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Relationship => The Single & Dating Scenes => Topic started by: lilly on April 20, 2020, 04:49:34 PM

Title: How do you know when you've found your soulmate?
Post by: lilly on April 20, 2020, 04:49:34 PM
Share your thoughts on how a person can tell when they've found their soulmate.
Title: Re: How do you know when you've found your soulmate?
Post by: lilly on April 20, 2020, 04:53:16 PM
Here is my list:  (Share yours.)

1. You can fart in front of each other.
2. You can pee in front of each other.
3. You don't seem to get tired of kissing each other.
4. You enjoy being together.
5. You don't fight often and, if you do, you know how to communicate and work through your fights/disagreements/differences.
6. You have respect for each other.
7. You have the same interests/values/goals/hopes/dreams.
9. You have the same views and beliefs.
10. You both want each other for the long-run.
Title: Re: How do you know when you've found your soulmate?
Post by: ProudLao on April 20, 2020, 05:51:35 PM
I farted on her mask a few times so that’s gotta be a lot of love lol ;D
Title: Re: How do you know when you've found your soulmate?
Post by: lilly on April 20, 2020, 06:21:51 PM
I farted on her mask a few times so that’s gotta be a lot of love lol ;D

No, that's not love!  ;D  That's just wrong!  Hahaha!  Love is when you fart "away" from her and "away" from her prized possessions (you know how valuable masks are these days, right?!).  LOL!  ;D  Unless... does she think your farts are cute?  Because if she does, then yeah, that's love. :D

I think it's super cute when M farts. His farts are super cute. They are the best.  They are delicious.  They turn me on.  I may or may not be lying.  :P ;D ;D ;D
Title: Re: How do you know when you've found your soulmate?
Post by: hmgROCK on April 20, 2020, 06:49:41 PM
Only fart???

Damn weak sauce
Try pooping and doing makeup in the bathroom at the same time

Thats true love
Title: Re: How do you know when you've found your soulmate?
Post by: ProudLao on April 20, 2020, 07:57:11 PM
No, that's not love!  ;D  That's just wrong!  Hahaha!  Love is when you fart "away" from her and "away" from her prized possessions (you know how valuable masks are these days, right?!).  LOL!  ;D  Unless... does she think your farts are cute?  Because if she does, then yeah, that's love. :D

I think it's super cute when M farts. His farts are super cute. They are the best.  They are delicious.  They turn me on.  I may or may not be lying.  :P ;D ;D ;D

LMAO

Too funny
Title: Re: How do you know when you've found your soulmate?
Post by: tRouBLe on April 20, 2020, 09:05:38 PM
Here is my list:  (Share yours.)

1. You can fart in front of each other. heck no!
2. You can pee in front of each other. another no-no
3. You don't seem to get tired of kissing each other. only if he’s kissing my ***
4. You enjoy being together. enjoy being together separately
5. You don't fight often and, if you do, you know how to communicate and work through your fights/disagreements/differences. if he waves the white flag first
6. You have respect for each other. respect each other at a distance
7. You have the same interests/values/goals/hopes/dreams. have the same as mine
9. You have the same views and beliefs. same views of my beliefs
10. You both want each other for the long-run. wanting each other should be good enough. No need to give a timeline.  ;D

But seriously, I do agree with everything EXCEPT the first two.  Those are “no, no’s” for me.....along with burping and going number 2 in front of each other.  I don’t even want him picking his teeth in front of me.   ;D
Title: Re: How do you know when you've found your soulmate?
Post by: theking on April 20, 2020, 09:49:43 PM
Share your thoughts on how a person can tell when they've found their soulmate.

When your love for each other continues to grow...We've been together for what about 15 years now and our love for each other have grown exponentially and still continues to get stronger and stronger.  O0
Title: Re: How do you know when you've found your soulmate?
Post by: lilly on April 21, 2020, 10:17:55 PM
But seriously, I do agree with everything EXCEPT the first two.  Those are “no, no’s” for me.....along with burping and going number 2 in front of each other.  I don’t even want him picking his teeth in front of me.   ;D

What?!  The first two are the best indicators of true love.  Duh!  And burping!  And going #2 in front of each other.  At that point, it's like they are a clone of you.  Your soulmate.  But picking his teeth in front of me, yeah, that's where I draw the line.  Gross!  :P :2funny:
Title: Re: How do you know when you've found your soulmate?
Post by: theking on April 22, 2020, 12:51:05 PM
Here's another one, she can step on scale to see how much she weighs as if you're not there and don't mind showing/telling you what she weighs... ;D
Title: Re: How do you know when you've found your soulmate?
Post by: Mr_Mechanic on May 13, 2020, 08:14:49 AM
we are doom.
Title: Re: How do you know when you've found your soulmate?
Post by: darkhelmet on May 13, 2020, 08:32:19 AM
Here is my list:  (Share yours.)


This sounds like a dream list, not a practical one.   You must be new or watch a lot of Korean drama.
Title: Re: How do you know when you've found your soulmate?
Post by: lilly on May 14, 2020, 05:31:47 PM

This sounds like a dream list, not a practical one.   You must be new or watch a lot of Korean drama.

OK, what's on the practical list then? 

(And no, I don't watch any Korean drama or Thai drama.  I usually prefer 1-2 hr long movies only.  And if it's a series, I enjoy Westworld and Ozark and Into The Badlands.  I loved The Office too.  The romance between Pam and Jim in The Office was *fingers to and from mouth while simultaneously saying MUAH* delicious!)
Title: Re: How do you know when you've found your soulmate?
Post by: Reporter on May 14, 2020, 06:14:16 PM
Sounds like you people don't know what good love is.
Title: Re: How do you know when you've found your soulmate?
Post by: lilly on May 14, 2020, 06:26:07 PM
Sounds like you people don't know what good love is.

What is good love?  Please do share with us.   :)
Title: Re: How do you know when you've found your soulmate?
Post by: Reporter on May 14, 2020, 06:40:29 PM
For sure, it's not to fart to each other and the icky likes.

What is good love?  Please do share with us.   :)
Title: Re: How do you know when you've found your soulmate?
Post by: lilly on May 14, 2020, 06:55:49 PM
For sure, it's not to fart to each other and the icky likes.

What the!  That's still no help.  So vague!  Elaborate please!   :P :D ;D
Title: Re: How do you know when you've found your soulmate?
Post by: DuMa on May 14, 2020, 07:20:12 PM
There are billions of people on this planet and we are only allowed to be with just 1?  that is impossible to grasp

although the law of this land allows us to marry just one but when it comes to dating, we can date plenty.  Nothing illegal here

Soulmate is not something I'm looking for in a trait.  You have your list of 10 of what you want and he too will have his list of 10 and guess what?  You are not on it. 

So while you keep the positivity to look for this soulmate or a comparable partner, the one for you will miss you by a mile cuz if you don't stop walking while looking, he will never catches up to you.

So my idea is to stop looking for a soulmate.  It will come to you by accident and before you know it, you are stuck with one another like you are made for each other. 
Title: Re: How do you know when you've found your soulmate?
Post by: lilly on May 14, 2020, 07:50:13 PM
There are billions of people on this planet and we are only allowed to be with just 1?  that is impossible to grasp

although the law of this land allows us to marry just one but when it comes to dating, we can date plenty.  Nothing illegal here

Soulmate is not something I'm looking for in a trait.  You have your list of 10 of what you want and he too will have his list of 10 and guess what?  You are not on it. 

So while you keep the positivity to look for this soulmate or a comparable partner, the one for you will miss you by a mile cuz if you don't stop walking while looking, he will never catches up to you.

So my idea is to stop looking for a soulmate.  It will come to you by accident and before you know it, you are stuck with one another like you are made for each other.

F!  For once, I agree with everythang you just wrote.  Good job, Duma!

Yeah, I don't believe that we only have one soulmate.  We can be with many people... many people are meant for us... most of us just haven't met those people that are our matches yet... it's a nice set up when we are lucky enough to meet one of those people... because that means that they meet what we have on our "must have" or "desired" list and we also meet what they have on their lists... we match well with each other... we communicate well, compromise well, like the way each other smells, looks, thinks, etc... when everything aligns... then it's a good match... and you don't want to mess with that... because the chances of you finding another great match is HARD to come by...  plus, time is not on our side because we are mortal beings... so when we find ONE of the people that matches well with us... we best hold on that person.
Title: Re: How do you know when you've found your soulmate?
Post by: Reporter on May 14, 2020, 09:56:10 PM
There's a White guy who got married to a White woman and had 3 kids with her. He then discovered his soulmate was another man. He turned gay and divorced the woman he had kids with and started having sex with the other guy. He said he'd marry the man. I haven't followed up on his story.

But what is a soulmate? The person you have married and have kids with or just a sexual partner?

I'm more inclined to think the woman wife is more of his soulmate...
Title: Re: How do you know when you've found your soulmate?
Post by: Visualmon on May 21, 2020, 06:22:11 AM
If I could compress all ten lists altogether into one simplest soul GPS I would say she gotta be addicted to sex. heh heh heh
Title: Re: How do you know when you've found your soulmate?
Post by: VillainousHero on June 16, 2020, 10:05:18 AM
I need to find my teammate in life first... O0