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You weren't the only one who was a latchkey kid. Lots of kids stayed home alone.

I don't know why you're so triggered by my daycare post. It's not rocket science that daycare is a last resort for a parent who really needs it because they have no other choice. But for those who can plan in advance not to take that route, then they should by all means do so.  ::)

General Relationship / Re: Walk away quietly OR get even?
« on: Today at 08:41:44 PM »
She shouldn't seek to get even but she should confront him. All my life my parents have always taught me to take the high road. However, that has also created other stress. Confronting him about his wrongdoing will give her closure.

The light will always reveal those who operate in the dark.

General Relationship / Walk away quietly OR get even?
« on: Today at 05:02:26 PM »
I'm not a close friend to this person but we hang out in the same circle of friends. So a little over a year ago she began dating this guy who was long distance. According to her, he pursued her and basically called her everyday. However, he ghosted her about a month ago and needless to say she was devastated and still is. Since the Hmong are a tight-knit community, it turns out that he is still living with a girlfriend (whom he's been with for 8 years). The reason she found out was through 2 church members. The person I'm talking about doesn't go to the church though. Anyways...

One of the church member is a half sister to the girlfriend. Apparently, the girlfriend's father had multiple wives.
The second church member's late husband is related to the girlfriend's older brother-in-law (same clan).

They were saying that this guy is a player but the sister is too stubborn so they can't help her situation improve. Anyways, he takes advantage of vulnerable divorcees (he is also divorced) by acting like he wants to marry them. In the beginning he did all these great things. Love bombed her, helped around her house, always invited her to keep him company at events, came around her kids a lot, etc. Then after she moved him in they started having a lot of issues and he would tell everybody that he was a single dude. For some reason she won't kick him out and pays for all the bills even though he talks to other women and won't marry her. In addition, this guy has a lot of debt and legal problems. They think that's why he keeps living there even though he tells everyone that he won't marry her.

In a nutshell, he used both women. He keeps the first girlfriend to provide stability. The second girlfriend was just to distract him from all his problems.

So the long distance girlfriend is going to dump him, but she is mad as hell that he deceived her. She has a bunch of stuff that could humiliate him. We're talking Albert Xiong level.  >:D But should she?  ???

IMHO, those who ghost are narcissists and it's unlikely that they can find happiness with anybody. I don't know if one needs to publish scandalous photos of them to the public. Karma always find them. But I can see why she is really upset. But boy, this could be really juicy drama for the Hmong communities across the world to talk about.  :2funny:

Happens all the time. When you ask a Leftie/Demmie propaganda pusher to state evidence and facts why they hate Trump or any non-Leftie/Demmie sheep... they just go silent.  :2funny: :2funny: :2funny:

The look on their faces... especially Whoopi and Sunni (queen of race monger) priceless. He shut them all up with one simple question...  :2funny: :2funny: :2funny:

You can google for hundreds of Leftie/Demmie walking away or starts screaming when confronted with questions for proof, facts, evidence, etc etc.

I would love to be a guest on "The View" and troll them. I'll agree with everything they say and support my agreement based on no evidence and only feelings.  :2funny:

Me on the show:

Yes, Whoopi! I agree with you. Donald Trump will put us in camps. Although I haven't seen any action from him or policies heading that way, my intuition tells me so. He is an unpredictable man so it will most likely happen. I feel so strongly about it, so how can I deny my feelings? These feelings didn't come from nowhere other than being in my head 24/7. I think about it a lot.

Sunny, you're right about racism. When I see white people I feel very discriminated against. Looking at white people reminds me of how much I am not a white person. I don't like that feeling. I don't like feeling how much I don't look like white people. If white people did not exist then there would be no white people for me to look at and then I wouldn't feel this way. In fact, get rid of mirrors and windows. I don't want to see my reflection because it reminds me that I am not a white person. Mirrors and windows are racist.
Children should be allowed to make their own decisions about gender reassignment surgery. This kind of surgery is less risky than getting your tonsils out so I don't see what the problem is. Right now, the procedures are too new to back up that claim but I just feel I'm right because how can it be wrong when love trumps hate. Some say that children are guinea pigs for these procedures but I say it's worth it. YOLO, after all. We'll deal with it down the road when these surgeries result in health complications. I feel it's pointless to bring that up when children are going to feel so good about the anticipation of having the surgery. The present feels good. We can't foresee whether or not we'll feel good about it in the future so we shouldn't spend energy thinking about it. Focus on how we currently feel and the anticipation. The anticipation is the most important reason. This reminds me of the time I gave a broken toy to my niece for Christmas. Although she was really upset and started crying when she saw that the toy was used, had missing pieces, and didn't work, but you know what? It made me feel so joyous to see her so excited those weeks leading up to Christmas. The anticipation she had really made it all worth it. I don't think she would've been as excited to celebrate Christmas if she wasn't expecting something else.

I'm so thankful for the invitation to this show "The View". What a great idea to have all people who think exactly alike to be able to express that in the public arena. Freedom of speech to me is when a country's government chooses one way to think and then makes sure that that one view is promoted and encouraged through all avenues. Isn't it great that we can have this same view promoted through so many outlets like Hollywood, education, big box retail store slogans, and now the churches? Poor communist countries do not have as many outlets. They do not have freedom of speech because they can only message through posters.

It was one of the newer Genghis khan movie about 10 years ago where there was a scene where his pap took him to a village to choose a girl to marry when they are of age. Or wait, I think it was right there and then. Lol

I saw that movie. Genghis said he did not trust women with big eyes.

hmmm...maybe in the Genghis Khan days, where Mongol boys were taken to a village and choose their future wife from a group of young girls. haha

But I will need to think hard about this

Which one is that?  ???

hmgRock is why public education has failed the students.

Separation of church and state is to prevent the government from controlling the religious and spiritual lives of Americans. It also prevented the government from forcing Americans to convert to a religion. However, a nation's government will reflect the spiritual beliefs of the people who live there.

Marriage & Family Life / Re: What Would You Do?
« on: February 23, 2024, 09:07:47 AM »
There is evidence that Floyd's death was not caused by Chauvin, but due to the political controversy it was ignored. Chauvin's sentencing was political.

General Relationship / Re: More Tarot Card Readings
« on: February 22, 2024, 08:24:06 PM »
if tarot was talking about me, tarot is gaslighting you. I only bring blessings. Ask anyone who knows me. LOL

You're not the 3rd party blocking my blessings. I know that for sure.  :)

Food Forum / Re: my new again born again favorite soda
« on: February 22, 2024, 08:03:11 PM »
You should make banh xeo with it.  O0

Whow. what a bad friend you are, I would had put her on the spot right there and then. LOL, yeah, that sucks.

Maybe it's a family thing where she and her brother touch each other's hands while eating Pho at an out-of-the-way Vietnamese restaurant, okay?  ::) :D

General Relationship / Re: More Tarot Card Readings
« on: February 22, 2024, 04:00:29 PM »
Tarot says that a 3rd party is messing with my blessings.

General Discussion / Re: Asian girl is getting kicked hard by Trump
« on: February 22, 2024, 02:54:51 PM »
RINOS are no different than granola liberals. They're two sides to the same coin.

Granola liberals are those who want safety in their communities, BUT criminals can't be arrested or punished. Victims should practice healing by holding a candlelight vigil and balloon release.  :2funny:

General Discussion / Re: Asian girl is getting kicked hard by Trump
« on: February 22, 2024, 02:52:57 PM »
Nikki Haley and Paul Ryan are the exact reasons why we hated Republicans to begin with.

They remind me of weak Hmong leaders who love to go around saying "Hmoob yuav tsum hlub Hmoob". And that is mainly because they know it will win them support and keep them in leadership positions. But when the fight gets hard - where the Hmong has a sure win, and rightly so - they suddenly pull back and claim, "we should be forgiving and show them that we're better people."  ::)

Reminds me of Quentin Tarantino's movie, "Django Unchained". Tarantino said that he was tired of watching movies where the freed slave is given an opportunity to deliver justified justice to his white captors, but in the end lets them off the hook. Tarantino wanted to make a movie that portrayed real justice. Because if you think the enemy is going to suddenly show you mercy, then you're about to be heavily disappointed.

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