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General Category => General Discussion => Topic started by: YAX on February 01, 2018, 10:47:04 AM
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With the weather in the area being so cold, he wouldn't survive outside one night.
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I teach my kids never to talk to strangers no matter how nice that person may seem to be. Never go out of sight of people if you don't have to and stay on the clearest path with plenty of room to run and make a scene.
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No details/backgrounds so I guess he might be puffing a few joints somewhere with friends?. I have seen a few in the past that have gone MIA for months at a time.
This kid looks a little innocent to be doing that though :police:
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he's 18, mus ua laib lerz...pojLaib, that is. :D ;D
when i was his age, poocee took me out for a few days, even weeks and there was no worries.
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he's 18, mus ua laib lerz...pojLaib, that is. :D ;D
when i was his age, poocee took me out for a few days, even weeks and there was no worries.
lol... i kind of have to agree with you on this one... lmao!
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Maybe they might just have to check his friend's closet like the other kid.
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With the weather in the area being so cold, he wouldn't survive outside one night.
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I bet he WOULD survive outside "one night" given his age and the gears he's wearing like his "gray north face coat"...and considering the average temp was is 22 F degree...at that time...in regards to "cold"...
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I would refrain from making comments that are inappropriate.
His parents were the ones that were murdered by Dan Popp back in 2016. The trial just came to a close within the past few weeks but his parents are never coming back. Who knows what an emotional state he is in right now but wherever he is we hope he comes back home safe.
http://fox6now.com/2018/02/01/really-concerned-son-of-hmong-couple-murdered-by-dan-popp-missing-for-nearly-4-days/ (http://fox6now.com/2018/02/01/really-concerned-son-of-hmong-couple-murdered-by-dan-popp-missing-for-nearly-4-days/)
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I would refrain from making comments that are inappropriate. His parents were the ones that were killed by Dan Popp. The trial just came to a close within the past few weeks but his parents are never coming back. Who knows what an emotional state he is in tight now. Wherever he is, we hope he comes back home safe.
http://fox6now.com/2018/02/01/really-concerned-son-of-hmong-couple-murdered-by-dan-popp-missing-for-nearly-4-days/ (http://fox6now.com/2018/02/01/really-concerned-son-of-hmong-couple-murdered-by-dan-popp-missing-for-nearly-4-days/)
Wow. There's a twist. You think this could be related to the case?
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Wow. There's a twist. You think this could be related to the case?
Let's look at it potentially through his eyes.
Imagine you're 15-16 years old doing teenage things like homework, gaming, etc. You're minding your business at home when you hear gun shots ring out. Then, you hear your door kicked down. You see the perp kill your parents in front of you and you don't know if you'll live. Will your entire family live? What's going to happen next?
You survive with some family members. The perp gets arrested but you lose your parents. Somewhere in the back of your head, you're probably asking yourself why this all happened? Was it your fault? What happens next? How do I move on from this experience?
Obviously, we're not in that situation and we can think about it rationally. However, when something like that were to happen to us at that moment or any moment; losing our loved ones, would that experience not traumatize us too?
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Let's look at it potentially through his eyes.
Imagine you're 15-16 years old doing teenage things like homework, gaming, etc. You're minding your business at home when you hear gun shots ring out. Then, you hear your door kicked down. You see the perp kill your parents in front of you and you don't know if you'll live. Will your entire family live? What's going to happen next?
You survive with some family members. The perp gets arrested but you lose your parents. Somewhere in the back of your head, you're probably asking yourself why this all happened? Was it your fault? What happens next? How do I move on from this experience?
Obviously, we're not in that situation and we can think about it rationally. However, when something like that were to happen to us at that moment or any moment; losing our loved ones, would that experience not traumatize us too?
it is a huge burden to put on a youngster, however, he is 18. considered a young adult, any troubles he goes through or causes will be on his own and must take responsibility . not sure if he is the oldest, but he must understand that the huge responsibility and role of taking care of the family has been passed on to him (without a choice). he cannot go missing, do foolish things and he must represent head of household, his siblings are dependent on it.
speaking for myself, when i was 16, i was responsible enough to drive, work (make my own income), be somewhat independent, i didn't have or need guidance. i may not have lost my parents, but at 17, i've seen death in front of my eyes (best friends shot and killed). the trauma is indescribable, but it hardens the heart. take the lesson and learn from it..be smart, be wise, and consider oneself to be lucky. at 18 i had a place of my own (and yes, i had the responsibility of taking care of my family, friends and runaway girls).
i'm holding him to my standards, may be even higher cause he has no choice.
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it is a huge burden to put on a youngster, however, he is 18. considered a young adult, any troubles he goes through or causes will be on his own and must take responsibility . not sure if he is the oldest, but he must understand that the huge responsibility and role of taking care of the family has been passed on to him (without a choice). he cannot go missing, do foolish things and he must represent head of household, his siblings are dependent on it.
speaking for myself, when i was 16, i was responsible enough to drive, work (make my own income), be somewhat independent, i didn't have or need guidance. i may not have lost my parents, but at 17, i've seen death in front of my eyes (best friends shot and killed). the trauma is indescribable, but it hardens the heart. take the lesson and learn from it..be smart, be wise, and consider oneself to be lucky. at 18 i had a place of my own (and yes, i had the responsibility of taking care of my family, friends and runaway girls).
i'm holding him to my standards, may be even higher cause he has no choice.
ah.. so, as a teen, you were thugging it eh. Gonna be hard to take the ghetto outta you bro.
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ah.. so, as a teen, you were thugging it eh. Gonna be hard to take the ghetto outta you bro.
that was the time of our lives! live hard, play hard and ua pojlaib!
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it is a huge burden to put on a youngster, however, he is 18. considered a young adult, any troubles he goes through or causes will be on his own and must take responsibility . not sure if he is the oldest, but he must understand that the huge responsibility and role of taking care of the family has been passed on to him (without a choice). he cannot go missing, do foolish things and he must represent head of household, his siblings are dependent on it.
speaking for myself, when i was 16, i was responsible enough to drive, work (make my own income), be somewhat independent, i didn't have or need guidance. i may not have lost my parents, but at 17, i've seen death in front of my eyes (best friends shot and killed). the trauma is indescribable, but it hardens the heart. take the lesson and learn from it..be smart, be wise, and consider oneself to be lucky. at 18 i had a place of my own (and yes, i had the responsibility of taking care of my family, friends and runaway girls).
i'm holding him to my standards, may be even higher cause he has no choice.
Your point taken. Not all 18 year olds are really 18 years old. Age-wise, yes they are, but mentally and emotionally perhaps not. We all grieve differently and for some the healing process takes longer than others; especially in a situation as his.
I remember when I was 18, I wasn't ready to adult; been a bookworm my whole life up to that point. Book smart, I was but certainly was not street smart; still had a lot of growing up to do. College kicked my butt with the real world. If it wasn't for that reality check, I would have never completed my degrees.
Regardless, this topic isn't about us but is about him. Let's hope he comes back home safely. After all, he's someone's brother, son, cousin, etc. And when he gets back home, he's put in a position where he can learn from this and gets the help he needs to succeed.
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that was the time of our lives! live hard, play hard and ua pojlaib!
All that to being trumps biitch now...but then again you enjoy swallowing every drop of your master trumps semen anyways as you two share intimate "proud" moments of your lies and fakes as he plugged you tightly in the "ares"...while you two are sleeping together "naked"...;D
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All that to being trumps biitch now...but then again you enjoy swallowing every drop of your master trumps semen anyways as you two share intimate "proud" moments of your lies and fakes as he plugged you tightly in the "ares"...while you two are sleeping together "naked"...;D
They say...one can tell if they've been phucked so good, they can't seem to make comprehension of other subjects, they keep saying the same old things. sorry, i hurt yo'butt this morning with your thread to Yax...did you have a hard time sitting? took you all day to get back.
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They say...one can tell if they've been phucked so good, they can't seem to make comprehension of other subjects, they keep saying the same old things. sorry, i hurt yo'butt this morning with your thread to Yax...did you have a hard time sitting? took you all day to get back.
"say" the Trump disciple that proudly claimed his lies and fakes are "new"... but can't "comprehend" that it's the "same old things"...
Did you say your master Trump "hurt yo'butt this morning? I doubt it given how much you enjoy swallowing every drop of his semen while you two share intimate "proud" moments of your lies and fakes and blamed women for getting raped as he plugged you tightly in the "ares"...all "naked" up...;D
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Age doesn't indicate maturity. Just because he's 18 doesn't mean he's automatically equipped with all the tools to handle life. And I think you're being unfair to hold him to your standards. As you said, you didn't lose your parents at a young age, so how can you even compare the grief and issues that come with that kind of tragedy?
Speaking on a more general level, I think empathy and compassion is our greatest ally at the moment, and that's what this kid deserves. How would it feel to lose your parents on the same day in such a shocking and blatant show of hatred? The grief, pain, anger, and horrible injustice of it all? I can't even imagine.
So let's show kindness instead of judgment and hope that he's found or comes home. Like his guardian said, if he needs time alone that's understandable . But just let his family know that he's safe and alive.
Do you see me being mature, at all? I still play theking like a fool...lol
Anyways, you are right with respect to being compassionate and hoping for the best. I understand it may sound unfair holding him to a higher standard but in comparison of him to me...i had it 10x harder, he’s only suffered one tragedy and with very little adversity...i was raised by a single mom, flight through the jungles after the war, raised in the ghettos, lived in the most descrimitive era for the hmong’s ( he’s only knows of dan popp, i know of many more racist people who would not hesitate to killed us if given the opportunity ), i was filling out welfare applications for family and relatives at age 10, worked and bought my own car with little assistance, lost a very special friend Virginity, witnessed death, and became independent at 18. I hope this young man stops being foolish and learns to appreciate the assistance of his guardians, he needs to know that going forth he is responsible for his own actions and knows that his siblings are counting on him. Where is PHa, when you need him?
When our baby (yes, me and you) turns 18, he’s getting kicked out! He’s got to man up! 😁😁😂
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This is a very sad case, people! His parents are the Hmong couple killed by a mental American man last year in Milwaukee. Hope he is found safely.....
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He's found. He has been safe all along. He just didn't tell people where he was until last week.
This is a very sad case, people! His parents are the Hmong couple killed by a mental American man last year in Milwaukee. Hope he is found safely.....
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No way, I'm keeping my baby with me until he's an old man. ;D
::) ::) Oh My Lady GAGA, aw! the plan is for him to move out, he go buy a luxurious home and we move in with him! :P
anyways, glad young man is found safe and sound.