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Relationship => The Single & Dating Scenes => Topic started by: Jiggles on April 05, 2017, 12:23:06 PM

Title: Your date uses a coupon to pay on your first date.
Post by: Jiggles on April 05, 2017, 12:23:06 PM
Does this turn you off? As a first impression, would this be a deal breaker?
Title: Re: Your date uses a coupon to pay on your first date.
Post by: MSV on April 05, 2017, 01:12:14 PM
Hmmmm. I would have following thoughts run in my mind...
1."Is he a frugal man?"
2. He knows how to save money. Yay!

Wouldn't be a dealbreaker for me either way. I would just be curious though.
Title: Re: Your date uses a coupon to pay on your first date.
Post by: theking on April 05, 2017, 01:26:46 PM
Does this turn you off? As a first impression, would this be a deal breaker?

Not for me..
Title: Re: Your date uses a coupon to pay on your first date.
Post by: Gucci K on April 05, 2017, 02:55:58 PM
DEPENDS!  if we're going to McDonalds or Kincaids.   

i'm surprise theking isn't wearing diapers on this subject!    :2funny: :2funny:
Title: Re: Your date uses a coupon to pay on your first date.
Post by: lexicon on April 05, 2017, 03:59:47 PM
Plan better.

Either way I wouldn't care. It's not how you start but how you finish  :-X
Title: Re: Your date uses a coupon to pay on your first date.
Post by: LION HEART on April 05, 2017, 04:13:44 PM
Plan better.

Either way I wouldn't care. It's not how you start but how you finish  :-X

That's what she said!
Title: Re: Your date uses a coupon to pay on your first date.
Post by: nightrider on April 05, 2017, 06:33:00 PM
Does this turn you off? As a first impression, would this be a deal breaker?

If I was a woman, I say not a problem at all whether the guy is just trying to be cheap. If you get offended by it, you're only in the wrong since you think that you're that important for him. He should have not to use a coupon on you.
Title: Re: Your date uses a coupon to pay on your first date.
Post by: Jiggles on April 06, 2017, 08:35:56 PM
Lol I was just wondering what you guys thought. I heard this topic over the radio the other day and apparently meskas people feel it's tacky and cheap. One lady said she went out with an NFL football player who used a coupon and she was so turned off she never went out with him again. Even men criticized it too.

I think meskas are way overdramatic and expect way too much.
Title: Re: Your date uses a coupon to pay on your first date.
Post by: Dok_Champa on April 07, 2017, 10:19:43 AM
I'll be feeling awkard and that's probably a "red flag" for me. 
Title: Re: Your date uses a coupon to pay on your first date.
Post by: bloggersdigest on April 07, 2017, 11:50:02 AM
Hrmm interesting...
Turn off cause you could think he is cheap or he knows how to save money...

LOL He should have saved the coupon for later later down the road when the relationship gets serious HAHA  ;D
My husband and I would always get those Value Pack coupons in the mail and look for coupons we'd actually use
Title: Re: Your date uses a coupon to pay on your first date.
Post by: azn-guy on April 07, 2017, 12:12:16 PM
ladies will rather pay full price than get a percentile off its no wonder there broke all the time
Title: Re: Your date uses a coupon to pay on your first date.
Post by: Magic Mike on April 07, 2017, 01:16:40 PM
If she pays with Groupon i'm in LOVE.  :smitten: :smitten:
Title: Re: Your date uses a coupon to pay on your first date.
Post by: Reporter on April 11, 2017, 08:22:30 AM
Where did you two already end up on a first that would allow a coupon? A major hotel?

I don't think those local, small motels offer coupons.

Does this turn you off? As a first impression, would this be a deal breaker?
Title: Re: Your date uses a coupon to pay on your first date.
Post by: Jiggles on April 18, 2017, 05:46:16 AM
Where did you two already end up on a first that would allow a coupon? A major hotel?

I don't think those local, small motels offer coupons.

coupon for the movie theatre? lol just guessing.
Title: Re: Your date uses a coupon to pay on your first date.
Post by: YAX on April 18, 2017, 12:34:21 PM
That's almost as bad as the guy who lied that it was his birthday so he can get free chicken wings on the first date.  ;D
Title: Re: Your date uses a coupon to pay on your first date.
Post by: Jiggles on April 18, 2017, 04:37:58 PM
To pay?
No. Cool. They got cards and stuff.

Now if they pulled out a binder and tried to calculate stuff before ordering  Ok. That might be a problem

That would be beyond embarrassing lol
Title: Re: Your date uses a coupon to pay on your first date.
Post by: Rebel on April 19, 2017, 12:37:02 PM
....
Title: Re: Your date uses a coupon to pay on your first date.
Post by: YAX on April 21, 2017, 10:04:39 AM
This would definitely turn me off. What if it was a McDonald coupon...that would be even worst lol
No. He's saving McDonalds for after the abortion.
Title: Re: Your date uses a coupon to pay on your first date.
Post by: DuMa on April 21, 2017, 11:17:31 AM
If there is no shame then it is not a date.  Never pay retail unless you have to or that product never goes on sale except for blk friday and thanksgiving is a long azz wait.
Title: Re: Your date uses a coupon to pay on your first date.
Post by: YAX on April 21, 2017, 02:49:54 PM
Yup. He should've taken her straight to the casino restaurant, use his club points to pay for the dinner and act like he's a big shot because he didn't have to pay anything, just sign a receipt.  :coolsmiley:
Title: Re: Your date uses a coupon to pay on your first date.
Post by: Reporter on April 23, 2017, 10:47:41 AM
I like people who are frugal. O0

coupon for the movie theatre? lol just guessing.
Title: Re: Your date uses a coupon to pay on your first date.
Post by: can on April 24, 2017, 01:48:05 PM
This would definitely turn me off. What if it was a McDonald coupon...that would be even worst lol


why would it turn you off?
Title: Re: Your date uses a coupon to pay on your first date.
Post by: lifemystery on May 08, 2017, 02:48:59 PM
Even some rich and famous people still use coupons.  It's not how much you make, it's how you spend your money. 
Title: Re: Your date uses a coupon to pay on your first date.
Post by: Yebleng on May 24, 2017, 06:49:33 PM
Most women who say that its okay to use coupon on the first date are full BS :D :2funny:

As a guy I would never dear pay with coupon on our first date ;D
Title: Re: Your date uses a coupon to pay on your first date.
Post by: DuMa on May 24, 2017, 06:54:27 PM
If she pays then sure i no care.  Even if she sells her body for a discount, i no care either.  She wants to save money?  Give me a discount too. 
Title: Re: Your date uses a coupon to pay on your first date.
Post by: lilly on August 13, 2019, 11:01:12 PM
Iono why but this thread is hilarious as hell to me.  It's also so cute!

On the serious side, don't use a coupon on the first date.  That is a tacky move.  Wait until you're 6 months or a year into the relationship first.  By then she'd hopefully know if you are cheap or frugal or money-smart.
Title: Re: Your date uses a coupon to pay on your first date.
Post by: nightrider on August 14, 2019, 11:55:10 PM
Iono why but this thread is hilarious as hell to me.  It's also so cute!

On the serious side, don't use a coupon on the first date.  That is a tacky move.  Wait until you're 6 months or a year into the relationship first.  By then she'd hopefully know if you are cheap or frugal or money-smart.

It is funny. I outta use a coupon, should I have a date with a woman in the near future. Would like to see her reactions and expressions.=D Think of it as a way to screen them whether they're open minded or judgmental type.
Title: Re: Your date uses a coupon to pay on your first date.
Post by: YAX on August 21, 2019, 04:40:25 PM
Hey, my friend, theKing, thinks it depends.
Title: Re: Your date uses a coupon to pay on your first date.
Post by: theking on August 21, 2019, 06:42:22 PM
Hey, my friend, theKing, thinks it depends.

"Hey, my friend,"...the YAK, "thinks" with his foam again by crawling back after crying "ignore"... ;D
Title: Re: Your date uses a coupon to pay on your first date.
Post by: YAX on August 21, 2019, 07:59:39 PM
"Hey, my friend,"...the YAK, "thinks" with his foam again by crawling back after crying "ignore"... ;D
and another round of applause for theKing everybody.
Title: Re: Your date uses a coupon to pay on your first date.
Post by: DuMa on August 22, 2019, 11:45:50 AM
Missed dating while we were in college. 

The ramen years were the best years cuz every dates do understand that being frugal is the norm for college students and dorm life.  We can still eat good but it feels a lot better if you are buying on value. 

Walking in stores with a booklet of coupons.  Nah bra, you on  your own there.   :2funny:

Title: Re: Your date uses a coupon to pay on your first date.
Post by: Griffith on February 02, 2020, 05:46:23 PM
You think Imma pay full price for dinner?. Heck I might not even get laid or a better lack of term. Dip my oil stick into that engine to gauge the oil level.

If a girl takes me out to eat and she uses coupons. Oh hell yeah, she's a keeper. She can take my car keys and start her engine anytime, anywhere and  anyplace.
Title: Re: Your date uses a coupon to pay on your first date.
Post by: lilly on February 03, 2020, 05:56:10 PM
You think Imma pay full price for dinner?. Heck I might not even get laid or a better lack of term. Dip my oil stick into that engine to gauge the oil level.

If a girl takes me out to eat and she uses coupons. Oh hell yeah, she's a keeper. She can take my car keys and start her engine anytime, anywhere and  anyplace.

 ;D ;D
Title: Re: Your date uses a coupon to pay on your first date.
Post by: DuMa on February 03, 2020, 06:13:16 PM
You think Imma pay full price for dinner?. Heck I might not even get laid or a better lack of term. Dip my oil stick into that engine to gauge the oil level.

If a girl takes me out to eat and she uses coupons. Oh hell yeah, she's a keeper. She can take my car keys and start her engine anytime, anywhere and  anyplace.

I am not trying to take a page from your playbook but this is what I am going to do this weekend. 

I'm heading to vegas.  I got the flight for 2 on the low low like under $100 round trip each.  My room is comp and get this, a 1700 sq feet suite at ballys.  I then told her that food is on her cuz we are going on a foodie tour in vegas.  We will blog it and snap pix for facebook and instant gram for our friends and families to see. 

Now get this.  I'm helping her getting some vegas deals.  Like there is a mall inside of planet hollywood by the name of ocean one and during lunch time, their menu changes to $4.99 each item.  3 for $10 drinks.  We are talking about salmon and steak dinner here. 

We also played the myvegas game on facebook and build enough points to get free buffets at the mgm, aris and others.  Not sure if there is a del taco that opens 24 hours there but tacos after midnight yo.  Just take the escalator by planet hollywood and once you reach the top, welcome to del taco. 

I got a long list of cheap eats in vegas and too little time to share it with you guys.  I think I am gonna go vegas more often.  I found out that my local city has hmong females that goes to vegas solo.   Just met another female at the airport while I was buying my ticket.  Look up on facebook "bell vang"  black and white pix.  IT is her   :2funny:

And can't end my soup talk without the icing on the cake to impress you guys.  My workers, after hearing that I'm heading to vegas this weekend, bought my a few packs of condoms.  So yeah, I'm already booked for the easter weekend to vegas with my boys as well.  They are meeting other hmong females from the midwest there.  Gonna be interesting and nasty. 

Title: Re: Your date uses a coupon to pay on your first date.
Post by: Griffith on February 04, 2020, 10:28:20 PM
I am not trying to take a page from your playbook but this is what I am going to do this weekend. 

I'm heading to vegas.  I got the flight for 2 on the low low like under $100 round trip each.  My room is comp and get this, a 1700 sq feet suite at ballys.  I then told her that food is on her cuz we are going on a foodie tour in vegas.  We will blog it and snap pix for facebook and instant gram for our friends and families to see. 

Now get this.  I'm helping her getting some vegas deals.  Like there is a mall inside of planet hollywood by the name of ocean one and during lunch time, their menu changes to $4.99 each item.  3 for $10 drinks.  We are talking about salmon and steak dinner here. 

We also played the myvegas game on facebook and build enough points to get free buffets at the mgm, aris and others.  Not sure if there is a del taco that opens 24 hours there but tacos after midnight yo.  Just take the escalator by planet hollywood and once you reach the top, welcome to del taco. 

I got a long list of cheap eats in vegas and too little time to share it with you guys.  I think I am gonna go vegas more often.  I found out that my local city has hmong females that goes to vegas solo.   Just met another female at the airport while I was buying my ticket.  Look up on facebook "bell vang"  black and white pix.  IT is her   :2funny:

And can't end my soup talk without the icing on the cake to impress you guys.  My workers, after hearing that I'm heading to vegas this weekend, bought my a few packs of condoms.  So yeah, I'm already booked for the easter weekend to vegas with my boys as well.  They are meeting other hmong females from the midwest there.  Gonna be interesting and nasty.
Dam bruh.. you're making me jelly. Not the food and games. But dam, those buck wild nights are gonna be fun. Send me some pix of those Hmong chicks. Lmao
Title: Re: Your date uses a coupon to pay on your first date.
Post by: Reporter on February 14, 2020, 07:51:18 AM
A chick treated me to this fancy restaurant. She was using a coupon. Then it turned out the bill came with a $16.00 due after all things have been credited and paid for by her in advance. I offered to pay that. So, I added $10.00 tip to it.

Did I just void her coupon? :2funny: :2funny:
Title: Re: Your date uses a coupon to pay on your first date.
Post by: Joycompany on February 27, 2020, 01:02:24 PM
Men, please do not use coupon on first date.  Not even on the 5th date.  Heck, if you're going to use coupon don't go on a date.   O0
Title: Re: Your date uses a coupon to pay on your first date.
Post by: Griffith on February 27, 2020, 11:29:44 PM
Men, please do not use coupon on first date.  Not even on the 5th date.  Heck, if you're going to use coupon don't go on a date.   O0
heck no.. what's wrong with that?.
Title: Re: Your date uses a coupon to pay on your first date.
Post by: Joycompany on February 28, 2020, 12:50:11 AM
heck no.. what's wrong with that?.

If he's going to use a coupon, let a sister buy the own meal.  I won't mind if we're in a relationship and he tells me ahead of time that he has a coupon.   If i'm not worth a few meals on our first dates, I don't think he's ready for dating. 
Title: Re: Your date uses a coupon to pay on your first date.
Post by: Niello on March 25, 2020, 04:12:24 PM
Does this turn you off? As a first impression, would this be a deal breaker?

That's a real good question. I have not experience this so I wouldn't know what to say.
Title: Re: Your date uses a coupon to pay on your first date.
Post by: Griffith on March 31, 2020, 07:08:45 PM
If he's going to use a coupon, let a sister buy the own meal.  I won't mind if we're in a relationship and he tells me ahead of time that he has a coupon.   If i'm not worth a few meals on our first dates, I don't think he's ready for dating.
so if we went on a date, and I've just used a coupon to pay or discount our meals. Means I'm too cheap or under qualifie  for you?. Boi, fancy, fancy.
Title: Re: Your date uses a coupon to pay on your first date.
Post by: Joycompany on November 02, 2020, 02:26:10 AM
so if we went on a date, and I've just used a coupon to pay or discount our meals. Means I'm too cheap or under qualifie  for you?. Boi, fancy, fancy.

I'm saying you're not ready for dating.  That's all.