those are just the white mens problem for white folks
i don’t remember a hmong divorcing over “not respecting my space”.

hahaha
Exactly. If you want space and independence then don't get married. In fact, don't be in a relationship at all. If you feel horny, pay a sex worker. If you feel sad and need someone to talk to, pay a therapist. If you want someone to hang out with, join a club. If you want someone to accompany you to an event, pay an escort.
Stop misleading someone else to believe that you want a partnership with them.
And by chance if you've already conned someone into a relationship and now you want out, have the decency to have the talk with them instead of:
cheat, pull back, stonewall, breadcrumb, or ghost