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General Discussion / Re: do you have family members who are always paying for everything...?

« on: April 11, 2019, 08:54:57 AM »

folks like this kind of annoys me... i like splitting everything equally... we all work, why shouldn't we all pitch in the same amount... to me, i'm not sure if they're trying to boast about their wealth or if they're genuinely sincere people but unless you're jeff bezos or bill gates... don't always pick up the tab for everything...

Who are these family members?  I want them to pay for me every time, too!
Hey, I got lots of bills.

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General Discussion / Re: are you guys tired of these overpaid athlete, CEO, musician, movie star, etc...?

« on: April 11, 2019, 08:52:32 AM »

I'm tired of those Kardashians ... or whatever they are! ... at least the athletes can play sports.

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General Discussion / Re: So, if you found yourself completely broke tomorrow.

« on: April 02, 2019, 12:18:21 PM »

Until I am in that shoe, only then would I know.

Family can only help you so much.  We live in a society where everything is expenses.

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General Discussion / Re: Need 600k just to down a medium house now??

« on: March 26, 2019, 11:19:09 AM »

That's a pricey down payment.
The house better be able to cook and clean for me!!!

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General Discussion / Re: Listening to May Vang stories...

« on: March 26, 2019, 11:13:17 AM »

She's here. People here run into her now and then, here and there.

Her husband is Ntsuab Teev. So, she always mentions that she is Ntsuab
Teev's wife, just so perverts don't stalk her, I guess.

They look pretty good together.

I heard a story about her.  I couldn't believe!
People were wondering when she's going to tell her story anonymously.

We all have stories to tell.  Stories that shock everyone just like the stories she's been telling.

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General Discussion / Re: Listening to May Vang stories...

« on: March 25, 2019, 02:47:10 PM »

No idea who she is in real life.  She introduces herself as "niam so and so" but hmong people have such common names so not sure   She's good except I don't have time to listen to her stories.  When I do, I prefer to do other things.

I love her soothing sexy voice.  And she's really pretty, too!
She's a good storyteller.  I listen to her all the time.

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General Discussion / Re: I'm thinking about downsizing

« on: March 25, 2019, 02:02:12 PM »

from a big house to a small one instead of throwing $$ away each months.  Kids are grown and the house is empty.  I want to use that $$ to enjoy the world.  Anyone going through empty nest like me?

I downsized a few years ago already.  No mortgage now.
Kids are all grown, too. 
   *1 son-in-law
   *1 daughter-in-law
   *1 daughter-in-law ... to be
   *2 more daughters still single

Life is quiet now.  And I'm feeling more lazy.

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General Discussion / Re: Where would you like to travel to this year?

« on: March 21, 2019, 12:44:58 PM »

I love traveling.  I want to go to Fiji.

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Marriage & Family Life / Re: People whose spouse cheated on you..

« on: March 19, 2019, 03:44:44 PM »

That's what I've been saying all along.

So if someone asks me, I would say "I don't know.  I only know yesterday and at this moment.  I'm not even sure about tonight".

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Marriage & Family Life / Re: People whose spouse cheated on you..

« on: March 15, 2019, 08:52:37 AM »

If your spouse cheats on you and wants to leave, would begging them to stay really work?  I'm just curious why people would beg.  I believe there's no point in begging since it'll only make them see you lower than they already see you, right?

Until one is in that shoe, only then would one know.

We as human beings often times say things now, but when the situation hits us, it is a different story then.
So we should never assume what we would do now ... vs. then.

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General Discussion / Re: Hmong baby won the Gerber contest.....

« on: February 27, 2019, 02:59:04 PM »

Only $50K?  What about residuals? ... Isn't Gerber going to use her picture as their campaign all over???
And for how long???

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General Discussion / Re: i flew on those low budget airline, FRONTIER, i don't know what the big deal is

« on: January 18, 2019, 12:16:52 PM »

Yes, people complained too much these days.

I do like Frontier and Spirit.  I rather pay only $200-$300 round trip to get to my destination vs. having to pay $500 for a ticket on American or United .. only to get to my destination the same way:  Flying

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General Discussion / Re: Looks like she just became the richest woman in the world??

« on: January 14, 2019, 11:33:58 AM »

More powers to her!

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Marriage & Family Life / Re: Feeling the blues

« on: January 08, 2019, 09:58:23 AM »

cas lazy ualuaj mas?

Es laus lawm nes!  I'm not 30 anymore!

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General Discussion / Re: how much money did u spend over the holidays...?

« on: January 03, 2019, 01:25:13 PM »

Wow!  That's a lot of dough.  You must be giving pricey gifts out to families???  KUDOS to you!

Like every year, I have a separate budget for holiday gifts.  I try to never go over $1k.
So far, and it's been 15yrs ... I budget perfectly under $600.

The holidays are all about being together with families ... appreciating being healthy and alive.  And I make sure my kids know it's not about getting gifts.  This was instilled in them since infancy.