
Title: Re: You don't realize how physically attractive someone is until...
Post by: Believe_N_Me on September 19, 2022, 02:38:16 PM
Don't do it. 

A gal that got my work energy been passing onto her and I but nothing can come out of it because we worked in the same company.  No office romance is my policy. 

8 months later, I just saw her at work as she came to visit her friends for lunch.  She too came up to me and say hi and such.  She was in street clothing but she still looked the same.  She is no longer an employee but went with the competitors who payed her more than what we could of payed her.  Free game since the "no romance dating" is broken right?  It is not that easy and it is even more complicated.  When she was about to quit, I sent her an email to wish her on her merry ways and included my personal contact info.  She never follow up with it and my informant who lives in her town said she has a new korean guy as a bf now.  She's chinese by the way.  In 9 months, her friend got married, got pregnant and is now carrying another one.  I was about to toy fully ask her when she will compete with her friend.  We ended the conversation without any hugs and she said she still has my email.  I'm like why don't you write me so I can pimp talk her?  I appreciated that she kept the email though.  It is the little things like that which makes a guy think but I'm not pushing anything more out of it because I'm taken.   :2funny:

No romance here. I just think it's sweet how people consider each other afterwards when before they barely talked.
Title: Re: You don't realize how physically attractive someone is until...
Post by: DuMa on September 19, 2022, 03:02:11 PM
No romance here. I just think it's sweet how people consider each other afterwards when before they barely talked.

No romance? 

well this story smells like fruity and with that, I"m out  :2funny:
Title: Re: You don't realize how physically attractive someone is until...
Post by: Believe_N_Me on September 19, 2022, 03:09:40 PM
No romance? 

well this story smells like fruity and with that, I"m out  :2funny:

You, romance? Don't you mean sex?

Title: Re: You don't realize how physically attractive someone is until...
Post by: DuMa on September 19, 2022, 03:38:27 PM
You, romance? Don't you mean sex?

I do romance. 

Want to know the latest romance that I did just over the weekend? 

We could not book a room in reno.  We drove 3 hours to get there, had fun, watched tim allen's gig and drove home really early in the morning.  I was dead tired driving redeye.  We got home and I conned her to come stay with me.  I took the futon from the house and put it in the garage.  I have a TV in there and a mini fridge and other stuff as a man cave.  Dropped the futon down and we both slept on it. 

NO SEX  :2funny:

Want to know what kind of savage she is?   I took a bucket, put trash can bag into it and she peed into it.  Looks like the bathroom in the house is too far away.   :D
Title: Re: You don't realize how physically attractive someone is until...
Post by: Believe_N_Me on September 19, 2022, 09:00:49 PM
If a gal can pee in a bucket in front of a man and he doesn't run away, I guess that makes him a keeper.

  ;D
Title: Re: You don't realize how physically attractive someone is until...
Post by: Believe_N_Me on September 19, 2022, 09:03:02 PM
We'll see when I accompany him on a hunting trip. If he's willing to accompany me at night while I do my thing behind a tree then we'll know it's meant to be.  ;D

Title: Re: You don't realize how physically attractive someone is until...
Post by: Reporter on September 19, 2022, 09:08:23 PM
Peeing in the woods is so sexy. Chicks that did that back in Laos in front of guys all got pregnant.
Title: Re: You don't realize how physically attractive someone is until...
Post by: Believe_N_Me on September 19, 2022, 09:11:12 PM
Peeing in the woods is so sexy. Chicks that did that back in Laos in front of guys all got pregnant.

Are you sure the chicks didn't cross over the guys' pee and got pregnant that way?  ;D


Title: Re: You don't realize how physically attractive someone is until...
Post by: Reporter on September 19, 2022, 09:42:17 PM
Are you sure the chicks didn't cross over the guys' pee and got pregnant that way?  ;D

We know that they had that thought in their minds and hearts but they weren't brave enough to force. So, I'm sure
it was mostly the guys who crossed over the chicks' pee. Steaming Bell almost did that in front of my eyes on Morning Fog.