I don't like it. I wish you can say what you need to say to the person who needs to hear it. It would lessen the hurt. I don't understand the people who say they don't need to let the other person know....I believe our hearts need it, even if our pride is defiant. My bestest.
There's a reason why it's called "return mail." The person your letter is meant for is no longer there.
Perhaps I should add, "No forwarding address" to my title.
To try and reconnect just to say your piece is rather selfish in my opinion. After all, what would it accomplish except to make yourself feel better? Life has moved on, and if you are in a good place in your life, there is no need to rehash past hurts in the present.
These are just random thoughts of past acquaintances and friends who are no longer in my life. I don't believe I am dwelling on them, since I don't think of them on a daily, weekly, or monthly basis. Thank you though, for your best wishes anyways.