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Relationship => Marriage & Family Life => Topic started by: Producer on July 15, 2017, 08:08:25 AM
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To be honest there is just some pathetic men's out there. How do you stay in a marriage when you can clearly see that your child is not yours especially when the baby is white mixed? Do some people look at themselves that low? Or are they just scared to leave their spouse?
I think as a man you clearly have to give yourself some dignity and leave a cheating spouse. What's your take on this? Seen this way too many times.
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If that's the path he wants to walk, let him walk his own path.
***not me, not my problem***
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Jesus Christ earthy father raises him as his own.
Now what?
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Depends...Is it a fact that she cheated? It's factual that some Hmong can have European traits.
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I would not stay, but I know an old friend of mine that is in this exact same situation. He is a very forgiving person and choose to stay with his wife and raise the white baby. I applaud him for being able to overlook that, but I for one cannot do such a thing. It is not the baby's fault, but he would remind me of her cheating.
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Depends...Is it a fact that she cheated? It's factual that some Hmong can have European traits.
No, this baby is pure Hmong/White mixed. They have two other kids as well and it is definitely different I can tell you that.
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I would not stay, but I know an old friend of mine that is in this exact same situation. He is a very forgiving person and choose to stay with his wife and raise the white baby. I applaud him for being able to overlook that, but I for one cannot do such a thing. It is not the baby's fault, but he would remind me of her cheating.
I cannot do it either. I don't care how good the spouse looks. Cheating is cheating.
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No, this baby is pure Hmong/White mixed. They have two other kids as well and it is definitely different I can tell you that.
Have they done any DNA test?
I've seen blonde Hmong kids in Thailand and Laos even when their siblings and parents didn't have those traits so just wondering..
(http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_DnXDQGcPK04/TD4emHLnCLI/AAAAAAAABro/bt6RbVQT3PQ/s1600/2890376660_14fcd73589.jpg)
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perhaps he purposely wanted his wife to be impregnated by other man or men, especially white, black and the like. also, there are some men/husbands who just love kids/babies regardless if the kids/babies aren't his.
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he might be in the business of early retirement. pimps his wife to get pregnant by other men for child support. if he's smart, he would make sure the guy is a baller, CEO or millionaire! O0 O0
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It's kind of nice that they have an interracial kid in their marriage. The child will get to learn Hmong and go out into the world very culturally aware of his/her surroundings--which are becoming very diverse these days.
Of course, many of us disapprove of the cheating. But the opportunity to raise a bi-racial child without the costly adoption process is a good thing.
What feelings the two spouses have for each other or lacking any thereof is something else, of course. And who is to say that the outside father won't be laughing or scoffing at them for raising his child for him?
But now that the child is a legally theirs, they can both raise him/ her together and enjoy the fun of raising a bi-racial child.
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also, there are some men/husbands who just love kids/babies regardless if the kids/babies aren't his.
True. I've even seen cases where the adoptive parents/kids love their adoptive parents/kids more than their biological ones...
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So, if Reporter's wife did that, would he accept her and the child completely like his very own?
Lol
It's kind of nice that they have an interracial kid in their marriage. The child will get to learn Hmong and go out into the world very culturally aware of his/her surroundings--which are becoming very diverse these days.
Of course, many of us disapprove of the cheating. But the opportunity to raise a bi-racial child without the costly adoption process is a good thing.
What feelings the two spouses have for each other or lacking any thereof is something else, of course. And who is to say that the outside father won't be laughing or scoffing at them for raising his child for him?
But now that the child is a legally theirs, they can both raise him/ her together and enjoy the fun of raising a bi-racial child.
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No, this baby is pure Hmong/White mixed. They have two other kids as well and it is definitely different I can tell you that.
Yes, when I referred to "white baby", I'm referring to Hmong/White mixed. Eventually the baby will grow up and start asking questions. Mom and dad, why do I look different from my brothers and sisters? What are you going to tell him?
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;D ;D
Someone out there is laughing at the couple.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4Mb0GOITRUU (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4Mb0GOITRUU)
Yes, when I referred to "white baby", I'm referring to Hmong/White mixed. Eventually the baby will grow up and start asking questions. Mom and dad, why do I look different from my brothers and sisters? What are you going to tell him?
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Cheating is the problem. Having another man's child may not be much of a problem if we both agreed to the idea of injecting another man's sperms into her vagigy in the first place. She better not get her toes curled in the process or it's consider cheating ! LOL!!! Crazy animal selfishness!! Watch how animals (lions, zebra, apes.., etc) treat another male's offspring 😱😱😱
Raising another man's offspring on one's back must raise lots of questions😰?
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lBsUCx9zaGE (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lBsUCx9zaGE)
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Cuckoos don't do that to only warblers; they do that to redstarts, too.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jbNzKkm9xRI (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jbNzKkm9xRI)
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ThQ-ilOAV5U (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ThQ-ilOAV5U)
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https://youtu.be/s8jg2wbisIs
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O0
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To be honest there is just some pathetic men's out there. How do you stay in a marriage when you can clearly see that your child is not yours especially when the baby is white mixed? Do some people look at themselves that low? Or are they just scared to leave their spouse?
I think as a man you clearly have to give yourself some dignity and leave a cheating spouse. What's your take on this? Seen this way too many times.
Divorcing the cheating wife won't make the child yours either, right?
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To be honest there is just some pathetic men's out there. How do you stay in a marriage when you can clearly see that your child is not yours especially when the baby is white mixed? Do some people look at themselves that low? Or are they just scared to leave their spouse?
I think as a man you clearly have to give yourself some dignity and leave a cheating spouse. What's your take on this? Seen this way too many times.
He's just not man enough... I bet that baby isn't the only one that's not his.
I would not take her back just knowing that she cheated. Like they say... a cheater will always be a cheater and there are plenty of good women out there. Why settle for a disloyal hoe...
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dude, recessive gene's or maybe they went to a donor program, or he's waiting on the kid to become a football star - it might pay off in the end
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Do you agree that married men who rush to have kids with their newly-wed wives don't have kids that are their own? lol
And then if he waits longer to make sure they are really his, it's still a scary thing when suddenly the wife suggests that it's time the two have kids. lol
Or in California you paying child support regardless if it's your child or not :idiot2:
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A Hmong man's wife cheated on him with his best friend. He chose to keep her. Years later, she cheated on him with the mexican neighbor. He chose to keep her. Who knows what other men she chose to cheat on him with, but he stayed because he didn't want to see his family fall apart and he knows that's the nature of his wife but he still loves her and would rather have a broken wife than no wife at all.
Now, that's called unconditional love. These kids need a mom and a father. I'm sure he would make a better father than the men his wife cheated with.
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Now, that's called unconditional love. These kids need a mom and a father. I'm sure he would make a better father than the men his wife cheated with.
That plus when you weigh it all, it's probably better to be able to hit it every time you get hard then to kick it out and have to settle for mai c or mai lo.
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I would not stay, but I know an old friend of mine that is in this exact same situation. He is a very forgiving person and choose to stay with his wife and raise the white baby. I applaud him for being able to overlook that, but I for one cannot do such a thing. It is not the baby's fault, but he would remind me of her cheating.
Is this old friend living somewhere in the Pacific Northwest by any chance? 8)
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No. I'm sure there's more than one couple in this exact situation.
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That is something that I would like to know from a guy's perspective. My bff have a brother that is married to a druggy. I don't know the details but I do know that she has 4 different baby daddy and none of the babies are actually his. However, he chooses to raise and love them all. He works hard for them so I don't understand what is going through his wife's head or his. How do you accept that? I couldn't.
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That is something that I would like to know from a guy's perspective. My bff have a brother that is married to a druggy. I don't know the details but I do know that she has 4 different baby daddy and none of the babies are actually his. However, he chooses to raise and love them all. He works hard for them so I don't understand what is going through his wife's head or his. How do you accept that? I couldn't.
I can explain. It is called stuck on poocee. It is when a guy can not get another replacement since pimping isn't easy and for the girl to have different baby daddy like that, it means she fawks a lot n fawks good. A man weakness is sex n sex is a tool to trap a person especially a person who can't leave because the sex is too good to leave.
I'm mad at you but after good sex, I have already forgotten why I am mad.... And the cycle repeats itself.
I learned about this phenomenon from the first ex of mine and her family. Her father wants to divorce his wife n is miserable living with her. They do sleep in the same bed. I overheard her mom talking to a shrink friend and heard she be bragging that they fight often but she would give it up to calm his azz down. He still down to fawk a person he constantly talking about divorcing her.
I minor in psychology just for this reason.
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I heard that in Cal, if a child is born into your LEGAL marriage, then it's yours--even if it's conceived through extramarital affairs.
Yup. That comes with child support.
Or in California you paying child support regardless if it's your child or not :idiot2:
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She must be overly stunning and yet the only woman left on Earth. lol
That is something that I would like to know from a guy's perspective. My bff have a brother that is married to a druggy. I don't know the details but I do know that she has 4 different baby daddy and none of the babies are actually his. However, he chooses to raise and love them all. He works hard for them so I don't understand what is going through his wife's head or his. How do you accept that? I couldn't.
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What I heard only, not what I know the law to be. I don't know the law there.
Tsis true pob, phoojywg? :D
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Here's a strange story.. They had just gotten married and he caught her cheating on him with another man. She was carrying the baby but didn't know whose baby it was. He divorced her, the other man didn't want her so she was left raising the baby on her own. 20 years later, the guy (who was now 41) meets a 20 year old and they just fall instantly in love (you know where this is going right?). After a couple of months of dating and what he described as the best xxx he's ever had, she finally convinces him to go meet her parents. They lived in a neighboring town. When she takes him in, he sees pictures of her and her mom and his jaw just dropped. When the mom saw him, she dropped her dish. Yup. Cheating mama had moved to a town about 40 mins away, gotten remarried, changed her name and changed the girl's name. Never told her who her real father was. She always thought her stepdad was her real dad. The end.
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Here's a strange story.. They had just gotten married and he caught her cheating on him with another man. She was carrying the baby but didn't know whose baby it was. He divorced her, the other man didn't want her so she was left raising the baby on her own. 20 years later, the guy (who was now 41) meets a 20 year old and they just fall instantly in love (you know where this is going right?). After a couple of months of dating and what he described as the best xxx he's ever had, she finally convinces him to go meet her parents. They lived in a neighboring town. When she takes him in, he sees pictures of her and her mom and his jaw just dropped. When the mom saw him, she dropped her dish. Yup. Cheating mama had moved to a town about 40 mins away, gotten remarried, changed her name and changed the girl's name. Never told her who her real father was. She always thought her stepdad was her real dad. The end.
This is the reason why my dad told me to go with him on a car ride to Denver that one year. I had to fake a cry to my boss that I will be out from work for the next few days.
Daddy said he wants me to see n know who my cousins on my mom sides are. In this way, we don't fawk each other.
Almost fell in love with her. My mom side have beautiful kids.
Been 18 years haven't gone back to Denver. Lost contacts, lost touch but if I go there now, I might find them from the geography of that area. If not, there's always Sunday church. Someone must know some one. The priest have tabs on his lambs in his parish for sure.
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This is the reason why my dad told me to go with him on a car ride to Denver that one year. I had to fake a cry to my boss that I will be out from work for the next few days.
Daddy said he wants me to see n know who my cousins on my mom sides are. In this way, we don't fawk each other.
Almost fell in love with her. My mom side have beautiful kids.
Been 18 years haven't gone back to Denver. Lost contacts, lost touch but if I go there now, I might find them from the geography of that area. If not, there's always Sunday church. Someone must know some one. The priest have tabs on his lambs in his parish for sure.
;D ;D O0 Good for your dad but if it's your mom's brother's daughter, Hmong peeps say it's okay to fawk. lol.
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;D ;D O0 Good for your dad but if it's your mom's brother's daughter, Hmong peeps say it's okay to fawk. lol.
You mean first cousin? That's nasty. My father in law is my uncle?
I say it's to fawk if their parents has no lable n when you marry them, they become your in law.
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You mean first cousin? That's nasty. My father in law is my uncle?
I say it's to fawk if their parents has no lable n when you marry them, they become your in law.
Hmong have been known to marry first cousins long as the lastname differs.
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There has to be a few circumstances.
1. She has to have money. Not quite a millionaire but somewhere over the $500k annually.
2. She has to be super hot. A 10 out of 10 type of deal.
3. I am allow to do whatever I please. Whenever, with whoever.
O0 ;)
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I would not be surprised if someone’s wife or husband from PH did it with someone else other than the spouse. ;) ;D
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Here's a strange story.. They had just gotten married and he caught her cheating on him with another man. She was carrying the baby but didn't know whose baby it was. He divorced her, the other man didn't want her so she was left raising the baby on her own. 20 years later, the guy (who was now 41) meets a 20 year old and they just fall instantly in love (you know where this is going right?). After a couple of months of dating and what he described as the best xxx he's ever had, she finally convinces him to go meet her parents. They lived in a neighboring town. When she takes him in, he sees pictures of her and her mom and his jaw just dropped. When the mom saw him, she dropped her dish. Yup. Cheating mama had moved to a town about 40 mins away, gotten remarried, changed her name and changed the girl's name. Never told her who her real father was. She always thought her stepdad was her real dad. The end.
Sick! 20 yrs gap.
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I would not be surprised if someone’s wife or husband from PH did it with someone else other than the spouse. ;) ;D
Hey... happy wife, happy life, until her husband finds out about you.
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Why would you not be? :2funny: :2funny:
I would not be surprised if someone’s wife or husband from PH did it with someone else other than the spouse. ;) ;D
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Sick! 20 yrs gap.
It's not the 20 years gap that's the focus of the story. ;D
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Interesting... pic???
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To be honest there is just some pathetic men's out there. How do you stay in a marriage when you can clearly see that your child is not yours especially when the baby is white mixed? Do some people look at themselves that low? Or are they just scared to leave their spouse?
I think as a man you clearly have to give yourself some dignity and leave a cheating spouse. What's your take on this? Seen this way too many times.
How about if she had a baby that's mixed but then you dated her and married her?
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How about if she had a baby that's mixed but then you dated her and married her?
Marriage is one thing but any other casual sexual encounters are stupid and immoral. Credibility is very important for every breathing human being. You spread your legs to the villager(s), get basically attached by the hip with the villager (s) then expect the few good men/women to lift you off of your feet and love you unconditionall y without question :-*? I love that kind of human fantasy.
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Marriage is one thing but any other casual sexual encounters are stupid and immoral.
Wrong again, just depends ...
Credibility is very important for every breathing human being. You spread your legs to the villager(s), get basically attached by the hip with the villager (s) then expect the few good men/women to lift you off of your feet and love you unconditionall y without question :-*? I love that kind of human fantasy.
Not to you as you have none...How many "adios" have you cried about it now??...Watch you come back to prove me right again..."Credibility is very important for every breathing human being"... ;D ;D ;D
Or was it "avery".... ???
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No, this baby is pure Hmong/White mixed. They have two other kids as well and it is definitely different I can tell you that.
He might be staying because of the two kids.
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I heard that in Cal, if a child is born into your LEGAL marriage, then it's yours--even if it's conceived through extramarital affairs.
Yup. That comes with child support.
California is a s.hit state.