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General Relationship / Re: You'll have your dream guy when you look for these things:
« Last post by JonniJacko on Today at 09:43:30 PM »everyone has their own style or approach when it comes to talking,dating, and committment.
The old school way, yes, Men are encourage to chase, be persistent, and prove his worthiness...l ols But keep in mind, this was when women in general were still angels and would never dare kill a ant...lmao
Today, its very different. It's very fast pace. If one or the other does not show the same matching energy, interest, or effort, it's pretty much onto the next...lols Men today are very sensitive to being call creeps, desperate or simps. They also prefer women who can be straight up and upfront, if she don't like him like that, he can take it and would appreciate her honesty. Men don't like mind games, being tested. Some men will play along, some, the minute you play mind games, test his masculinity, is the last time you hear from him..There's plenty of women, he knows that will like him enough to not test him, or make him chase her. She will match his efforts or show of interest...lol s
There's just as many bad women out there as bad men. lols It's a two way street, and both will have to agree to meet somewhere neutral first, let a trusted friend know about the situation, in case, shit hits the fans and bullets start flying, then...they know where to find you..hell, maybe both party needs a friend to come along for that first meeting...lols but two people need time to get to know each other, introduced to friends, and demonstrate both have good intentions, whether they both want to take it to the next level or not and still respect one another...what ever the outcome may be. Mature people can take rejections like champs.
To men, it's not about being the leader anymore, Men today treat women as equals. They want someone that will work together with them, lead and make decisions together with them. They too want a partner who has feminine confidence...l ols
this is the only way to go about it, as safely and as respectfully these days.....
The old school way, yes, Men are encourage to chase, be persistent, and prove his worthiness...l ols But keep in mind, this was when women in general were still angels and would never dare kill a ant...lmao
Today, its very different. It's very fast pace. If one or the other does not show the same matching energy, interest, or effort, it's pretty much onto the next...lols Men today are very sensitive to being call creeps, desperate or simps. They also prefer women who can be straight up and upfront, if she don't like him like that, he can take it and would appreciate her honesty. Men don't like mind games, being tested. Some men will play along, some, the minute you play mind games, test his masculinity, is the last time you hear from him..There's plenty of women, he knows that will like him enough to not test him, or make him chase her. She will match his efforts or show of interest...lol s
There's just as many bad women out there as bad men. lols It's a two way street, and both will have to agree to meet somewhere neutral first, let a trusted friend know about the situation, in case, shit hits the fans and bullets start flying, then...they know where to find you..hell, maybe both party needs a friend to come along for that first meeting...lols but two people need time to get to know each other, introduced to friends, and demonstrate both have good intentions, whether they both want to take it to the next level or not and still respect one another...what ever the outcome may be. Mature people can take rejections like champs.
To men, it's not about being the leader anymore, Men today treat women as equals. They want someone that will work together with them, lead and make decisions together with them. They too want a partner who has feminine confidence...l ols
this is the only way to go about it, as safely and as respectfully these days.....
