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General Relationship / Love isn't really about reciprocating

« on: July 03, 2025, 09:56:36 AM »

You pick someone to love.

That's really all there is to it.

If the relationship ends, then it's because they didn't pick you to love. They walked away.

Did you know that it really only takes one person to make a relationship work and last?

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General Relationship / The reason why some people don't believe in love or can't find love is because..

« on: July 03, 2025, 09:50:35 AM »

...they have never been in a loving relationship. How can you believe in something that you've never had, or know how to find a person who will create this kind of loving relationship?

Those who have had a very loving relationship that yielded good fruit are more optimistic even if that relationship ended.

Imagine that you are the CEO of a company. You have an amazing CFO and together, you two created a very profitable business. It's because the both of you are excellent at your roles and you vibe with each other in ways that take the company to unimaginable heights. One day, you discover that the CFO embezzled some money. It's very out of character of the CFO to do so and despite apologizing and promising to never do it again, as the CEO, you must fire the CFO in order to preserve the integrity of the company. It is very bittersweet but it's the right thing to do.

However, because the former CFO was actually a very competent person who had a great connection with you, you don't give up on hiring a new CFO. You know what energy and qualities to look for - minus the embezzlement. You are looking for someone who has the same competency, but more importantly, the same energy because that's what it takes to work with you so that the company can continuing growing and succeeding.

Now imagine if you are a CEO with a very incompetent CFO whom you have never gotten along with. The company is going under water and has never seen success. You would start to think that the company doesn't need a CFO at all. Even if you posted a job position, you wouldn't even know what to look for. You are grasping in the dark, just hoping that maybe whatever you grab will stick and work out.

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General Discussion / White, woke Lib Dems Protecting and Encouraging Illegal Immigration is like...

« on: July 03, 2025, 09:30:35 AM »

...white, woke liberal Democrats approving the building of low income housing in a mid-upper middle class suburban area. These woke liberal Democrats continue to offend the non-whites who worked very hard to escape the ghetto and buy a house in said mid-upper middle class suburban area.

Awhile back, white, woke, liberal Democrats wanted to build low income housing units in a mid-upper middle class suburban area. Their goal was to bring "diversity" to the city. Nevermind that there was already non-white families who bought homes in the neighborhoods. The white liberal doesn't give a crap about minorities who actually work and pay their way. They don't make white liberals feel like white messiahs. Anyways, the biggest opponents came from the minority families because they did not want the hoodlums from their old ghettos to trash their new neighborhoods. Plus, they feel that it is a privilege to live in said areas and that one should work for it. After all, they did. What was most offensive was that the hoodlums already took over the ghetto neighborhoods. There was no way of winning it back. Therefore, these minority families basically said, "fine, you can have it. I will work my way to flee this ghetto."

And now the white, woke, liberal Democrats want to bring the hoodlums in practically for free without any work or effort on their part.

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General Discussion / Where was his Due Process? Showing receipts for Democrat Hypocrisy LOL!

« on: June 19, 2025, 01:41:51 PM »

https://www.washingtonpost.com/archive/politics/2000/04/01/gore-stand-on-elian-stirs-up-democrats/ec833bbf-d69d-49bd-b8a1-bc490d5283b7/

"Vice President Gore's decision to break with President Clinton and plunge into the Elian Gonzalez controversy roiled his relationships within his party yesterday, with some congressional leaders saying they were surprised by his decision and some lawmakers expressing open contempt for a move they felt further politicized a family tragedy.

The strongest reaction came from Rep. Jose E. Serrano (D-N.Y.), who wrote Gore that he was "shocked and outraged" by Gore's endorsement of legislation that would extend permanent resident status to 6-year-old Elian, his father and other relatives living in Cuba."

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Marriage & Family Life / Woman upset that men marry less attractive women...

« on: June 09, 2025, 03:44:16 PM »

...because less attractive women put up with more and are less demanding. (Will have to link video clip some other time).

I don't know about that. A person's physical appearance doesn't necessarily determine their attitude and boundaries. Plus, physical attractiveness is subjective anyways.

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General Discussion / Some good memes

« on: June 02, 2025, 11:22:26 AM »

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Faith & Beliefs / Behold, Pope Leo!!!

« on: May 29, 2025, 12:55:09 AM »

https://www.youtube.com/shorts/-J0eHC0-9bw

He's very handsome and charming. A lot of women are already crushing on him. A mother posted a video clip of her review about Pope Leo's election and her young daughter said, "Mommy, he is cute."

Yes, Pope Leo has a very cute demeanor about him. Especially when he speaks and the expressions that he makes. I saw the clip of him at a White Sox World Series Game in 2005. He looked nervous because his favorite team, White Sox, was only two strikes away from winning. 

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Marriage & Family Life / Most people cannot handle abundance

« on: May 27, 2025, 03:24:25 PM »

A lot of people wish for abundance whether that comes in the form of wealth, status, peace, or a fulfilling relationship, but many of them do not have what it takes to maintain that abundance. They tell themselves that the timing isn't right or that they will get another opportunity, only to realize that that kind of opportunity is actually once in a lifetime. Furthermore, that kind of abundance can only happen when they have a change of attitude.

For example, some people inherit wealth from their parents, but if they do not know how to maintain and invest properly, the abundance will slip through their fingers. Some people have a loving and supportive partner but because they did not reciprocate, that relationship goes sour or fizzles out.

If you lack abundance in your life, then you should look at yourself. You are most likely putting too much energy towards the things and people who do not bring you abundance. Meanwhile, neglecting habits, action, and people who help you create abundance.

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General Discussion / The Case of the Hmong-American Husband Shooting Hmong-Lao Wife

« on: May 23, 2025, 04:58:38 PM »

There are some men who prefer a woman that incites drama so drama they both will get.

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General Relationship / Doing this is worse than cheating

« on: May 21, 2025, 01:48:32 PM »

Using someone for a relationship.

At least when a person gets cheated on, they don't question if the relationship was real and the cheater doesn't say the relationship wasn't real.

But if someone is only in a relationship for any or all of the following reasons, they are despicable and it wouldn't surprise me if they ended up lonely and miserable.

1. to get over an ex
2. to spite an ex
3. to cope with the person they're in a relationship with at home
3. to distract from whatever dysfunction they got going on in their personal life
4. to kill time
5. to please their family
6. to have a place to live
7. to be a placeholder
8. to have stability until they get their finances in order
9. to have someone to hang out with
10. for convenience because you were already hanging out and have the same social circle
11. because they don't have their own family and they enjoy hanging out with yours
12. they don't really have friends and being with you and your friends give them a social life
13. because you take care of the daily mundane things that they don't want to do

These are just a few things.

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General Discussion / This is the only living U.S. President whose ancestors did not own slaves

« on: May 20, 2025, 11:49:02 PM »

DONALD J. TRUMP

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_FsAJHOdDDw

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General Discussion / PH Hmong Leftists who take issues with whites are just envious

« on: May 20, 2025, 03:30:12 PM »

Maybe if you stopped sabotaging each other over Green and White Hmong dialect, or hoping for freebies from Hmong businesses, and stopped sending money overseas to young ****, you, too, could catch up to a fifth of what white folks are doing. Then you wouldn't feel so excluded when they help their own.

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Marriage & Family Life / At this age, just stay single...if you thought your ex-husband was bad, then...

« on: May 20, 2025, 09:43:12 AM »

...you definitely won't be happy with what's out there. lol

At least that is the impression I get from the stories and the older divorcees/widowers.

Older single men are not serious about commitment at all, especially those who are divorced for a long time or have been in a string of bad situationships . Their idea of commitment is for you to shut up and put up. You do the cooking, the cleaning, the nursing, the picking up after, NO QUESTIONS ASKED. Be completely agreeable or else they walk. Their commitment to you is not about love but for transactional purposes only. If they got minors then they need you to perform mother duties. Otherwise, they're looking for someone to manage and perform domestic chores so that it frees up time for them to focus on their personal interests and hobbies. Their priorities will always be work and hobbies, never you. If you don't like it, well don't expect them to fight for the relationship. They'll just find another woman who is more agreeable.

Honestly, it sounds like older men don't have any reason to get married other than to have a woman take care of him if he has some health issues. And if they don't mind taking care of themselves then they don't need a woman. It's not like they're trying to have a family or pursue a career, and will need a wife to share the workload.

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General Relationship / People who had a good parent-child relationship

« on: May 20, 2025, 09:16:28 AM »

People who had a good parent-child relationship or view their parents in a positive light are more secure, have less childhood trauma, and are more likely to know how to engage in healthy ways that create a healthy relationship. They're least likely to be avoidant and bow out when things get hard. They view obstacles and struggles as opportunities to grow together. They feel optimistic about relationships, are emotionally available, and show more consideration for their partner. They have higher self-worth, strong boundaries, and overall have better relationships. They get into a relationship with intentions of loving and supporting their partner, rather than expecting to see what they can get from their partner.

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General Relationship / interesting...

« on: May 10, 2025, 03:01:14 AM »

...there is a loneliness crisis.