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Marriage & Family Life / Re: What should you do if you're the married friend?

« on: Today at 08:51:17 AM »

Karma always get them.

People who do this do not go on to find peace. They will keep repeating the pattern with unsuspecting victims. That's why it's so important to always pay attention to their relationship history.

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Marriage & Family Life / Re: Do you need to know everything about your spouse?

« on: April 30, 2024, 04:38:33 PM »

Didn't there used to be a Mr. Perfect username?

Anyways, some people are more shady than others. It will be very hard to trust them.

For example, I know a person who does a lot of stupid things that upset me but I don't feel betrayed. The lack of trust I have is because of his incompetency.

There is another person who is competent and to my knowledge has not done the foolish things like the other person. However, I don't emotionally trust him because he is manipulative. His stories never add up and I felt things were off. I've come to learn that he isn't a person of integrity and screws over a lot of people including those who are closest to him.   

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Marriage & Family Life / Re: Hnub no tshaj ntuj rig...

« on: April 30, 2024, 04:25:36 PM »

Lawv ib txhia mus nyob tom tsev laj cuj lawm na.

That's why koj thiaj li tsis pom lawv lawm los. 

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General Relationship / Re: A man who wants stability always know what he's looking for...

« on: April 30, 2024, 03:38:29 PM »

Oh, I see. Yes, letting a woman know that she can emotionally trust you is a good thing.

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General Relationship / Re: BNM…. you think the single hmong divorce mother DEEDA THAO will find another hus

« on: April 30, 2024, 03:35:34 PM »

Who is Deeda Thao? Is she the singer?

For every single mother there is a single father.

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General Relationship / Re: Best relationship advice

« on: April 29, 2024, 09:14:13 PM »

too many relationships today are transactional. no longer mutual and genuinely reciprocal. That my friends, is the root cause of such high divorce rates.....choo se wisely, your happiness and time depends on it.....

I think they call it "codependency". Some people stay because there are children involved and they've built up too much assets to throw away. But unmarried people living together who can't separate even though the situationship has run it's course are just broken. They're now in it just for vengeance.

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General Relationship / Re: You'll have your dream guy when you look for these things:

« on: April 29, 2024, 09:08:38 PM »

It's not really chasing but more like initiating and showing leadership qualities.

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General Relationship / Re: A man who wants stability always know what he's looking for...

« on: April 29, 2024, 09:07:42 PM »

Oh I had one or two of those shots. I can't pass up on this one now. But what if I want the doe not the buck. lol I can't shoot something I want as a pet. Lol guess if I can get it to eat off from my hand then I don't need to manipulate or shoot it.  Lol

That is manipulation. 

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Creative Writing / Re: "The House on Vinegar Street"

« on: April 29, 2024, 05:02:34 PM »

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Creative Writing / "Far From Austen"

« on: April 29, 2024, 04:07:17 PM »

A story about the affects of narcissistic abuse and avoidant behavior, which creates emotional trauma and unhealthy attachments.

Edward is highly narcissistic and avoidant, but even he longs for a romantic partner who will give him unconditional love and peace. However, Edward feels obligated to stay in a toxic situationship that he helped create. When Edward reunites with Nina, he believes that it was destiny. Nina is beautiful, intelligent, funny, and above all else, she loves him for him. Edward feels inspired to make changes in his life so that he can come to Nina properly and then they'll live happily ever after. But that all comes to a halt when Edward's on and off again ex, Melissa, triggers his avoidant behaviors by guilt-tripping him with all the sacrifices she made for him. Will Edward go through with his plans to finally escape and start fresh? Or will his narcissism keep him loyal to the unfulfilling but familiar life he has with a codependent Melissa? 

 

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General Relationship / Re: "A person who talks badly about their ex(es) is a person who...

« on: April 29, 2024, 09:41:47 AM »

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General Relationship / Re: "A person who talks badly about their ex(es) is a person who...

« on: April 29, 2024, 09:36:15 AM »

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General Relationship / Re: "A person who talks badly about their ex(es) is a person who...

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« on: April 29, 2024, 09:33:56 AM »

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General Relationship / Re: If you give someone unconditional love and they don't want it...

« on: April 26, 2024, 11:07:22 AM »

In the Disney version they get each other but in the real little mermaid story by Hans Christian Anderson, she dies at the end.

The prince had a clear shot and didn't take it.