Truth is few people know how to keep peace.
That's because peace requires not just words to pain;
it requires actions, too.
We don't know what we do or say that will give someone peace.
So, they fight back.
Real, genuine, healthy love is actually very boring because it's too peaceful. Most people think that love has to be stimulating all the time or else it is not love. Therefore, they are compelled to incite drama. Too many people have fallen for what they see in movies or read in books, many of which do not reflect what real love looks or feels like.
When there is real love, you will always feel secure and comfortable about the connection. You can go for long periods of time being apart. Having space and a healthy dose of independence is actually encouraged. It means that the bond and trust is very strong. There is no anxiety that you're going to lose them.
I post a lot of threads about relationships but many of that stuff coming from relationship coaches are unsustainable.
Real love should not create a state of euphoria 24/7. That's an addiction (unhealthy attachment).
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