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General Relationship / Re: You'll have your dream guy when you look for these things:

« on: Today at 09:46:59 AM »

Save your energy and don't catch feelings for the time wasters. Not saying that there aren't a lot of fun guys with good chemistry. Just saying that they're not in a state of mind to go all in.

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General Relationship / A man who wants stability always know what he's looking for...

« on: Today at 09:36:48 AM »

...and he's not going to string you along until he's ready because his time is valuable to him as well.

It doesn't take a man long to know that you're the one. It won't be your job to prove anything. In fact, what will happen is that he'll court you for this reason alone:

To see if you're attracted and willing to commit to him. He already knows that he likes you and wants commitment with you.

The dudes who are testing to see if there is compatibility or if they like you enough ARE PLAYING. If a man has to test to see if he likes you enough then RUN. Even if you get him, it will be a very one-sided relationship where he has all the power. You'll feel anxious all the time and fearful of abandonment.

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General Relationship / Re: You'll have your dream guy when you look for these things:

« on: Today at 09:30:06 AM »

Good women don't have to prove anything. This is how it works with good men who do want commitment.

First, a woman should already be a wife - just not his wife yet. This means that she is already in her wife energy. It's not something that she becomes when she gets married.

Next, the man has to be the one to show that he can be her husband. She need only give him the signal to pursue her.

The women who act agreeable at all times are insecure. In a sense, this is an act of chasing.

Not to sound arrogant or anything but I've had my own share of men who came to ask me to marry them. I didn't even really know who they were or anything. I'm one of those girls back in the days when the elders and guys would say, "hey, she would be a great wife and looks great. Go ask her to marry."

My own sister got married this way. She and my brother in law never dated. They weren't a couple for years, etc. etc. He saw her and just knew that she was the one. Then he came and asked for her hand in marriage. And these aren't transactional marriages either where the guy just needs a woman to perform wifely duties.

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General Relationship / Re: sorry, i don’t do SINGLE HMONG DIVORCE MOTHER WITH MULT KIDS…

« on: Today at 09:20:41 AM »

A lot of women don't do single fathers either --> I am one of those women. I guess it would depend on how many children he has but men with baby mamas tend to come with a lot of drama. Heck, men who played house have a lot of drama. 

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General Relationship / You'll have your dream guy when you look for these things:

« on: Today at 02:20:32 AM »

A man who is in a position to do these things and has the desire to do them -

- take care of someone
- accrue assets
- create stability
- secure a wife who will help oversee these things

The most satisfying and successful marriages I know include a husband who is all of these things. Otherwise, you just have a dude who enjoys spending time with you and using up your energy. In essence, a playmate. Which is why so many women are unhappy in their marriage/situationship.

It doesn't matter how nice he is or how much you enjoy his company. If he isn't in this state of mind and in a position to do these things, then you'll only be disappointed. Stop playing house with men. Then they'll know that they have to go do these things before they can get with you. Release them to go learn how to be a proper man and stop rescuing them.

No hobosexuals. The world has too many hobosexuals nowadays.

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General Discussion / Re: YO BNM… I’M SURPRISE YOU MANAGE TO FIND A HUSBAND. i would “kho” fix you inste

« on: Today at 01:44:30 AM »

hmgROCK,

When a woman doesn't see you as a real man who is worth her time, this is how she will speak to you. Men like you and theking are used to low value women who do the chasing so you automatically think someone like me will sleep with you. Dream on.

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General Discussion / 100% Positive that if theking dies first, that daughter of his will never...

« on: Today at 01:08:44 AM »

...see the Hmong again.

The Chinese wife isn't going to encourage her to know her Hmong side.

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Marriage & Family Life / Re: Good for these women, gotta do what's best for you

« on: Today at 01:02:16 AM »

Abortion is the better option if your sons are only going to abandon you by marrying a Chinese wife.

 

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General Discussion / Re: You know how useless non-Hmong spouses are at Hmong events

« on: Today at 01:01:14 AM »

^^^

The dude that abandoned his single parent mother by marrying a Chinese wife.

 

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General Discussion / Re: WHAT THIS NONSENSE ABOUT PUTTING YOUR PARENT IN HOSPICE CARE???

« on: Today at 01:00:20 AM »

Geeze hmgROCK,

The parent can at least die naturally in hospice care. These Chinese wives will poison your mom so she goes quicker. Did you ever think that maybe that's why theking put his mom in hospice care instead?

Show some compassion. 

I think it was last year when that Chinese wife got caught on camera slowly poisoning her husband's coffee.

 

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General Discussion / Re: Even though hmgROCK is a bum who lives with his mom, his mom is happy about it

« on: Today at 12:56:49 AM »

^^^

The dude that abandoned his single parent mother by marrying a Chinese wife.

 

100% true. Happened in real life.

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General Discussion / Re: FACT: Hmong mothers really hate it when their sons marry a Chinese

« on: Today at 12:47:13 AM »

I wouldn't be surprised if theking's wife has family in China and when they visit, they'll say shyt like,

"Oh yeah, we saw Ai Yu Do perform." or whatever her name is. That Hmong chick that performs a lot at the cultural shows in China.

 

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General Discussion / Re: FACT: Hmong mothers really hate it when their sons marry a Chinese

« on: Today at 12:45:19 AM »

Don't worry though. I'm 100% positive theking's inlaws make all sorts of excuses to their Chinese friends and family about their daughter marrying a Hmong dude.

"Yes, he has a job. He isn't a doctor but as long as they're happy."

 

Then they have to sit there and listen to how Melissa Chang is marrying a Chinese doctor and having a destination wedding in Hong Kong or whatever.

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General Discussion / Re: You know how useless non-Hmong spouses are at Hmong events

« on: Today at 12:41:14 AM »

^^^

The dude that abandoned his single parent mother by marrying a Chinese wife.

 

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General Relationship / Re: sorry, i don’t do SINGLE HMONG DIVORCE MOTHER WITH MULT KIDS…

« on: Today at 12:35:42 AM »

If their sons don't love them? Who will?